Haven't been bothered to look for one (or figure out who you're taking about).
That comment was meant for CD, btw.

You're probably not interested in an explanation, but here goes all the same.
You and JnT were saying that your sunny avatars did not match your mood. So I suggested (reverse psychology) that you use one of Leonard Cohen - famouisly miserable, but strangely uplifting.
And forgive me if I didn't realise that your ^ was pointing not at my post but the one above it.
Anyway, all this is really an excuse to post a song whose bleak beauty puts everything into perspective - Love Calls You By Your Name.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xiy7D2K7y4g(And sooner or later it calls everyone's name.)