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 Topic: Help me return to Islam

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  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #180 - April 15, 2011, 04:11 PM
    I agree. Although I really wanted ALM to win that next month, I feel that Saeed really does brighten up the place with his appearances; even more so than Alex (besides, Alex seems to be currently recovering from a lethal meme virus, and this has even started to affect his humour).

    Saeed – Salaam bro. I’m still looking for a way to reconcile with my wife. Thanks for popping in and checking on me though  Smiley
    Hi
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #181 - April 15, 2011, 04:17 PM
    You guys are easily pleased.
    Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #182 - April 15, 2011, 04:31 PM
    Quote from: musivore on April 15, 2011, 04:11 PM
    Alex seems to be currently recovering from a lethal meme virus, and this has even started to affect his humour.



    If I had a nickel for every time I've recovered from a lethal virus...
    "That it is indeed the speech of an illustrious messenger" (The Koran 69:40)
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #183 - April 15, 2011, 04:37 PM
     Cheesy
    Hi
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #184 - April 15, 2011, 04:39 PM
    And forgive me for putting Saeed up there with you...  grin12
    Hi
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #185 - April 15, 2011, 04:45 PM
    You were hoping I wouldn't see it, I guess. Saeed is an interesting case, how could I blame you  Wink
    "That it is indeed the speech of an illustrious messenger" (The Koran 69:40)
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #186 - April 15, 2011, 04:49 PM
    Hey, Musivore.

    Don't think I've seen you around due to the fact that I've been logging in infrequently, but from your opening post and what you have said about your wife and your situation, I think she is trying to emotionally manipulate you. She knows that you're a good-hearted, relenting person so she is using it to gain a foothold in the relationship and dictate the decisions you make.

    Btw I'm not casting a blanket judgment on your wife's personality, clearly from what you've mentioned, she has traits that attracted you to her but at the same time Islam has locked on a stiff, closed-mindedness on her where her faith takes precedent over everything else in her life.

    I'll echo what Nessa said, I think this may be a bluff and she wants you to give in by threatening a divorce, however, at the same time you know her best and only you can guage how serious she is about posing such an ultimatum to you.

    Anyway best of luck mate.

    Let us know about any developments in your situation.
    "The ideal tyranny is that which is ignorantly self-administered by its victims. The most perfect slaves are, therefore, those which blissfully and unawaredly enslave themselves."
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #187 - April 15, 2011, 04:55 PM
    Quote from: alsaeedm on April 06, 2011, 01:35 AM
    this is the shaitan in you talking,he doesnt like it when anyone mention islam,he gets angry,do this experiment,listen to adhan and if you feel angry or irritated,is even more sign that shaitan is in you and doesnt like it


    OMG you are the funniest person on the forum ¬!!!!! aahahahahahahahaah btw I don't get angry when the adhaan is on......although it is a racket!
    "its fashionable to be an ex Muslim these days"
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #188 - April 15, 2011, 05:02 PM
    Quote from: muddy on April 09, 2011, 05:41 PM
    This is a real clapping moment!

    clap clap clap

     thnkyu
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #189 - April 15, 2011, 05:07 PM
    Thanks for your post mate. I'm pretty fucked and things have got worse recently. I can't think straight about this anymore.  I'm pretty torn about it all.

    I can see the next week being pretty pivotal because my wife has set an ultimatum of Easter for me to say I believe again.

    I really don't want to get drawn again into discussions about what I should do in the next week... I just need to deal with this in my own way. But I will post an update when I am ready.

    Thanks again.
    Hi
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #190 - April 15, 2011, 05:12 PM
    ^^Sorry, that was for Mr Just Looking
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  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #191 - April 15, 2011, 05:16 PM
    Musivore,

    I intentionally did not give you any advice on your marriage / deen situation as I thought that my situation has nothing in common with yours. I thought about it again and now am pretty sure that I was right the first time. However this place is not a good place to help you believe again. I thought maybe you should try to make your wife happy by doing non-religious things that she likes. You know, flowers, presents, talking about her day... This could make her happy with non-religious you. You shouldn't have too much trouble showing her affection as she seems to be your everything. Other option you have: you can read Islamic literature and start praying hard. Here's some inspiration:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWYFS8fOzk4&feature=related
    "That it is indeed the speech of an illustrious messenger" (The Koran 69:40)
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #192 - April 15, 2011, 05:37 PM
    I think you should start looking at Islamic videos again, here's a truly miraculous one

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GidhsqA3P4g
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  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #193 - April 15, 2011, 05:42 PM
     Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #194 - April 15, 2011, 05:47 PM
    Quote from: IsLame on April 15, 2011, 05:37 PM
    I think you should start looking at Islamic videos again, here's a truly miraculous one

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GidhsqA3P4g


    Mashaa'Allah!!! A Muslim cock!
    "That it is indeed the speech of an illustrious messenger" (The Koran 69:40)
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #195 - April 15, 2011, 05:50 PM
    I won't say anything but this musi hugs
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #196 - April 15, 2011, 05:54 PM
    Good luck, musivore. I think ALM is right; this is probably the wrong environment to ask for directions to returning to Islam. Deconversion is not readily reversible unless the reasons for deconversion can somehow be refuted (and even that isn't likely to be the whole story), and you're unlikely to find refutations here (alsaeedm and his ilk notwithstanding..).

    I'll just offer to give you a man hug, BD-style, because that's about as useful as I can be right now  Wink
    Before it gets too late, you will find escape.
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #197 - April 15, 2011, 05:57 PM

    Quote from: Alex Lam Meem on April 15, 2011, 05:16 PM

    I intentionally did not give you any advice on your marriage / deen situation as I thought that my situation has nothing in common with yours. I thought about it again and now am pretty sure that I was right the first time.

     Cheesy (although I'm not sure you meant to be funny for once).

    About the flowers thing, that would only be a short term fix. And god knows that I've tried to shower her with all the romance in the world, in order to deviate her even slightly from her zombie islamic mission...to no avail, in the long term at least.

    Islam is not for me and hasn't been for me for nearly two decades now. I was never serious about my request to return. But I am touched that you came up with something that would have been a way out for me. Thanks for that (and I found the song quite touching, apart from the bit about the camel. God really should work on his analogies).

    Islame - LO
    L


    Thanks again guys. I really will leave it at that for now.
    Hi
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #198 - April 15, 2011, 06:00 PM
    Having said that, thanks BD and toor, just seen your posts now Afro
    Hi
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #199 - April 15, 2011, 06:15 PM
    musivore.. i put two songs on the dj thread for you this morning  far away hug
    When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
    Helen Keller
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #200 - April 15, 2011, 06:44 PM
    Quote from: musivore on April 15, 2011, 05:57 PM


    About the flowers thing, that would only be a short term fix.  

    Thanks for that (and I found the song quite touching, apart from the bit about the camel. God really should work on his analogies).




    In the long term we'll all be dead, bro. Concentrate on short term happiness. After all many short term happy moments make up long term happiness. Don't let her think that you don't love her because you want out of the best religion on earth. Keep showing her that your marriage and love transcends deen.

    Yeah, I was also worried about Allah and camel analogy, but as an ex-19er I can simply reject it, so...
    "That it is indeed the speech of an illustrious messenger" (The Koran 69:40)
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #201 - April 15, 2011, 10:13 PM
    +1... what alex said Smiley  he speaks truth about that.
    When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
    Helen Keller
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #202 - April 16, 2011, 11:45 AM
    Quote from: musivore on April 15, 2011, 05:07 PM
    Thanks for your post mate. I'm pretty fucked and things have got worse recently. I can't think straight about this anymore.  I'm pretty torn about it all.

    I can see the next week being pretty pivotal because my wife has set an ultimatum of Easter for me to say I believe again.

    I really don't want to get drawn again into discussions about what I should do in the next week... I just need to deal with this in my own way. But I will post an update when I am ready.

    Thanks again.

    why are u not muslim yet already?
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #203 - April 16, 2011, 01:44 PM
    That is odd.  Using a pagan/christian holy day as the
    day of ultimatum.
    When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
    Helen Keller
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #204 - April 16, 2011, 02:09 PM
    Musivore, tell her that a kid needs two parents. Allah or no Allah she has to know you're right.

    How do I change the topic to "Save musivore's marriage"?

    Alsaeed, why don't you stick to the topics you've started?
    "That it is indeed the speech of an illustrious messenger" (The Koran 69:40)
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #205 - April 16, 2011, 02:15 PM
    Quote from: alsaeedm on April 16, 2011, 11:45 AM
    why are u not muslim yet already?

    Why are you still muslim?
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    Islam's Last Stand (page)
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  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #206 - April 16, 2011, 02:24 PM
    No highjacks here please, muddy, we're trying to save musi's family .
    "That it is indeed the speech of an illustrious messenger" (The Koran 69:40)
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #207 - April 16, 2011, 02:54 PM
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  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #208 - May 02, 2011, 11:04 AM
     Update: (please don't ask any questions, I just need to let this out somewhere)

    Fuck. Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh.

    Fuck.
    Hi
  • Re: Help me return to Islam
     Reply #209 - May 02, 2011, 11:54 AM
     far away hug
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