Yeah, i still dont understand this gender hypocrisy, if a man sleeps around with a lot of women, he will be praised for being stud or playa or whatever any positive term they see fit but if its a woman she will be called with a derogatory words such as "whore","hoe", "bitch","slut" etc
In my opinion, men who sleep around a lot should be deemed sluts too, we have words to describe those that eat too much, drink too much, there should be words for those who sleep around too much.
Evolutionary speaking, men are generally evolved to spread their seed as far and wide as possible, whilst women are evolved to be choosier, more selective, perhaps this goes a little way into explaining why the attitudes are different towards the different genders.
I would state that it is a given, that men do have a greater sex drive than women, I refuse to believe that women play with theselves as much as men do. Lol. Other evidence may be the fact that gay men are more promiscious than straight men - to me that means generally men have the higher sex drive.
Greater emphasis should be placed on men not to fuck out of turn - just like Muslim men forget the verse
preceeding in the Quran concerning women and their modesty - there is a verse that states something along the lines of men keeping their gaze down. If they did that there would be fewer incidences of gender disharmony.
Also imo the 'media' is a dirty old man and hand in hand with capitalist/consumer society promotes promiscuity as a lifestyle, imo it's another money earner, more of an earner than marriage is.
Note that I say media and not necessarily western society, the difference in 30 years that sex has played on our screens maybe one of the reasons muslims don't feel a part of British culture, imo they would have felt more part of the culture thirty years ago.
I dont want to come across all prudish but imo this sexualisation of society so to speak seeps into the young and children. In the mid-eighties, I watched Police Academy, it was rated 15, it had a two second clip of a topless babe on the beach, that's it, nowadays - in an effort to make money way more sex/nudity is allowed for the same classifiaction. Evidence of earlier sexualisation and dont get me started on MTV. Lol
Topic: Whats your view on Promiscuity?