Interesting. As every action has an equal and opposite reaction are those left behind becoming more extreme because the thinkers have got out?
Yep. I've done the same thing though. I left both my country and my community.
I was born in Africa, so I didn't leave my country due to Islamism. But it's actually the same kind of issue. Due to political turmoil, most of the professional and educated class began fleeing. It wasn't war like and people didn't leave out of absolute destitution... but they left simply because it was better overseas. I don't blame anyone... and I certainly don't blame myself. It was the best thing my family could do. But then I look back as my old country continues to get worse and they almost beg the professionals to return... I wonder if it is just too easy to get out. I feel especially intellectually stunted by it when I think that us leaving was in reality the problem.
Even here, in Canada... I know of a few almost athiest Muslims who still stick it out in the family environment. They don't come out with their athiesm, but they make remarks at functions... maintain a very liberal household and the kids grow up quite liberal. I think to myself, it is better for a community to be like that than for people to leave it.
In truth, my community is not that bad. I could have probably stayed a part of it to change it for the better... but yes... it is now overrun by others because we left it. Even our mosque used to be quite liberal... The guy who used to administer it was quite secular... I used to work for him (actual work... not mosque work). He never prayed... but was almost cultural about it. Not a niqaabi in sight. Now it is headed by a imaam whose wife is a niqaabi. Every year it gets more conservative. There's not a liberal youth in our community who would be a part of the mosque like he did to make it more tolerable.
I don't know... just random thoughts. Do I have the right to be so critical about Islam when I don't have the time of day to push my views in my community?