But of course people in general who meditate feel these things as well. So is there benefit in meditation and why is there this benefit? I know that most people think that meditation is for hippies and as a guy it's something I would feel uncomfortable doing and I probably wouldn't do any meditating again. But should we all, or more of us at least, be medidating (in whatever form)?
Meditation is just a form of mental exercise, yoga for the mind.
It doesn't have to have any religious or spiritual attachments to it though.
And you don't have to sit down in a lotus position and feel self conscious doing it. You can do it sitting wherever you like however you like. The only thing is that you need a quiet, peaceful surrounding (doesn't have to be completely silent - sometimes a small hum in the background helps, birds singing that kind of thing)
I'm sure there are a lot of tall claims made for meditation in terms of how it can help you relax, lower blood pressure, unlock creative corners of the mind and transcend yourself and all of that. You can just do research on that online. What I would say is that short periods of interior solitude can be refreshing mentally. But I won't lie, I did some meditation techniques and they were fun. Its good to try and clear your mind and quieten all the noise in there. But even though reading a book is the opposite of what meditation is, you feed the mind with images and ideas and words, I found sometimes that reading a book put me in a similar state of consciousness as formal meditation - I would awake out of my reading with a startle, feeling refreshed, having locked out the outer world, and just lived intensely in my mind, concentrating so much that I forgot myself.
Has to be a good book though, thats the problem.