YOU WERE LUCKY TO BE SAVED BY MOTHER[N]'S REVELATION! CONGRATULATIONS!
Yes! indeed what matters is good character and a heart aka a GOOD HUMAN BEING.
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flirting is not easy when the women are covered up in a mobile bag.So it's no wonder you have not had great success at it[from the way you wrote 'TRIES'].Moreover if you keep your 'revelation' in mind and be true to it,it would be impossible for you to be an asshole,so straight off you become 'FLIRT WORTHY' and might end up facing an embarrassment of riches.All the very best to you and for Mother[n]'s sake don't let it be aimless,she needs us to perpetuate the human race!
The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion.
Thomas Paine
Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored !- Aldous Huxley