im a virgin....i dont think there's anything wrong with that though
Definitely nothing wrong with that.
not a fan of marriage...dont think i wanna get married ever....too many messed up marriages ive seen to turn me off of it
That's a valid position. You can safely ignore the condescensions of others in this regard, IMO. A relationship can be just as happy and fulfilling without marriage. There's a risk that if someone already views marriage in negative way but then attempts to embrace it through faulty reasoning (such as the temporary insanity love often induces) it could end up being being a source of negativity in the long run. I would advise anyone who has such feelings toward marriage to examine why they feel the way they do about the institution before taking the plunge.