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  • Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     OP - October 21, 2011, 02:12 PM
    Do you find it immoral?

    If so, why do you consider it as a bad thing aside from the pregnancy and STDs(i know some will bring that up but they can be prevented nowadays)

    If not, whats the upside of it?.


    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #1 - October 21, 2011, 02:17 PM
    I don't think it's bad exactly, I think it's natural as a young adult to want to express their sexuality, but since we're not in small communities anymore and the world is more connected it's important to consider the impact it has on children.

    As a more mature adult I do think its ok but you have to be more careful, especially if you have children/a family you have to think about the subtle messages youre sending to kids that young and the long term affects it will have on their worldview on men/women and interactions etc.
    "Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." - Viktor E. Frankl

    'Life is just the extreme expression of complex chemistry' - Neil deGrasse Tyson
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #2 - October 21, 2011, 02:20 PM
    Quote from: Naija Infidel on October 21, 2011, 02:12 PM
    If not, whats the upside of it?.


    Lots of dirty, dirty sex with different people-- duh.
    fuck you
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #3 - October 21, 2011, 03:33 PM
    There's nothing immoral about having sex.

    (Consensual, of course)
    The only thing we have to fear is fear itself
    - 32nd United States President Franklin D. Roosevelt
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #4 - October 21, 2011, 03:39 PM
    I'd only have sex with woman who I love rather than just having sex with random women. I'm still virgin, but I don't think I'd be able to have sex with a woman who I don't love. I don't care if she's hot, and I do have impulses but having sex without getting to know someone and just doing it for pleasure just won't feel good to me. I'd rather do some other activity. There's a lot more to life!  Tongue
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #5 - October 21, 2011, 03:52 PM
    Quote from: Colonel Q-Daffi on October 21, 2011, 02:20 PM
    Lots of dirty, dirty sex with different people-- duh.

    let me correct that .. that should be raccoons.. not people.. Colonel Q-Daffi you only write nonsense., you are not that bad guy.. deep down
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #6 - October 21, 2011, 04:31 PM
    I think it's OK as long as you are (still) unmarried. When you're married it's cheating on your partner, unles he/she permits.
    Religion is organized superstition
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #7 - October 21, 2011, 04:51 PM
    Quote from: Luthiel on October 21, 2011, 03:33 PM
    There's nothing immoral about having sex.

    (Consensual, of course)

    This. I think one possible downfall is being emotionally stunted for those who don't know how to balance a sex life with feelings of attachment (or lack thereof), either to the person they're having sex with currently or others of the opposite sex in the future.
    "I know where I'm going and I know the truth, and I don't have to be what you want me to be. I'm free to be what I want."
    Muhammad Ali
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #8 - October 21, 2011, 05:06 PM
    Overrated.

    That I never got any when I was at my most desperate promiscuous is, of course, irrelevant.
    Before it gets too late, you will find escape.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #9 - October 21, 2011, 07:02 PM
    Quote from: Luthiel on October 21, 2011, 03:33 PM
    There's nothing immoral about having sex.

    (Consensual, of course)

    This. I would be promiscuous but I CBA. XD
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #10 - October 21, 2011, 07:04 PM
    I prefer love!

    Little Fly, Thy summer's play
    My thoughtless hand has brushed away.

    I too dance and drink, and sing,
    Till some blind hand shall brush my wing.

    Therefore I am a happy fly,
    If I live or if I die.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #11 - October 21, 2011, 07:05 PM
     Promiscuity?  Its not for me !
    Teach us to care and not to care / Teach us to sit still.
    What do we live for; if it is not to make life less difficult to each other
    You are the music while the music lasts.
    T.S.Eliot
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #12 - October 21, 2011, 07:06 PM
     Afro
    Little Fly, Thy summer's play
    My thoughtless hand has brushed away.

    I too dance and drink, and sing,
    Till some blind hand shall brush my wing.

    Therefore I am a happy fly,
    If I live or if I die.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #13 - October 21, 2011, 07:07 PM
    Quote from: Hallakuf on October 21, 2011, 04:31 PM
    I think it's OK as long as you are (still) unmarried. When you're married it's cheating on your partner, unles he/she permits.

    This ^.  Replacing 'married' with 'in a closed relationship' to make things general.
    "Many people would sooner die than think; In fact, they do so." -- Bertrand Russell

    Baloney Detection Kit
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #14 - October 21, 2011, 07:09 PM
    Quote
    Whats your view on Promiscuity?


    If you have a good view of it, its great.

    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    Quote from: arX on May 01, 2011, 03:33 AM
    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #15 - October 21, 2011, 07:11 PM
    A liitle voyeur billy
    Little Fly, Thy summer's play
    My thoughtless hand has brushed away.

    I too dance and drink, and sing,
    Till some blind hand shall brush my wing.

    Therefore I am a happy fly,
    If I live or if I die.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #16 - October 21, 2011, 07:12 PM
    i guess it would depend on what you think "promiscuous" means.. if we're talking about "casual sex".. there's nothing casual about it.. at least in my own opinion, it has to mean something.. "going through the motions" for the sake of just doing it.. is a turn off.
    some people think "promiscuous" is having sex with some you're not married to.. yeah ..look it up  grin12 in that case  grin12  Kiss  dance
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NV9vdUjuWxc
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #17 - October 21, 2011, 07:23 PM
    Quote from: Fara7 on October 21, 2011, 07:05 PM
    Promiscuity?  Its not for me !


    I knew you were going to say something similar to that Grin
    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #18 - October 21, 2011, 07:26 PM
    ^So did I. Grin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #19 - October 21, 2011, 09:18 PM
    I don't like the word promiscuous. I have a natural distaste for the sound of it, comparable to when I hear nails scratching chalkboard.
    Quote from: yeezevee on February 11, 2016, 02:05 PM
    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #20 - October 21, 2011, 09:21 PM
    Quote from: -Tmp- on October 21, 2011, 03:39 PM
    I'd only have sex with woman who I love rather than just having sex with random women. I'm still virgin, but I don't think I'd be able to have sex with a woman who I don't love. I don't care if she's hot, and I do have impulses but having sex without getting to know someone and just doing it for pleasure just won't feel good to me. I'd rather do some other activity. There's a lot more to life!  Tongue


    Only relevant portion of this post.
    Quote from: yeezevee on February 11, 2016, 02:05 PM
    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #21 - October 21, 2011, 09:24 PM
    Quote from: toor on October 21, 2011, 05:06 PM
    Overrated.

    That I never got any when I was at my most desperate promiscuous is, of course, irrelevant.


    I don't think promiscuous is the right word for that. I rather think the scientific term "loser" is more appropriate.
    Quote from: yeezevee on February 11, 2016, 02:05 PM
    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #22 - October 21, 2011, 10:17 PM
    ^ You are becoming so predictable recently
    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #23 - October 21, 2011, 10:29 PM
    Quote from: Luthiel on October 21, 2011, 03:33 PM
    There's nothing immoral about having sex.

    (Consensual, of course)

    This. As long as it is done safely and consensually, sleeping around is OK. There’s nothing ‘immoral’ about it. It can cause difficulties if it happens during exclusive relationships, but still…
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #24 - October 21, 2011, 11:35 PM
    These days I think that I won't be promiscuous when I'm older. It has just lost its appeal. I've watched hundreds of porn videos, and had sex thousands of times (literally) in my head -- I'm getting tired of it, to be honest. Also, you can never have 100% safe sex (especially when it's not just vaginal intercourse). It just seems like something I probably won't be into very much.

    ^ a year ago, never in a million years would I have thought I'd be saying this.
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    مـاذا فـعــلت بــناسـك مـتـعـبد

    قـد كـان شـمّر لــلـصلاة ثـيابه
    حتى خـطرت له بباب المسجد

    ردي عليـه صـلاتـه وصيـامــه
    لا تـقــتـلــيه بـحـق ديــن محمد
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #25 - October 21, 2011, 11:53 PM
    Sexual monogamy is best, encouraging discipline, proper attachments, and serious contemplation of consequences.

    Sex is a powerful force for good and for evil, and we must all be careful in how we use it.

    I regard sex as part of a healthy relationship with a being with whom one is in love (not that I understand what romantic love is...).
    Interested in Buddhism? Check out http://www.accesstoinsight.org/!
    Consider Nalanda University, and never let it happen again.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #26 - October 22, 2011, 12:29 AM
    Quote from: Naija Infidel on October 21, 2011, 10:17 PM
    ^ You are becoming so predictable recently


    Would it be more entertaining for you if I instead displayed dissociative personalities? Here, I'll give it a go:

    Identity 1: Oh no anything but that! I swore I'd never become predictable.  ohmy

    Identity 2: If it's any consolation, predictable has been exactly how I've found your posts since I've had the displeasure of discovering you on this forum.
    Quote from: yeezevee on February 11, 2016, 02:05 PM
    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #27 - October 22, 2011, 05:30 AM
    Its not that, its how cynical you can be which was amusing initially but now its getting boring and predictable whistling2

    Aside from that, nothing else, no need to be cranky, boy Tongue
    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #28 - October 22, 2011, 07:10 AM
    Maybe I am predictable or boring, but I really prefer to be with one partner that I fall in love with instead of having multiple partners simultaneously, I don't think am the only one on here who thinks this way.  But each to their own, you can always pretend that having multiple partners at the same time (without them knowing of your other partners) doesn't hurt anyone, but I see this to be some kind of deceit, if you are open and tell them openly that you are sleeping with other people, and they accept it, then that's fine.

    But for me, no, firstly I'd respect my partner too much to do this to them, and I certainly don't want anyone to do it to me .

    Now am regretting I ever replied to this thread...
    Teach us to care and not to care / Teach us to sit still.
    What do we live for; if it is not to make life less difficult to each other
    You are the music while the music lasts.
    T.S.Eliot
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #29 - October 22, 2011, 07:15 AM
    Quote from: asbdsp on October 22, 2011, 12:29 AM
    Would it be more entertaining for you if I instead displayed dissociative personalities? Here, I'll give it a go:

    Identity 1: Oh no anything but that! I swore I'd never become predictable.  ohmy

    Identity 2: If it's any consolation, predictable has been exactly how I've found your posts since I've had the displeasure of discovering you on this forum.


    Fuckin seriously? Naija is one of the nicest guys here. This is as retarded as when ALM started attacking deusvult.
    fuck you
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