it wasnt tag team,i think this brother was a bit mistaken,he was telling me that men have more wives only because of war and other things,and i showed him this hadith to show him that actually allah also care about other things like if man is satisfied and also so wife isnt push to have sex too much than she can handle(because its divide between all 4 wives).this te message i sent:
brother those reasons are true,but surely the fact that men have a higher sex drive is also taken into consideration there as long as a man can provide for them?for example this is a hadith about the holy prophet pbuh:
Narrated Qatada:
Anas bin Malik said, "The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number." I asked Anas, "Had the Prophet the strength for it?" Anas replied, "We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty (men)."
this from Sahih Bukhari- Volume 1, Book 5, Number 268
OH my FSM!!!!!!!!! You're acting like sex is everything... And men are literally going to die if they don't get some.
Has it ever crossed your mind that those men should just DEAL WITH IT? Have you ever heard of something called self-control? Jerking off? Pick any of the above solutions. Not more wives.
And I guess I'm supposed to appreciate this or something?:
"so wife isnt push to have sex too much than she can handle"
Wow, thanks so much for that. Yeah.... no. Most people who enter in a relationship with only one other person (not polyamorous people) DON'T want to be shared, period. Let alone later on, for you to "add wives" to their list. It's fucked. Technically you're supposed to do it with their permission... but YOU KNOW a man still has a right to do it (because he can't help himself! LOL!). And if the woman doesn't like this new arrangement (at this point it should be her right since the man didn't even confront/ask her about it beforehand) God help her I hope she can fucking divorce. There's your fucked up religion for you.
no i have not heard of this,but do you deny that a man is aroused many times a day,woman only once or twice or may be - maximum - once a day?you are saying you can keep 4 husbands satisfied by having sex 12 times a day, 3 times with each man?its impossible.whereas if a man have 4 wives he simply chooses only one for a day and all are satisfied
Easy. She can give one a blowjob, one a handjob, have sex with one, and maybe let another in her ass… or a repeat of any of the above if you wish.
I mean, you do know "intercourse" is not the only type of sex, right?
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