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  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #120 - July 25, 2010, 04:35 PM
    you're not the only one, I could say I'm afraid, but i'm technically not,
    I just assume that they'll laugh at me for some odd reason, so i get all shy and embrassed and run everytime a man is near me.
    Sucks because when I get shy, my whole face goes red, it's hard not to notice it
    i avoid men like a plague because of that.
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #121 - July 25, 2010, 04:43 PM
    Quote from: hannah on July 25, 2010, 04:35 PM
    you're not the only one, I could say I'm afraid, but i'm technically not,
    I just assume that they'll laugh at me for some odd reason, so i get all shy and embrassed and run everytime a man is near me.
    Sucks because when I get shy, my whole face goes red, it's hard not to notice it
    i avoid men like a plague because of that.


    Your girl friends could help you out with that one.  Get them to find you someone and push you to meeting anyone you think is good for you, if your shyness gets the better of you.
    "Modern man's great illusion has been to convince himself that of all that has gone before he represents the zenith of human accomplishment, but can't summon the mental powers to read anything more demanding than emoticons. Fascinating. "

    One very horny Turk I met on the net.
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #122 - July 25, 2010, 04:52 PM
    Quote from: ras111 on July 25, 2010, 04:43 PM
    Your girl friends could help you out with that one.  Get them to find you someone and push you to meeting anyone you think is good for you, if your shyness gets the better of you.


    My friends are muslims girls who are just as shy as me, they just don't go red.
    So i'm going to have to work this all out for myself.

  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #123 - July 25, 2010, 05:00 PM
    Quote from: hannah on July 25, 2010, 04:52 PM
    My friends are muslims girls who are just as shy as me, they just don't go red.
    So i'm going to have to work this all out for myself.

     

    All you need my dear, is a bit of self confidence in the end.  Get to know yourself better and while you're at it try to find ways of getting a little more used to guys.  You'll get there don't worry.   Wink
    "Modern man's great illusion has been to convince himself that of all that has gone before he represents the zenith of human accomplishment, but can't summon the mental powers to read anything more demanding than emoticons. Fascinating. "

    One very horny Turk I met on the net.
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #124 - July 25, 2010, 05:26 PM
    Quote from: ras111 on July 25, 2010, 05:00 PM


    All you need my dear, is a bit of self confidence in the end.  Get to know yourself better and while you're at it try to find ways of getting a little more used to guys.  You'll get there don't worry.   Wink


    Thank you, I'll get their soon, I'm IT student who'll have to deal with many males around.
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #125 - July 25, 2010, 06:03 PM
    Talk to guys online on facebook or something that might help
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #126 - July 25, 2010, 06:39 PM
    Quote from: XxThaminaxX on July 25, 2010, 06:03 PM
    Talk to guys online on facebook or something that might help


    heheh
    Quote from: thinkfree on September 28, 2010, 07:58 PM
    Iblis has mad debaterin' skillz. Best not step up unless you're prepared to recieve da pain.

  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #127 - July 25, 2010, 06:45 PM
    It does help-a lot! Especially if you get flirty with them. As a 16 yr old I was well scared of talking to guys by the time I was 18 I was confident enough to talk to guys in their 20s  Smiley
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #128 - July 25, 2010, 08:06 PM
    Nothing makes up for the real thing.
    So once again I'm left with the classic Irish man's dilemma, do I eat the potato or do I let it ferment so I can drink it later?
    My political philosophy below
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwGat4i8pJI&feature=g-vrec
    Just kidding, here are some true heros
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBTgvK6LQqA
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #129 - July 25, 2010, 08:31 PM
    Yeah, I used to MSN with girls all the time in high school and early uni. It didn't help one bit in making me any less nervous.
    Quote from: thinkfree on September 28, 2010, 07:58 PM
    Iblis has mad debaterin' skillz. Best not step up unless you're prepared to recieve da pain.

  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #130 - July 30, 2010, 05:26 PM
    Quote from: deusvult on July 25, 2010, 08:06 PM
    Nothing makes up for the real thing.



    true deal. I can talk to any man online, but i'll still go red and run away in real.
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #131 - July 30, 2010, 05:28 PM
    I always lower my gaze when touched by a man.
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #132 - July 30, 2010, 05:30 PM
    I don't get people being more outgoing and confident online or over the phone than in real life. Is this a generation gap thing?
    fuck you
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #133 - July 30, 2010, 05:32 PM
    It is very hard to express myself in real life without the aid of emoticons  mysmilie_977
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #134 - July 30, 2010, 06:07 PM
    Quote from: Q-Man on July 30, 2010, 05:30 PM
    I don't get people being more outgoing and confident online or over the phone than in real life. Is this a generation gap thing?

    A degree of social phobia perhaps.  Huh?
    "Many people would sooner die than think; In fact, they do so." -- Bertrand Russell

    Baloney Detection Kit
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #135 - July 30, 2010, 07:00 PM
    I'm an extrovert, however, if I meet a guy that gives me butterflies in
    my tummy, I stutter, and usually wind up running away LOL. 
    Especially when they smile and give  me the "look", and I  feel
    the same way.
    When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
    Helen Keller
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #136 - July 31, 2010, 12:10 AM
    It could be a generation gap problem..............

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfsQ7hoF7mg
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #137 - July 31, 2010, 12:24 AM
    Quote from: Q-Man on July 30, 2010, 05:30 PM
    I don't get people being more outgoing and confident online or over the phone than in real life. Is this a generation gap thing?

    i think it.is more like confidence issue. i can do things far away different that face to face.
    phone and internet provide the option of 'if you arent confident . it is cool'
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  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #138 - July 31, 2010, 04:08 AM
    Kod. It shows!! I blush! LOL  That in itself makes me embarrassed lol!!
    not sure its lack of confidence though.
    When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
    Helen Keller
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #139 - July 31, 2010, 05:20 AM
    where are all these vulnerable women Cheesy i seem to be surrounded by total bitches.
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #140 - August 03, 2010, 06:14 PM
    Hmmm... though I was only a Muslim for four months, as an apostate, I see more now how asexual I am. I had to repress my lack of sexual desires as a Muslim because that could get thorny too (at least the Muslims I knew told me that). Whenever I think of intimacy with any man, I get the same feelings. As I wasn't a Muslim long, some of it was rooted in bad relationships before my turning Muslim, some really bad things as a Muslim, but I might suggest therapy. I'm thinking of going back.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


    "The wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi

  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #141 - December 19, 2010, 02:18 PM
    I'm an ex-Catholic and ex-Muslim with me being born Catholic. Catholicism and Islam are the same thing really. I feel the same way as you, but mine is more health related.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


    "The wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi

  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #142 - December 19, 2010, 03:15 PM
    Catholicism made me look at sex as sick and disgusting. Cry
  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #143 - December 19, 2010, 03:46 PM
    Yep, that's Catholicism. Islam puts it like that except in marriage.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


    "The wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi

  • Re: Fear of Men
     Reply #144 - December 19, 2010, 09:15 PM
    ..and in heaven
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