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  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #270 - June 30, 2010, 07:45 PM


    Did you not read what was written. Menses develops 2-2.5 years after breast development. Menses is one of the later stages of puberty.


    "The onset of the menstrual cycles (menarche) begins about 2 to 2 1/2 years after the onset of breast development."

    I'll admit I have no idea how long it takes for breasts to develop, or what they look like after however many years of development.

    [/quote]1. Are we really being honest with ourselves here.[/quote]

    Yes.

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    2. many grown women have don't have an hourglass figure. Waist to hip ratio is due to bodyfat in the hips/thighs. The article mentioned bodyfat. Maybe you should read it again.

     

    There's nothing relevant about body fat that I can see.

    From wiki, "During this period [after menses], also in response to rising levels of estrogen, the lower half of the pelvis widens. This prepares the body for the time when she will give birth by enlarging the birth canal. Fat tissue increases to a greater percentage of the body composition than in males, especially in the typical female distribution of breasts, hips, and thighs. This produces the typical female body shape. Also, the fat goes to the buttocks of a girl, giving their buttocks more shape and curve."

    This all happens while her body is still developing to the point where she has a regular menstrual cycle, which can take more than 2 years after the first one.

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    3, could you please mention more of them if there are lots?


    *thinks back to sex-ed classes*. Well there are some ^^ there, and erm, hair in various places (armpits etc)? :/

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    hotlink fail. and showing a picture of a 9 year old really has no bearing on what aisha looked like.


    Yeh, I said we have no idea what Aisha looked like, but I can make judgements based on the 9 year olds I've seen. I could not magine being sexually attracted to them, at 19, never mind 50-odd. [/quote]

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    This is exactly my point. You would rather lie and slander someone than make intellectually honest arguments. (this is the behaviour of many ex muslims). This may be due to lack of knowledge in regards to the religion.


    Not really, I can't remember using the Mo was a pedo line when seriously criticising Islam. But people use it here and I don't mind because 1) I couldn't care less and 2) It's damn funny.

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    He would have wanted to marry her when she reached puberty ss did every other arab at the time. (and the rest of the world.)


    Evidence?

    Puberty is a process, there is a massive difference between what girls look like at the begining, during, and after puberty.

    This girl apparently gave birth, so she had obviously had her first period. If a 50-odd year old man told me he wanted to fuck her I would call him a pedo and a sick bastard, no question.



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    Haha you can believe whatever you want but if you don't think that 12 year olds are having sex you are crazy. I really don't want to waste my time proving this to you either.


    ...... I was kidding.....

    And like I said, there is a differnce between 2 12 year olds having sex, and a 50-odd year old man having sex with a 9 year old. But I really don't want to waste my time proving this to you.....

    [/quote]I agree with your views. I was referring to a relationship i had WHEN I WAS 12.

    But if you call say a older man has a problem if he marries a 12 year old you are basically saying that most men in history are sexual deviants. (i provided proof of this practice...I could provide more if you want)[/quote]

    So?

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    PS: it seems when you were confronted with rational arguments that you couldn't answer you began to get irrational and act hostile. You are throwing intellectual honesty out the window due to your emotions.


    I am perfectly calm.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #271 - June 30, 2010, 07:46 PM

    Before we get to the homophobia thing, I want clarification....

    The first part of the ayat refers to those who are menopausal, ("Such of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses").  Who does the second part refer to?  You seem to be claiming that the ayat refers to menopausal women twice.  


    The first part of the ayah does not refer to those who are menopausal. Passed their monthly courses means "post pubescent". If you want we can get a fluent Arabic speaker (debunker or hassan) to explain the verse if you don't understand.

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #272 - June 30, 2010, 07:49 PM

    Yes, I would prefer to hear it from a fluent Arabic speaker.

    "Befriend them not, Oh murtads, and give them neither parrot nor bunny."  - happymurtad's advice on trolls.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #273 - June 30, 2010, 07:49 PM

    I saw the pic. That girl is obviously pre-pubescent so it is irrelevant and posting it is only intended as shock tactic and this type of argument is intellectually bankrupt.


    Actually, there were pics of 9 year old who looked closer to 5, I thought that ^ was an average pic. :/

    My sister is 10, when I pick her up from school, I've neer seen one of her class-mates who would remotely interest most men on here sexually. Not even close. May be I live in the wrong area. *puts on pedo face*
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #274 - June 30, 2010, 07:51 PM

    Actually, there were pics of 9 year old who looked closer to 5, I thought that ^ was an average pic. :/

    My sister is 10, when I pick her up from school, I've neer seen one of her class-mates who would remotely interest most men on here sexually. Not even close. May be I live in the wrong area. *puts on pedo face*


    It would be like me saying every single african american is really tall. and then only posting pics of NBA players

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #275 - June 30, 2010, 07:52 PM

    Yes, I would prefer to hear it from a fluent Arabic speaker.


    So you refuse to answer my questions until then?

    What if I post every single tafsir of the ayah?

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #276 - June 30, 2010, 07:53 PM

    I've already read tafsir of the ayah that give a different interpretation to the one you just gave.  Anyway, I'm gone for the night, argue whatever points with someone else, and we'll pick it up tomorrow with an Arabic speaker on the forum.

    "Befriend them not, Oh murtads, and give them neither parrot nor bunny."  - happymurtad's advice on trolls.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #277 - June 30, 2010, 07:55 PM

    I have been unable to find a hadith where aisha literally says "and then I had my menses"


    Lol. Don't you think you should do that?
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #278 - June 30, 2010, 07:58 PM

    @ cheetah

    Please let me appeal to your common sense...

    If this ayah refers to pre-pubescent girls why does every single Muslim scholar on the planet agree that it is haram to have sex with girls before their menses?

    Before you say Muhammad married her before her menses...

    Islamic marriage is only official once you "consumate it" by having sex. (they were only "engaged" before that)

    If I sign a marriage contract with a woman but never consumate it i was never married to her. The ayah in question refers to "iddah".

    A woman would not have to wait the "iddah" if we signed a contract but never consumated the marriage with sex.

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #279 - June 30, 2010, 07:58 PM

    I've already read tafsir of the ayah that give a different interpretation to the one you just gave.  Anyway, I'm gone for the night, argue whatever points with someone else, and we'll pick it up tomorrow with an Arabic speaker on the forum.


    lol waht tafisr was that? Roll Eyes

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #280 - June 30, 2010, 08:00 PM

    Lol. Don't you think you should do that?


    I posted evidence from the quran and the cultural practices of the arabs.

    Prince you are not being rational.

    Please find me a hadith where it says "aisha didn't have a penis growing out of her forehead" Roll Eyes

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #281 - June 30, 2010, 08:01 PM

    The first part of the ayat refers to those who are menopausal, ("Such of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses").  Who does the second part refer to?  You seem to be claiming that the ayat refers to menopausal women twice.  


    I discussed this with Hassan once, here was my veiw:

    The first three verses in the surah as you point out are referring to women in general - so therefore women who are menstruating - if women have their period then divorce can go ahead. Verse 4, the verse in question, deals more specifically with women who may possibly be preganant or who are pregnant since it is God's wish that the newborn is delivered before any divorce is finalised. Obviously those 'women who haven't menstruated'/'who have not had their courses' i.e. women who have have missed there initial expected period, may be pregnant and they must therefore wait an additional three months to confirm whether they are indeed pregnant (obviously since there were no pregnancy tests etc. in those days - but after this stage it should be obvious). So women can not be excused on the grounds that they have a problem which stops them menstrauting (i.e. anorexia, hormonal imbalance) or even if they are menopausal. If after the additional three months they are still not mesturating but that it is found that they are not in fact pregnant (it should be quite obvious by this stage) the divorce can be finalised.

    In addition part of my reasoning comes from the fact that the verse does not say something along the lines of ''women who 'do not yet' menstruate'' but simply says 'women who haven't menstruated'/'who have not had their courses' indicating it might refer to women in general who have missed their initial expected period rather than young girls.


    Verses:

    1. O Prophet! when you divorce women, divorce them for~ their prescribed time, and calculate the number of the days prescribed, and be careful of (your duty to) Allah, your Lord. Do not drive them out of their houses, nor should they themselves go forth, unless they commit an open indecency; and these are the limits of Allah, and whoever goes beyond the limits of Allah, he indeed does injustice to his own soul. You do not know that Allah may after that bring about reunion.

    2. So when they have reached their prescribed time, then retain them with kindness or separate them with kindness, and call to witness two men of justice from among you, and give upright testimony for Allah. With that is admonished he who believes in Allah and the latter day; and whoever is careful of (his duty to) Allah, He will make for him an outlet,

    3. And give him sustenance from whence he thinks not; and whoever trusts in Allah, He is sufficient for him; surely Allah attains His purpose; Allah indeed has appointed a measure for everything.

    4. And (as for) those of your women who have despaired of menstruation, if you have a doubt, their prescribed time shall be three months, and of those too who have not had their courses; and (as for) the pregnant women, their prescribed time is that they lay down their burden; and whoever is careful of (his duty to) Allah He will make easy for him his affair.

    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #282 - June 30, 2010, 08:01 PM

    It would be like me saying every single african american is really tall. and then only posting pics of NBA players



    "Actually, there were pics of 9 year old who looked closer to 5, I thought that ^ was an average pic. :/"

  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #283 - June 30, 2010, 08:04 PM

    This user is currently ignored.

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #284 - June 30, 2010, 08:05 PM

    I posted evidence from the quran and the cultural practices of the arabs.


    Prince you are not being rational. [/quote]

    Nuh-uh, stats mean nothing to the individual. Most men aren't rapists, doesn't mean rapists don't exist. This whole argument was based on the premise that Aisha had had her first period, now you can't even prove that?

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    Please find me a hadith where it says "aisha didn't have a penis growing out of her forehead" Roll Eyes


    Wait, you mean she didn't?!
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #285 - June 30, 2010, 08:08 PM

    I discussed this with Hassan once, here was my veiw:

    The first three verses in the surah as you point out are referring to women in general - so therefore women who are menstruating - if women have their period then divorce can go ahead. Verse 4, the verse in question, deals more specifically with women who may possibly be preganant or who are pregnant since it is God's wish that the newborn is delivered before any divorce is finalised. Obviously those 'women who haven't menstruated' i.e. women who have have missed there initial expected period, may be pregnant and they must therefore wait an additional three months to confirm whether they are indeed pregnant (obviously since there were no pregnancy tests etc. in those days - but after this stage it should be obvious). So women can not be excused on the grounds that they have a problem which stops them menstrauting (i.e. anorexia, hormonal imbalance) or even if they are menopausal. If after the additional three months they are still not mesturating but that it is found that they are not in fact pregnant (it should be quite obvious by this stage) the divorce can be finalised.

    In addition part of my reasoning comes from the fact that the verse does not say something along the lines of ''women who 'do not yet' menstruate'' but simply says 'women who haven't menstruated' indicating it might refer to women in general who have missed their initial expected period rather than young girls.


    Verses:

    1. O Prophet! when you divorce women, divorce them for~ their prescribed time, and calculate the number of the days prescribed, and be careful of (your duty to) Allah, your Lord. Do not drive them out of their houses, nor should they themselves go forth, unless they commit an open indecency; and these are the limits of Allah, and whoever goes beyond the limits of Allah, he indeed does injustice to his own soul. You do not know that Allah may after that bring about reunion.

    2. So when they have reached their prescribed time, then retain them with kindness or separate them with kindness, and call to witness two men of justice from among you, and give upright testimony for Allah. With that is admonished he who believes in Allah and the latter day; and whoever is careful of (his duty to) Allah, He will make for him an outlet,

    3. And give him sustenance from whence he thinks not; and whoever trusts in Allah, He is sufficient for him; surely Allah attains His purpose; Allah indeed has appointed a measure for everything.

    4. And (as for) those of your women who have despaired of menstruation, if you have a doubt, their prescribed time shall be three months, and of those too who have not had their courses; and (as for) the pregnant women, their prescribed time is that they lay down their burden; and whoever is careful of (his duty to) Allah He will make easy for him his affair.



    Thank you.

    Abu Yunus you are a rational person. I'm being hated on here for just posting rational arguments.

    People (black dog and cheetah) are suggesting that Muhammad had sex with a pre-pubescent girl!!!

    Nobody in history has ever suggested this. It is totally crazy but yet people ask why I think there are unfair arguments being posted on this site. (hassan you are respected here also could you please clarify this issue?)

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #286 - June 30, 2010, 08:08 PM

    This user is currently ignored.


    Heh, this means I can say whatever I like about you and you wouldn't know. Interesting.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #287 - June 30, 2010, 08:10 PM

    Thank you.

    Abu Yunus you are a rational person. I'm being hated on here for just posting rational arguments.

    People (black dog and cheetah) are suggesting that Muhammad had sex with a pre-pubescent girl!!!

    Nobody in history has ever suggested this. It is totally crazy but yet people ask why I think there are unfair arguments being posted on this site. (hassan you are respected here also could you please clarify this issue?)


    You like to fuck 9 year olds?
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #288 - June 30, 2010, 08:11 PM


    Nobody in history has ever suggested this. It is totally crazy but yet people ask why I think there are unfair arguments being posted on this site. (hassan you are respected here also could you please clarify this issue?)


    Please post every word othat anyone has ever uttered, or STFU. If there is no evidence that Aisha had begun menstruating, why should we believe that she did? We're talking about a man who enslaved and fucked young women. Who had 900 people beheaded. Why should we believe he waited til she had reached puberty?
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #289 - June 30, 2010, 08:11 PM

    You like to fuck 9 year olds?


     Roll Eyes you are truly an intellectual giant blackdog.

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #290 - June 30, 2010, 08:13 PM

    Roll Eyes you are truly an intellectual giant blackdog.


    I'm the biggest.

    God that sounds awfully similar to your line doesn't it?

    They make you feel big huh? Cool. Now I know how the small penis gene propagtes. The girls (literally) didn't know better.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #291 - June 30, 2010, 08:15 PM

    I'm the biggest.

    God that sounds awfully similar to your line doesn't it?

    They make you feel big huh? Cool. Now I know how the small penis gene propagtes. The girls (literally) didn't know better.


    Bro please check my pm (im sorry about the intellectual remark)

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #292 - June 30, 2010, 08:17 PM

    i don't know whether to laugh or cry at this thread - i think cry  Cry

    i think DigDug is just comically misunderstood - don't worry - i get you bro

    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #293 - June 30, 2010, 08:20 PM

    i don't know whether to laugh or cry at this thread - i think cry  Cry

    i think DigDug is just comically misunderstood - don't worry - i get you bro


    I just don't understand why people are getting so emotional. me and blackdog used to be cool and now he hates me for some reason.

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #294 - June 30, 2010, 08:21 PM

    Bro please check my pm (im sorry about the intellectual remark)


    OK. It's because you keep going in circles.

    People were pederasts in the past, does this bother me? Slightly, but it's dead and gone. I don't have to stand for it today.

    Muhammad is not like this, if Muhammad was a man of his time then this argument should have ended ages ago. There is no reason to defend him, what he did is in our view disgusting but he's human and lived 1400 years ago. It doesn't make it right but it is what it is.

    You are arguing for his honor, which makes no sense, for an ex-muslim who thinks pedophilia is disgusting. What's your intention behind any of this? If you want muslims to stand up for themselves I'm sure they can. If you want us to have a better outlook on this issue, don't worry I'm sure the people that don't have a good enough outlook would tell you, thank you, you have made me understand the wrongs and rights of this argument.

    You are arguing that Aisha was not prepubescent without being able to refer to menses hadith (its not there) and even though she was 9.

    Your argument is moot. Yet you keep arguing.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #295 - June 30, 2010, 08:27 PM

    i agree with BD we are going in circles. what say we ditch the crazy-talk and all kiss and make up?


    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #296 - June 30, 2010, 08:28 PM

    I just don't understand why people are getting so emotional. me and blackdog used to be cool and now he hates me for some reason.




    COME AT ME BRO!
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #297 - June 30, 2010, 08:30 PM

    OK. It's because you keep going in circles.

    People were pederasts in the past, does this bother me? Slightly, but it's dead and gone. I don't have to stand for it today.


    Bro please don't think I'm arguing for this to be legal in our day and age or agreeing with it in any way (i said this many times).

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    Muhammad is not like this, if Muhammad was a man of his time then this argument should have ended ages ago. There is no reason to defend him, what he did is in our view disgusting but he's human and lived 1400 years ago. It doesn't make it right but it is what it is.


    Granted by why are we singling out him out of all of humanity. How could he have known what he was doing was immoral when it was common practise all over the world?

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    You are arguing for his honor, which makes no sense, for an ex-muslim who thinks pedophilia is disgusting. What's your intention behind any of this? If you want muslims to stand up for themselves I'm sure they can. If you want us to have a better outlook on this issue, don't worry I'm sure the people that don't have a good enough outlook would tell you, thank you, you have made me understand the wrongs and rights of this argument.


    1. I thought the purpose of this site was to show people (true) arguments against Islam so we can help them make an informed decision on whether they still want to be Muslim (correct me if I'm wrong)

    Please don't take offense but if we suggested that Muhammad slept with a pre-pubescent girl nobody will take CEMB seriously.

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    You are arguing that Aisha was not prepubescent without being able to refer to menses hadith (its not there) and even though she was 9.


    To be honest the burden of proof is on you.

    But I provided ample evidence anyways. also...

    If muhammad had sex with a pre-pubescent girl why does every single Muslim scholar on the planet agree that it is haram to have sex with girls before their menses?

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    Your argument is moot. Yet you keep arguing.


    ok your entitled to believe this but why start abusing me?

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #298 - June 30, 2010, 08:33 PM



    COME AT ME BRO!



    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Evolution and Morality
     Reply #299 - June 30, 2010, 09:17 PM

    btw

    And those of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses, for them the 'Iddah (prescribed period), if you have doubts (about their periods), is three months, and for those who have no courses [(i.e. they are still immature) their 'Iddah (prescribed period) is three months likewise, except in case of death]. And for those who are pregnant (whether they are divorced or their husbands are dead), their 'Iddah (prescribed period) is until they deliver (their burdens), and whosoever fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make his matter easy for him. S. 65:4 Hilali-Khan

    Means you can marry them before menses.

    But you can't penetrate them, when you do they have to have menses. That's when the marriage is consummated.

    In effect Muhammad married Aisha when she was 6. And before him she was married and then divorced.

    So no I don't think he was the only one. And no I don't think you are pushing for this.

    The point is that her being pubescent is something we have to take on faith. Since there is no hadith about her reaching menstruation.

    The entire argument is simple, Muhammad was a man of his time. His example in this case should not be followed.
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    Also this

    Divine Orders
    Narrated 'Aisha: That the Prophet said to her, "You have been shown to me twice in my dream. I saw you pictured on a piece of silk and some-one said (to me). 'This is your wife.' When I uncovered the picture, I saw that it was yours. I said, 'If this is from Allah, it will be done."

    Sahih Bukhari 5:58:235, See Also Sahih Bukhari 9:87:140
    Narrated 'Aisha: Allah's Apostle said to me, "You were shown to me twice (in my dream) before I married you. I saw an angel carrying you in a silken piece of cloth, and I said to him, 'Uncover (her),' and behold, it was you. I said (to myself), 'If this is from Allah, then it must happen.' Then you were shown to me, the angel carrying you in a silken piece of cloth, and I said (to him), 'Uncover (her), and behold, it was you. I said (to myself), 'If this is from Allah, then it must happen.' "


    She must have been younger than 6 when he had these dreams. What are your thoughts on that? He ie looked at a young child and thought he wants to be married to her, have sex with her.

    Your thoughts?
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