Hmm, just I would prefer to have kids in my late twenties, so I'm young and have the energy to spend with them. Other than that not sure really why I want to settle so young. Maybe for independance (from parents) and security (as in marriage would make me feel like my partner is less likely to run off so easily with another woman lol) also.
OK that's how you feel but the argument is silly. No offence.
If your husband wants to cheat on you he will and can. No ring or document has stopped any husband or wife from cheating on their partner. Neither has the lack of a ring or documents. The whole institution of marriage is mostly a religious one. The only thing that matters is that you live up to the promises you have made to each other, I’m not gonna use the word vows. But if you have agreed not to cheat on each other that should be enough. Fuck vows, rings, imams and priests and Elvis impersonators fronting as imams or priests.
No, the people that don't cheat don't cheat not because of fear for an institution but for fear of hurting their partner. They wouldn’t cheat even if the had the chance to, even if their partner wouldn’t know about it, they would say “But I will know about it”. There will be religious people who won’t cheat for fear out of God and the holy sacrament of marriage, but I don’t know how moral this is, I mean what if God said you could cheat, would you then do it?
There might be people that think but I'm a married person and therefore I can't cheat. Again I'm not sure how moral this is, is the marriage more important than the person you're together with? Shouldn't the reason first and foremost be I can't because I've made a promise not to cheat on her? Of course it can help having a ring and being married, this can be a force that pushes away those thoughts and intentions of cheating. But I would say the best is a person that wouldn't cheat for any reason other than hurting their partner. Have the balls to stick up for your partner and not because of some ring.
Personally I think the only fair thing you can do if you want to cheat on your partner is to tell her up front.
“Honey I'm going to cheat on you, here's a pic of who I’m doing.”
And then you will have to accept whatever she does, whether that's getting kicked in the nuts, getting dumped or her having sex with the milkman. And enjoying it.
Topic: Marriage