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  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #630 - September 26, 2013, 10:25 PM
    Quote from: toor on September 26, 2013, 10:11 PM
    punctuation is a bourgeois conspiracy against language

    i dont care how often you talk about uncle jack and his horse based antics



    I've been wrestling with these feelings for ages but...

    Now that there's no form of autonomously limited temperament to speak of, can I neck you?
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #631 - September 26, 2013, 11:04 PM
    Quote from: zach on August 08, 2013, 07:53 AM
    i dont discriminate when it comes to women


    Do you say that before or after you try to date a Muslim girl and her father chases you down the street with a metal bar?
    Believe those who are seeking the truth. Doubt those who find it.
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #632 - September 27, 2013, 12:30 PM
    Quote from: toor on September 26, 2013, 10:11 PM
    punctuation is a bourgeois conspiracy against language


    A zionist one, I assume…
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #633 - September 27, 2013, 03:49 PM
    Quote from: Minimow on September 26, 2013, 11:04 PM
    Do you say that before or after you try to date a Muslim girl and her father chases you down the street with a metal bar?

    Personal story? Cheesy
    Quote from: ZooBear 

    • Surah Al-Fil: In an epic game of Angry Birds, Allah uses birds (that drop pebbles) to destroy an army riding elephants whose intentions were to destroy the Kaaba. No one has beaten the high score.

  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #634 - September 28, 2013, 11:10 AM
    Quote from: schizo on September 26, 2013, 10:25 PM

    I've been wrestling with these feelings for ages but...

    Now that there's no form of autonomously limited temperament to speak of, can I neck you?


    Regrettably, I have no blood to give. Too many nights of solipsism, onanism and abusing the lead paint diet have left me the husk I am today.
    Before it gets too late, you will find escape.
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #635 - September 29, 2013, 02:49 PM
    I'm amazed that there isn't an exmuslims here in florida
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #636 - September 29, 2013, 09:41 PM
    Quote from: Jila on September 27, 2013, 03:49 PM
    Personal story? Cheesy


    Haha, you bet.
    Believe those who are seeking the truth. Doubt those who find it.
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #637 - November 17, 2013, 10:32 AM
    This reminds me of marriage cv's that people tell you to make if your looking for a spouse, I never actually made one or maybe an advert.

    Hey you, yea you, you sexy summuma beach. Have you had a trial with religion? In a bit of a confused state of where your life is going as a result? Do you know how to deal with fellow depressed confused people?

    If you would like a petite, slightly mentally disturbed, pain in the ars in your life.... look no further... I introduce you to Jibbs  Kiss  bunny Bom-chica-waw-waw.

    Small print: Sexy summama beach's need only apply.  Wink Lol.
    "Make anyone believe their own knowledge and logic is insufficient and you'll have a puppet susceptible to manipulation."
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #638 - January 26, 2014, 01:19 AM
    Toying with the idea of having a ex-muslim forum specifically for dating. Just made it so it's rough around the edges. If anyone would want to volunteer category ideas or write up rules or create a logo, that would be awesome.

    http://exmuslims.bloodorlovezine.com/
    "Work without hope draws nectar in a sieve, and hope without an object cannot live." -Coleridge

    http://sinofgreed.wordpress.com/
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #639 - January 26, 2014, 04:12 PM
    Quote
    Toying with the idea of having a ex-muslim forum specifically for dating. Just made it so it's rough around the edges. If anyone would want to volunteer category ideas or write up rules or create a logo, that would be awesome.

     

    I'm all for making friends with other ex muslims but the idea of an ex muslim dating site seems a bit weird to me.

    First of all there are not enough ex muslims to make it successful.

    Second there is the security issue.  I don't think most ex muslims would advertise themselves as ex muslims online with their real identity let alone use that to meet up with people they don't even know.

    Some crazy salafi guy can just create fake profiles on that site and use it to harm ex muslims.
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #640 - January 26, 2014, 04:19 PM
       I mean if you are living in an islamic country where the majority of the people are muslims I can kind of see how wanting to date another ex muslim might be the only option however, for those of us in secular countries there is no need to specifically go looking for ex muslims to date.

    I wouldn't date an ex muslim because I would really value them as a friend so we can talk about our shared experiences and provide support to each other and dating them would bring up the possibility that we would break up which would end the relationship completely.

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #641 - January 26, 2014, 04:23 PM
    It's for ex-muslims so I'm already excluded. lipsrsealed
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #642 - January 26, 2014, 05:06 PM
    I don't know if you should be excluded, though. I am lucky to be with someone who understands where I am coming from. I don't think I could handle a relationship or even a single date with a Westerner who did not understand my background.
    Maybe you would be sympathetic, more knowledgeable than a typical non-never-been-Muslim.
    It could be for ex-Muslims and friends of, perhaps.
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #643 - January 26, 2014, 08:28 PM
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    I don't think I could handle a relationship or even a single date with a Westerner who did not understand my background.

     

    Thats what I used to think but realized how much that would shrink my already shortened dating possibilities.

    My take is that I won't tell any girl that I date about my exmuslim problems or family situation until I am in a serious long term relationship with her.

    I'll probably brush off the meeting the parents question by saying there extremely religious and leave it at that. 

    Telling a girl about my ex muslim baggage early on could scare her off and ruin a potentially good relationship. Any baggage I have I will reveal bit by bit because telling someone all at once or within the first year of dating can make them think your life is a complete wreck or something.
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #644 - January 26, 2014, 08:47 PM
    Outstanding idea movingfeet.

    The site should have the following:

    1) An introduction and short description of the person.

    2) A 'what I'm looking for' section

    3) Basic information (location is up to the discretion of the individual though can be vague)

    It's a dating site were people are looking for a partner long-term relationship/marriage and not for 'friendship'. If you want friendship then stay away and contact members or develop friendship on this thread/forum. Don't mess around and waste time on other forums.

    It will not be exclusive to ex-muslims but it should come to no surprise to anyone that most the people featured on it will be ex-muslims. Ex-muslim will not be a badge of honour, rather it is a way for people who know how difficult it is to meet other ex-muslims in muslim communities and pursue a meaningful relationship.

    Security is an issue that is why I think it should be part of a sub-forum on this thread or associated with CEMB. Existing users can already go on there (who have shown their credentials and are not Muslims/dawahgandists). There's no point in having a debate as to who gets in and over complicate something that's in its infancy. Those who are set on restricted will be restricted to the sub-forum and those who are guests will not be allowed to join. I don't think it would be a good idea for people to post pics of themselves straght away. But members can see each others ugly mug via email/Skype etc after developing their trust.

    These are my recommendations.

    All hail movingfeet I understand how difficult this can be (even though she's a whizz at this) and a lot of thought and effort has gone into it.

     far away hug
    No free mixing of the sexes is permitted on these forums or via PM or the various chat groups that are operating.

    Women must write modestly and all men must lower their case.

    http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?425649-Have-some-Hayaa-%28modesty-shame%29-people!
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #645 - January 26, 2014, 09:00 PM
    And of course the rightful name of The Quod Sum Eris Fan Club. Or something to that effect.
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #646 - January 26, 2014, 09:37 PM
    Quote from: Jedi on January 26, 2014, 08:47 PM
    Security is an issue that is why I think it should be part of a sub-forum on this thread or associated with CEMB. Existing users can already go on there (who have shown their credentials and are not Muslims/dawahgandists).

     

    You guys can create the site using your own resources but it should definitely NOT be a sub forum of this site.

     CEMB was created to help out ex muslims in tough situations and help liked minded secular ex muslims to get together and provide a network of support NOT to help you find a boyfriend/girlfriend. You can do that on your own.

    We don't want people coming to this website looking for dating. If you made a sub forum for it there  you would still end up with visitors to the CEMB forum messaging members who's posts they see on other parts of the forum asking them if they want to date.
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #647 - January 26, 2014, 10:05 PM
    Love the idea of dating site. You could make money from it.

    Late Eid Mubarak, Where's my eidee present ?
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #648 - January 26, 2014, 10:08 PM
    @darkrebel you do realise that you are posting on a dating/meeting thread on the CEMB forum?

    The precedent has already been set.

    It's only about refining or making it more accessible. Nobody is asking you to join neither are they asking for your permission to set it up. You don't want to be a part of it then don't be.

    Suggestions are being put forward. Don't try to shut something down unless you have a valid contribution to make rather than saying 'I don't like it so stop it.'

    I don't think the original idea is about making money.
    No free mixing of the sexes is permitted on these forums or via PM or the various chat groups that are operating.

    Women must write modestly and all men must lower their case.

    http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?425649-Have-some-Hayaa-%28modesty-shame%29-people!
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #649 - January 26, 2014, 10:18 PM
    How exactly would one show their credentials? Passport/diving licence along with a household bill in their name, address clearly shown sent with a video of them pissing on a quran, bacon sandwich in one hand, pint in the other?

    Actually that sounds entertaining. Do that. dance
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #650 - January 26, 2014, 11:08 PM
    I always go on SingleMuslims and type in "not practicing"
    And OKCupid
    Type Religion: Muslim and status "laughing about it"

    An ex muslim dating site is gonna be dangerous be useful
    Late Eid Mubarak, Where's my eidee present ?
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #651 - January 27, 2014, 12:12 AM
    Quote from: Jedi on January 26, 2014, 10:08 PM
    @darkrebel you do realise that you are posting on a dating/meeting thread on the CEMB forum?

    The precedent has already been set.

    It's only about refining or making it more accessible. Nobody is asking you to join neither are they asking for your permission to set it up. You don't want to be a part of it then don't be.

    Suggestions are being put forward. Don't try to shut something down unless you have a valid contribution to make rather than saying 'I don't like it so stop it.' 

     

    I never said to stop it I just said that it should not be associated with this forum.

     And to be honest this thread is just people joking around with each other. I don't think people on here are seriously looking to date...

    Although if the site actually get enough ex muslims i might consider it.
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #652 - January 27, 2014, 12:25 AM
    @movingfeet


    Can you put the name of the dating forum as Murtad Love or something more memorable and catchy ? 


    As for the picture problem.  This might cause a problem for ex muzzies who are still in the closet because they will not want to share their real name of their photos over the internet for obvious reasons.

    So in the closet muzzies will probably have to settle for waiting until the first date to see what the person actually looks like.
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #653 - January 27, 2014, 04:42 AM
    Quote from: TheDarkRebel on January 26, 2014, 04:19 PM

    I wouldn't date an ex muslim because I would really value them as a friend so we can talk about our shared experiences and provide support to each other and dating them would bring up the possibility that we would break up which would end the relationship completely.



    Nah mate. It doesn't have to be that way.
    Quote from: yeezevee on February 11, 2016, 02:05 PM
    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #654 - January 27, 2014, 04:44 AM
    Quote from: Quod Sum Eris on January 26, 2014, 09:00 PM
    And of course the rightful name of The Quod Sum Eris Fan Club. Or something to that effect.


    Guys, who is this neophyte again?  Huh?
    Quote from: yeezevee on February 11, 2016, 02:05 PM
    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #655 - January 27, 2014, 04:47 AM
    Quote from: movingfeet on January 26, 2014, 01:19 AM
    Toying with the idea of having a ex-muslim forum specifically for dating. Just made it so it's rough around the edges. If anyone would want to volunteer category ideas or write up rules or create a logo, that would be awesome.

    http://exmuslims.bloodorlovezine.com/


    I think this idea is a really, really good one to pursue.

    Just don't expect any help from me because I am very, very lazy.  lipsrsealed
    Quote from: yeezevee on February 11, 2016, 02:05 PM
    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #656 - January 27, 2014, 07:05 AM
    Thank you all for your replies. I will get back to you in more detail tomorrow after I have had some rest.
    "Work without hope draws nectar in a sieve, and hope without an object cannot live." -Coleridge

    http://sinofgreed.wordpress.com/
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #657 - January 27, 2014, 07:41 AM
    Quote from: Quod Sum Eris on January 26, 2014, 10:18 PM
    How exactly would one show their credentials? Passport/diving licence along with a household bill in their name, address clearly shown sent with a video of them pissing on a quran, bacon sandwich in one hand, pint in the other?


    Same way as we do on this forum.

    Trust me if you were ex-Muslim you'd know how important it was to know if someone was genuine or salami/psycho in disguise. I suspect you realise this already though. Like I said in my post, we should not get too bogged down with this. The idea is sound in principle.
    No free mixing of the sexes is permitted on these forums or via PM or the various chat groups that are operating.

    Women must write modestly and all men must lower their case.

    http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?425649-Have-some-Hayaa-%28modesty-shame%29-people!
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #658 - January 27, 2014, 07:20 PM
    Ok. So, for the security issue I was thinking of handling it just like this forum. People will be advised not to release their personal information to anyone unless they absolutely trust them and to keep everyone informed, that includes their closest friend and/or local authorities, of any meeting dates/times with other members. Just to insure their safety. You never know with the internet. If anyone turns out to be a fake, it will be encouraged that members publicly denounce them on the forum so that other members will become aware of them.

    TheDarkRebel: That name sounds cool. I'll change it to that. As for the picture problem, what I meant was the logo or something. Not their personal photos. I know that ex-Muslims would not want to do that.

    Basically, what I would need help with is just putting those outlined rules in detailed writing for people to read and abide by.
    "Work without hope draws nectar in a sieve, and hope without an object cannot live." -Coleridge

    http://sinofgreed.wordpress.com/
  • The meeting & dating thread (exmuslims & extheists need only apply)
     Reply #659 - January 27, 2014, 07:22 PM
    Quote from: three on January 26, 2014, 05:06 PM
    I don't know if you should be excluded, though. I am lucky to be with someone who understands where I am coming from. I don't think I could handle a relationship or even a single date with a Westerner who did not understand my background.
    Maybe you would be sympathetic, more knowledgeable than a typical non-never-been-Muslim.
    It could be for ex-Muslims and friends of, perhaps.


    Yes. That also.
    "Work without hope draws nectar in a sieve, and hope without an object cannot live." -Coleridge

    http://sinofgreed.wordpress.com/
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