Read this article and more importantly the comments, the girl is saying it's culture and not Islam that is at fault. Islam is a peaceful religion and her culture is one that promotes violence.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1210799/My-mother-hired-hitman-kill-The-shocking-story-Muslim-woman-parents-disapproved-Western-lifestyle.htmlI think criticizing culture is a cop out, or at least very simplistic most of the times. It would mean there is no difference between these cultures:
Muslim Arabs
Jewish Arabs
Christian Arabs
Secular Arabs
(Other religions) Arabs
Of course you can find similarities but what does that exactly mean? First of all there are different countries, different social levels, and educational systems, can people really say Arab culture is then x and not y?
Can one say all South Asians are the same? Even the different religious groups? I'm sure there are similarities but again what creates theses similarities and differences?
My question is where are the rules that are written down for culture? Do the rules change? What changes them?
We have now a community of ex-muslims, can we talk about a culture yet? Are there certain things we do and say? Can we change our behaviors and ideas and therefore change our culture? I would say yes. But these are unwritten rules.
When people criticize culture instead of Islam it makes me wonder. When you see the same negatives and positives across very different communities can we then still talk about a culture? If so, what culture? I would call it an Islamic culture. A culture based, or influenced by Islamic doctrines. To just say "that's culture and not Islam" is something we hear from the liberal left and muslims.
Is there a difference between culture and religion? How can we separate the two? How can we point at a certain behavior or idea and go this is culture and this is religion.