@thread: Girls who tell me, "Your brother is so hawt!" What the fuck am I supposed to say to that?! I don't do incest IRL! Plus, I'm fairly certain he's gayer than a tree full of monkeys on nitrous oxide.

I hate it when that happens too! LOL, and my brother isn't even good looking.

Its all about control and power. As far as I have heard rapists and other sexual offenders have often gone through someting similar when they little, its like gaining back the control.
Yeah that is a huge impact on the rapist's life. It's also most likely that they were abused during their own childhood. It's just unfortunate that this vicious cycle is unbreakable because of the lack of education.