btw
And those of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses, for them the 'Iddah (prescribed period), if you have doubts (about their periods), is three months, and for those who have no courses [(i.e. they are still immature) their 'Iddah (prescribed period) is three months likewise, except in case of death]. And for those who are pregnant (whether they are divorced or their husbands are dead), their 'Iddah (prescribed period) is until they deliver (their burdens), and whosoever fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make his matter easy for him. S. 65:4 Hilali-Khan
Means you can marry them before menses.
But you can't penetrate them, when you do they have to have menses. That's when the marriage is consummated.
In effect Muhammad married Aisha when she was 6. And before him she was married and then divorced.
You can become engaged to them before this (a promise of marriage). This is true as muhammad definitely married her when she was 6 and then waited for 3 years to consumate the marriage.
I responded to this point to cheetah before...
"Islamic marriage is only official once you "consumate it" by having sex. (they were only "engaged" before that)
If I sign a marriage contract with a woman but never consumate it i was never married to her. The ayah in question refers to "iddah".
A woman would not have to wait the "iddah" if we signed a contract but never consumated the marriage with sex."
To add to this...if I signed a marriage contract with a woman but we never consumated it she is obliged to return the mahr. (becasue we were never officially married)
If I actually divorced a woman that I was married to it is her right to keep the mahr.
Ok I apologize if I misunderstood you earlier it's just that I thought you, cheetah and prince spinoza were trying to say that she was pre-pubescent when he penetrated her.
Just to be clear...do you think muhammad had sex with a pre-pubescent girl?
So no I don't think he was the only one. And no I don't think you are pushing for this.
The point is that her being pubescent is something we have to take on faith. Since there is no hadith about her reaching menstruation.
I know you're not saying aisha was pre-pubescent when they consumated the marriage but this is for anyone else who is reading...
1. The burden of proof is on the one who asserts she was pre-pubescent.
2. let me ask...if sleeping with a pre-pubesecnt girl was not the custom of the arabs why wouldn't people question him? like the muslims did when he married zaynab (and then he made up verses to justify it)
3. If muhammad (who is the best example according to muslims) had sex with a pre-pubescent girl why do all the scholars agree that this action is haram?
4. Do you think that the verses of the Quran are not clear on this issue?
5. not to sound like an asshole but there is no hadith that says she didn't have a penis growing out of her forehead so we have to take this on faith as well
The entire argument is simple, Muhammad was a man of his time. His example in this case should not be followed.
I agree totally and I hope nobody was thinkin i was suggesting that.
She must have been younger than 6 when he had these dreams. What are your thoughts on that? He ie looked at a young child and thought he wants to be married to her, have sex with her.
Your thoughts?
I have said it before and I think this is totally fucked up. Like really fucked up.
But the point I made to prince spinoza and cheetah is that just simply asking that question to a muslim is 1000 times more effective than just calling muhammad a bad name.
I don't know why people are taking what I'm saying in the wrong light. All I wanted to do was prove he isn't a pedophile (which I did).
I was simply arguing against calling him a pedo in this thread but now people (cheetah, prince) are trying to assert that
1. muhammad fucked a pre-pubescent girl
2. that its allowed to fuck pre-pubesecnt girls in Islam
Nobody in history has said this before (and there have always been orientalists and people trying to debunk Islam)
If I had read that (as a muslim) I would have just dissmissed CEMB as an ignorant hate site. This would have been my reaction...
Also, I don't get why people don't think I'm not trying to debunk Islam. It's more or less all I have been doing for the last few weeks. (I was researching the geocentric earth thread until I got derailed by this). Debunking Islam doesn't mean we just find any and everything to insult it.