I would disagree.
To understand one's view, there is no need to publish it for a wide audience
in the sense of 'you are wrong and I am right'.
personally i only present my views in the sense that 'i think this is a tenable position but i might be wrong as i'm a bit dumb sometimes', but i do agree that the 'you are wrong and i am right' tone is not a good one to have. however, that was not the point you were making. you were saying expression of one's views towards a wider audience in general was out of sustaining self-pride, which is the point i was disagreeing with.
It's basically extending your own view without caring for other people, destroying other
realities so you can fuel your own.
not really. i do not intend to 'destroy people's realities', i only merely intend to express my views for those who might listen. those who want to engage my views, can do so and i would hope to respond in a civil manner. i have no agenda that i want to fulfil except the agenda of hopefully learning what people may find wrong with my ideas, and whether my ideas can be improved.
The atheist has nothing to lose, the believer has something to lose.
It's not chocolate that he is losing but his whole view on life, his source of happiness.
Losing that makes people enjoy life far less and the first few years most people are depressed.
except for the fact that it is not us forcing them to 'lose' their whole views on life, merely that we are expressing why we don't share these views on life.
So is this all worth to find the 'truth'? Which is different for each one of us, it's foundation lies always in faith.
Especially if the purpose of life is to find happiness.
my purpose in life is not to be happy, my purpose in life is to merely live it as best i can, learn as much as i can and experience as much as i can. ebb and flow between happiness and depression allow us to grow as individuals and somehow make sense of it all.
While from atheism to theism you gain something instead of losing.
Weren't you happier as a Muslim? What did 'truth' add to your quality of life?
in fact, i think i gained a lot more when i left islam than any convert to islam. i gained a wider understanding of the fact that people have different ideas, concepts and foundations for their worldviews. i learnt not to dismiss these views off-hand and to, when engaging views that opposed mine, attempt to think about what would make such worldviews tenable, and if i disagreed, engage the individual on what made these views untenable.
i gained a humility towards the fact that there's a lot of shit i don't know. lots of things i haven't figured out and many issues of which my knowledge is naive or even non-existant.
would i have had these with islam? nope, since the worldview is laid out for you in black and white(and shades of grey depending on which perspective you see it from).
also, i don't claim that i have the 'truth'. i don't even claim that i 'seek' the truth, as i have no conception of what 'truth' is right now apart from a tacit assumption.