Well look here, Ms Attractive Women, you have a cleaner now?
Weren't you complaining just a few posts ago that you were broke, couldn't make ends meet and had trouble feeding your children?
You are a troll.
Oh Gosh Grow up! First of all my personal circumstances are none of your business and I don't really have to explain them to you.
But since my honour has come into question let me explain..
I have had a hard time cleaning my home lately. Its not messy as such but clothes everywhere. I am very depressed at times thanks to my situation. Thats why I came on the forum because it is all getting to much for me and I have no one to reach out too. I am really struggling for money at the moment especially with Christmas coming. However as luck would have it my boiler needed fixing so a friend of mine wrote out a receipt that cost £100 more then he charged me which I will take off the rent next month. To be fair its wrong.. I agree but also she hasn't fixed things and two of the rooms are freezing cold costing me extra money on heating. (i can't find another place to move to but thats another story)
Well if social services came into the house they would would put me on a child protection plan as it wasn't very tidy. If my neighbors saw it in this state they would probably call social services on me! And in all honesty I don't blame them because a clean and healthy home is so important to a childs development. So I used that extra £100 (which was after my thread and just last week) to pay for a cleaner and help make the enviroment more productive for the children.
I am hoping to start a course in Feb next year so have budgeted my money so that I can afford to have her come around every week to keep on top of the house. This will help me be more productive as it is one less thing to worry about. In england it is very rare to find a cleaner who is willing to organize things for us as they will mainly only do a shitty job of wiping things down. She is great company. Sadly the only social contact I have is with people I have to pay.
I always had a cleaner before so have not really been able to organize myself well more from lack of experience then anything else. Being a single mother to my children requires alot of work especially because I don't drive and have no social support in any way (not even a friendly hello) .. My day is jam packed full of things that have to be done and I don't have time for myself.
So yes I don't have the money but I needed this for myself and it is my responsibility to create a healthy home enviroment for the children. If you would like a break down of my life, financial situation, history, personality profile or anything else perhaps it is better to ask rather then accusing me of being a troll.
Particularly when this site is full of dimwitted teenagers who don't have half the experiences as myself in Islam! In fact I have only met one person on here who has anywhere near it and, without being disrespectful, even I surpass his experiences in many ways so far.
Rather then trying to make me feel inferior or being suspicious of me perhaps it would be better to create a more supportive enviroment on this site for people who are genuine and in real need???
Any question feel free to ask before your presumptious natures take another stronghold and persecute someone unfairly!!!