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Topic: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.

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- Jinn and Tonic
- My Place is the Placeless, the Trace of the Traceless
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #30 - August 07, 2011, 03:17 PM

Also, when i was a christian, I was a student of theology, and know the bible pretty
well. When I converted to Islam, I read the surah about Isa and Mirium. It is
TOTALLY messed up! How did mirium (the mother of isa) suddenly become
mirium (the sister of harun)? Harun, Musah, and Mirum lived THOUSANDS
of YEARS earlier than "mirium", the mother if ISA!!

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
Helen Keller
- turkishwoman
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #31 - August 07, 2011, 03:20 PM

how long have u practicing Islam?

sorry for my bad english, I hope u all can understand me
- Jinn and Tonic
- My Place is the Placeless, the Trace of the Traceless
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #32 - August 07, 2011, 03:30 PM

I understand you pefectly! I was a practicing, faithful muslim for
about two years. I just couldnt become blind to all the errors in the
koran anymore. Plus, my masjid was a mess! Really fucked up.
I practiced most of the time by myself, but I did always pray fivce times
a day, and was a hijabi.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
Helen Keller
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #33 - August 07, 2011, 03:39 PM

sometimes I think for myself "Islam is the truth, thats the right way" because while I am believing I saw good things in my life. Good things had happen to me, like a present. but sometimes when I try to think logical then it doesn´t make any sense to me. I have converted friends too. they r happy with their Islamic life now.
- Jinn and Tonic
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #34 - August 07, 2011, 03:49 PM

TurkishWoman.. but thats human nature. It feels "good" and comfortable
to have someone else in charge and responsible, no? I started doing dawa
too.

For some people, religion does good for them. I am not one of those
people, and I was very religious (both christian and muslim) for over
30 years LOL It was VERY difficult to let go of god. To realize that
he never existed as I thought he did. It was like grief, when somone
dies. But now, I am living a happy, full life, with no regrets, and I am
in charge of my own life, with no threats or fear. I am not afraid of
ghosts or jinns, cuz i realized, they dont even exist! LOL

Also, I have died twice, and was revived. There were no angels, no
jinns, no god, and no shaytan either time. Just beautiful experiences.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
Helen Keller
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #35 - August 08, 2011, 12:45 AM

ok, well I have to think more about it. I´m doubting but haven´t left Islam yet. we´ll see...
- Jinn and Tonic
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #36 - August 08, 2011, 01:04 AM

TurkishWoman... you dont have to leave Just because I no longer
believe, Im not trying to make you a kaffir

I just tried to give a short response to explain to you why I left.

I realize that some people are much happier and feel safer with
a religion.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
Helen Keller
- Bazooka
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #37 - August 08, 2011, 04:29 AM

Quote from: Jinn and Tonic on August 07, 2011, 03:49 PM
Also, I have died twice, and was revived. There were no angels, no
jinns, no god, and no shaytan either time. Just beautiful experiences.

Just wondering; what exactly were the beautiful experiences?
- turkishwoman
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #38 - August 08, 2011, 07:07 AM

and I have a question: "how can I put a picture on my profile?"
- strangestdude
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #39 - August 16, 2011, 05:48 PM

Welcome,

glad to see you're finding support here.

An alternative to religion;

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2nfXfTg92E

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWNW-NXEudk
- Hallakuf
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #40 - August 17, 2011, 04:08 PM

Quote from: turkishwoman on August 08, 2011, 07:07 AM
and I have a question: "how can I put a picture on my profile?"

You obviously managed to do that. I like your avatar!

Religion is organized superstition
- Adey5
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #41 - August 17, 2011, 07:26 PM

Hi turkishwoman.
I am a male non-muslim from UK. I wish you all the best on your pathway to free-thought. It may be slow and secretive and I happen to agree with MIghty_Cats. You may have to stay in the closet to friends and family,and go through the usual rituals, at least for a while, but no-one can take your own thoughts away from you.
There are many people on this site more experiences or 'qualified' to give you advice than I am, but this is an important first step.

HAve you tried contacting a Turkish Atheists group? I think there is one on facebook :-)

I am better than your god......and so are you.

"Is the man who buys a magic rock, really more gullible than the man who buys an invisible magic rock?.......,...... At least the first guy has a rock!"
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #42 - August 17, 2011, 07:33 PM

Hi turkishwoman

What about this site http://ateizm.org/

:-)

I am better than your god......and so are you.

"Is the man who buys a magic rock, really more gullible than the man who buys an invisible magic rock?.......,...... At least the first guy has a rock!"
- strangestdude
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Re: A muslima, married and happy with my husband but thinking to leave Islam.
Reply #43 - August 17, 2011, 08:06 PM

Quote from: Jinn and Tonic on August 07, 2011, 03:49 PM
Just beautiful experiences.

You keep teasing me Jinn. When you gonna share them with us?

An alternative to religion;

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2nfXfTg92E

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWNW-NXEudk
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