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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #90 - October 23, 2010, 01:04 AM
    Quote from: Prince Spinoza on October 23, 2010, 01:02 AM
    In other words, "eew".

    ... Ok maybe blackdoggy was right....


    Gah, but don't you agree it sorta is disgusting? C'mon, I'm sure you don't respect such a person especially if you date them.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #91 - October 23, 2010, 01:05 AM
    Quote from: Prince Spinoza on October 23, 2010, 01:04 AM
    What you need to do is get your tits out.


    No thank you. I don't do that nonsense. I did it once and didn't like it. I don't like showing off my goodies. I regret the one time I did it.
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #92 - October 23, 2010, 01:08 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 01:04 AM
    Gah, but don't you agree it sorta is disgusting?


    No.

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    C'mon, I'm sure you don't respect such a person especially if you date them.


    Why would I date a person I don't respect?
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #93 - October 23, 2010, 01:09 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 01:05 AM
    No thank you. I don't do that nonsense. I did it once and didn't like it. I don't like showing off my goodies.


    Well too bad, 'cos no guy will ever consider you unless you at least give him a flash. Sorry.

    Quote
    I regret the one time I did it.


    Slut.
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #94 - October 23, 2010, 01:10 AM
    Well, then I guess I'll never get a guy, so be it. I'm sure there are chaste ones.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #95 - October 23, 2010, 01:11 AM
    Nah, men can't help themselves, haven't you heard?
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #96 - October 23, 2010, 01:12 AM
    Quote from: Prince Spinoza on October 23, 2010, 01:08 AM
    No.

    Why would I date a person I don't respect?


    You don't think a girl who has all sorts of sex, has UTIs, infections of the vag is disgusting? Then again, this is where we differ, but I view the act as intimate and special; a very big deal. To others it's not a big deal. But, anything involving the body and reproductive systems are a big deal in my eyes.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #97 - October 23, 2010, 01:13 AM
    Quote from: Prince Spinoza on October 23, 2010, 01:11 AM
    Nah, men can't help themselves, haven't you heard?

    Yeah because eventually the chaste would want sex too, in marriage. Hence why they get married. =\
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #98 - October 23, 2010, 01:16 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 01:10 AM
    Well, then I guess I'll never get a guy, so be it. I'm sure there are chaste ones.

    No, stop looking for such a man - you will waste your time and cause unnecessary upset with partners and yourself -  a very selfish way of operating, precisely the way you are acting.  

    If assexual men dont exist, then you need to specifically look for men who arent interested in sex, which is a rarity, much like assexuals.
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #99 - October 23, 2010, 01:16 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 01:12 AM
    You don't think a girl who has all sorts of sex, has UTIs, infections of the vag is disgusting? Then again, this is where we differ, but I view the act as intimate and special; a very big deal. To others it's not a big deal. But, anything involving the body and reproductive systems are a big deal in my eyes.


    Zzzzzz. You're criteria for determining whether someone is a slut is that they've slept with 10 people in 12 months. Don't bring STIs and dodgy vags into it.
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #100 - October 23, 2010, 01:16 AM
    Then what am I supposed to do Islame? Just give up?
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #101 - October 23, 2010, 01:17 AM
    find an asexual dating site or something. must be one.
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #102 - October 23, 2010, 01:17 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 01:13 AM
    Yeah because eventually the chaste would want sex too, in marriage. Hence why they get married. =\


    Oh is that why they do it. Interesting.
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #103 - October 23, 2010, 01:18 AM
    Quote from: Prince Spinoza on October 23, 2010, 01:16 AM
    Zzzzzz. You're criteria for determining whether someone is a slut is that they've slept with 10 people in 12 months. Don't bring STIs and dodgy vags into it.


    Well, they are connected.... most things affecting the vag are sexual in nature. Every once in a while it's period related, but most of the bacteria and whatnot are from penis.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #104 - October 23, 2010, 01:19 AM
    Quote from: s12345 on October 23, 2010, 01:17 AM
    find an asexual dating site or something. must be one.

    There is one, but I can't date online. Plus, online dating is so superficial and dangerous. I want a real relationship with people I see often in person. And the asexual dating site is all women. Mostly women are asexual or 40+ year old men that aren't good looking.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


    "The wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi

  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #105 - October 23, 2010, 01:19 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 01:16 AM
    Then what am I supposed to do Islame? Just give up?

    yep, you are being selfish & wasting everyones time, including your own and causing unnecessary distress for everyone involved - just so you can get attention?
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #106 - October 23, 2010, 01:20 AM
    Zzzzzz. You said a slut is someone who sleeps with 10 guys in one year. Yes or no? I asked if a girl who sleeps with many men but ensures everything is safe is a slut, you answered in the affirmative. Yes or no?
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #107 - October 23, 2010, 01:21 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 01:19 AM
    There is one, but I can't date online. Plus, online dating is so superficial and dangerous. I want a real relationship with people I see often in person. And the asexual dating site is all women. Mostly women are asexual or 40+ year old men that aren't good looking.


    then date a woman Cheesy supply and demand
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #108 - October 23, 2010, 01:21 AM
    No, I'm not being selfish. I'm just trying to figure this out. I guess I should just give up and just get cats and have my mom continue to bully me.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #109 - October 23, 2010, 01:21 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 01:19 AM
    Mostly women are asexual or 40+ year old men that aren't good looking.

    I thought you said there was no such thing as an assexual man?
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #110 - October 23, 2010, 01:21 AM
    Quote from: s12345 on October 23, 2010, 01:21 AM
    then date a woman Cheesy supply and demand


    I'm not attracted to women...
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #111 - October 23, 2010, 01:23 AM
    Quote from: IsLame on October 23, 2010, 01:21 AM
    I thought you said there was no such thing as an assexual man?


    There isn't, I only found one 40+ year old man on the site, who knows if he was asexual because anyone can join (even straight sexuals and homosexuals... it is usually marked on the profile)
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #112 - October 23, 2010, 01:23 AM
    Quote from: Prince Spinoza on October 23, 2010, 01:20 AM
    Zzzzzz. You said a slut is someone who sleeps with 10 guys in one year. Yes or no? I asked if a girl who sleeps with many men but ensures everything is safe is a slut, you answered in the affirmative. Yes or no?

    Yes I did because condoms aren't really 100% and a lot think that the pill prevents diseases, but it doesn't. A lot of girls hate the feel of condoms.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #113 - October 23, 2010, 01:25 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 22, 2010, 09:04 PM
    Yes. I'm asexual and can't have sexual attraction with people. But, men always take issue in it/

    I wonder why.... Thinking hard


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    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 12:51 AM
    And how should I approach it? I REALLY don't want to date online and there are no asexuals here.

    Rrrrright....  So you are asexual and you don't want to date online?


    Quote from: Prince Spinoza on October 23, 2010, 12:56 AM
    How about you change your attitude first? That might help. "Why can't you guys control yourselves?"

    +1

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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #114 - October 23, 2010, 01:26 AM
    I may be asexual, but it doesn't mean I don't want to see the person in person. In an online relationship you don't know the real person, believe me I tried it with a sexual and I learned the hard way... he turned out to be a criminal. People online tend to lie...
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #115 - October 23, 2010, 01:29 AM
    you're in a special situation so it'll need some extra effort to find the one asexual man on earth. keep trying without expecting sexual men to 'adapt' to you.
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #116 - October 23, 2010, 01:29 AM
    Quote from: pierced_beauty on October 23, 2010, 01:23 AM
    Yes I did because condoms aren't really 100% and a lot think that the pill prevents diseases, but it doesn't. A lot of girls hate the feel of condoms.


    Where is the facepalm smiley?
  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #117 - October 23, 2010, 01:30 AM
    I'm just telling you the things I have heard from girls. I'm sorry.
    Quote from: Mount A Bison on September 26, 2010, 03:19 PM
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #118 - October 23, 2010, 01:30 AM
    Quote from: s12345 on October 23, 2010, 01:29 AM
    you're in a special situation so it'll need some extra effort to find the one asexual man on earth. keep trying without expecting sexual men to 'adapt' to you.

    +1 - precisely, you being self-centric
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  • Re: Relationships without attraction?
     Reply #119 - October 23, 2010, 01:32 AM
    This is hopeless. Get a gay man, he should suit you just fine.  Afro
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