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  • 11 year old Nada Al-Ahdal_ They have killed My Dreams, says
     OP - July 22, 2013, 11:46 PM

    They have killed My Dreams, They have killed everything in me, Go ahead marry me off .. I will Kill myself ,


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-J7_TKgw1To

    hu! ...... that is 11 year old  Nada Al-Ahdal_.., My hats of to you little angel. And my hats of to your uncle for saving your life..

    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim
     
  • 11 year old Nada Al-Ahdal_ They have killed My Dreams, says
     Reply #1 - July 22, 2013, 11:58 PM

    "Early marriage fears of Nada Al-Ahdal are fabricated" says her parents, interior ministry officials, 

     
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    Earlier this week local and foreign media picked up on their radar the incredible story of a young Yemeni school girl, Nada al-Ahdal, as 11-years-old who claims to have fled her parental residence by fear of being forcibly married to a much older man, as per arranged by her father an mother.
    Only Nada's claims are fabrications, according to her parents and prominent rights NGO Siyaj.
    Unsatisfied with Nada's account of events, her serious claims and allegations, the Yemen Post investigative team went to work, only to discover that the child had been coerced into making video, her testimony scripted by her uncle and her tale a web of lies.

    Both Siyaj Child Rights organization, and Yemen interior ministry have officially flagged Nada's video as not concrete or enough evidence of what she is claiming. "Nada heard rumors from others that her parents were going to get her married. She never heard it from her father or mother and she built her claims on this," said Ahmed Al-Qershi, President of Siyaj.
    Nada's family told the Yemen Post there was never a marriage to be have as Nada was neither engaged nor promised to anyone due to her young age.  Moreover, Nada has been living with her uncle for the past 18 months, thus never actually ran way. It is important to note that while Nada has been living under her uncle's care, the latter does not have legal custody.

    It appears that the media were too blindsided by Nada's frank and open demeanor to ever question her motives, her allegations and basic facts. Just as Nujood Ali's divorce caught the imagination of Western media back in 2008 when from the height of her 8 years she asked a judge to grant her a divorce, Nada's video testimony is fast becoming the cornerstone of rights activists' anti-child marriage campaign, as it relaunched and fueled anew the old polemic, secular versus religious rhetorics.

    The eloquent and precocious young girl, boldly alleged that her parents threatened to kill her should she defy their wishes and fail to wed the man they had chosen for her. She went on decrying such "criminal" behaviour stressing that if it hadn't been for the support of her uncle she would have ended yet another statistic on Yemen's child marriage board of shame. While child marriage remains an issue to be debated Nada' story should not and cannot be in any way, shape or form be associated to other cases of abuse or forces marriages as her tale carries no true substance.

    And that is from Yemeni News paper

    well what is true and what is not true.. who knows.. allah knows the best..

    But even if it is a lie my hats of to that girl.. Sure she has saved many 11 year olds.. other kids  will learn from her and Muslims bums.. the Muslim Abu BAKHRAS  who are thinking of marrying a 11 year old child will think twice..

    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim
     
  • 11 year old Nada Al-Ahdal_ They have killed My Dreams, says
     Reply #2 - July 23, 2013, 12:06 AM

    She is the bravest little girl. How unimaginable that this is what she has had to fight against at merely 11 years old. What struck me the most were the power of her words, and her strength; wiser than most of the adults she was surrounded with. She asks 'why' and I don't think any of us really have an answer; only that we must work to stop this happening.

    Rhett Butler: With enough courage, you can do without a reputation.
  • 11 year old Nada Al-Ahdal_ They have killed My Dreams, says
     Reply #3 - July 23, 2013, 01:54 AM

    Check the DM version, little different. I'll have a look at the Guardian soon, some international media after that..

    A harrowing video has been posted on online of an 11-year-old Yemeni girl who claims she ran away to escape an arranged marriage.


    Nada al-Ahdal says she was only saved from the forced engagement after her uncle intervened.


    'Go ahead and marry me off - I'll kill myself,' she warns in the video, dated July 8, and posted on YouTube.


    'Don't they have any compassion?' I'm better off dead. I'd rather die.'

    She continues: 'It’s not [the kids'] fault. I’m not the only one. It can happen to any child.'


    'Some children decided to throw themselves into the sea, they’re dead now. They have killed our dreams, they have killed everything inside us. There’s nothing left. There is no upbringing. This is criminal, this is simply criminal.'


    In the video filmed in a car, she explains why she does not want to leave her family home saying: 'I would have had no life, no education,' she says in the video.


    The video which can not be independently verified was filmed by the Middle East Media Research Institute - it finishes with her stating: 'I'm done with you, you ruined my dreams.'

    The schoolgirl. one of eight children, was taken in by her  uncle Abdel Salam al-Ahdal, when she was aged three.


    But when a  Yemeni expatriate living in Saudi Arabia asked her parents if he could marry her, they readily agreed.


    In an interview with National Yemen, Nada accuses her mother of arranging the marriage for profit.


    'But I'm not an item for sale,' she says.

     'I'm a human being and I would rather die than get married at this age.'


    Nada, has an 18-year-old sister who has already been engaged many times.


    Her parents accepted each new proposal and took a partial down payment for a bride price.


    They would then postpone the marriage until the groom had accumulated enough money before  ending the engagement and keeping the down payment.


    Her uncle was horrified his young niece who lived with him, his son and his elderly mother was being married off


    He told NOW: 'When I heard about the groom, I panicked. Nada was not even 11 years old; she was exactly 10 years and 3 months. I could not allow her to be married off and have her future destroyed, especially since her aunt was forced to marry at 13 and burnt herself.

    'I did all I could to prevent that marriage. I called the groom and told him Nada was no good for him. I told him she did not wear the veil and he asked if things were going to remain like that. I said ‘yes, and I agree because she chose it. I also told him that she liked singing and asked if he would remain engaged to her.'

    Her parents were not happy the engagement was called off and demanded that Nada be returned home to them.


    But following her return home,  Nada disappeared after her parents tried to marry her off again against her will.


    When her uncle found her again, he informed authorities and Nada was eventually allowed to return to live with her uncle, her father's brother - she then posted the horrifying video online.


    The practice of marrying young girls is widespread in Yemen and has drawn the attention of international rights groups seeking to pressure the government to outlaw child marriages.


    Yemen's gripping poverty plays a role in hindering efforts to stamp out the practice, as poor families find themselves unable to say no to bride-prices in the hundreds of dollars for their daughters.


    More than a quarter of Yemen's females marry before age 15, according to a report in 2010 by the Social Affairs Ministry.


    Tribal custom also plays a role, including the belief that a young bride can be shaped into an obedient wife, bear more children and be kept away from temptation.


    The practice of marrying young girls is widespread in Yemen and has attracted the attention of international rights groups seeking to pressure the government to outlaw child marriages.


    Yemen's gripping poverty plays a role in hindering efforts to stamp out the practice, as poor families find themselves unable to say no to bride-prices in the hundreds of dollars for their daughters.


    More than a quarter of Yemen's females marry before age 15, according to a report in 2010 by the Social Affairs Ministry.


    Tribal custom also plays a role, including the belief that a young bride can be shaped into an obedient wife, bear more children and be kept away from temptation.

    In September 2010, a 12-year-old Yemeni child-bride died after struggling for three days in labour to give birth, a local human rights organisation said.


    Yemen once set 15 as the minimum age for marriage, but parliament annulled that law in the 1990s, saying parents should decide when a daughter marries


    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2373151/Nada-Al-Ahdal-Escaped-Yemeni-child-bride-11-explains-ran-away-home.html?offset=100&max=100#comment-34859018

    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • 11 year old Nada Al-Ahdal_ They have killed My Dreams, says
     Reply #4 - July 25, 2013, 05:57 PM

    More update on the  11 year old Nada Al-Ahdal

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RdsT_R3CDUU&feature=c4-overview&list=UUpBvIBfZ-foo5ZbLH5O0N4g



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