I don''t find Asians attractive as much as other races (I am an Asian) and vast majority of Muslims I know are Asians , meaning if they become ex-Muslims they would still be Asians and I would not find them attractive , I don't know if that's racist and I'm sorry if it is
AB71313 thank you for your interesting post , I would only do vaginal vanilla sex (hahaha that is the term ?!
) to be honest and more likely not so many times that ejaculating each time would make him to tired
It is a good point you made about lights being off , do people normally not turn lights on if they enter room they will have sexc in ?
Thank you all foranswering my questions
Its your choice on who you want to be with you dont have to justify it to anyone a simple "you are not my type,sorry" is all you have to say.
The tantric sex ejaculation control was also meant for others reading this thread to research and learn my contribution here is tiny so i think some will appreciate this.
Straight sex usually includes oral sex yet excludes anal sex and i never had any interest with anal sex and one ex who after finding out her previous boyfriend was raped in jail replied with "Good now he knows what it feels like" with a laugh and a smile so i dont think she enjoyed it.
Again its your choice on what you like doing.
As for having sex in the dark it will happen at some time if you sleep in the same bed as your partner and some women prefer it it in the dark if they have some hang ups with their bodies i always wanted the lights on the visual aspect adds to the fun.
What i meant was its a tradeoff with looks vs personality and i would sacrifice a little in the looks department to be with someone who is more compatible with my personality.
If you were a blind person you would not be choosing someone based on looks as you could not see them as you get older looks fade so while mutual physical attraction is essential you also have to find a suitable personality you are very comfortable with to go with the good looks.
Maybe a slightly older guy around 20-22 up to 25 is what you should look for they should have a job and moved out from their parents that way you will have someone who can spend money on you with little things like eating at a nice restaurant and maybe a few gifts if you give them a good time.
A lot of women i know have a little checklist of the guys they see covering things like type of work you do,do you have your own home,a car the list can have whatever you want in a man on it.
Good relationships have honesty,trust,mutual respect along with good sex many other good things so faking an orgasm is really deception so dont do it as a real man would prefer to know he has not done the job than be intentionally deceived.
As for your first time do it with a guy who you think is HOT it will help the hormones kick in .
As for finding a guy women get lots of replies with internet dating so if you put your profile up you dont have to pay to join if a guy likes what he sees or reads he will show interest and use his credits to contact you.If you dont want to join you could just have a look at whats available in the meat market online.
Topic: SEX