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  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #180 - May 25, 2012, 09:46 PM

    my whole philosophy (now anywayz) of promiscuity
    is "be responsible", "use common sense" and "as long as no one will get hurt"

    go for it.

    When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
    Helen Keller
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #181 - July 04, 2012, 03:28 PM

    It's only okay if you're gay.

    I used to be powerful, then I started blogging.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #182 - July 04, 2012, 03:52 PM

    Why is that? Huh?

    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #183 - July 04, 2012, 04:35 PM

    maybe coz you no get preggie ..
    I think .. but .. nvm
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #184 - July 04, 2012, 06:36 PM

    The fucking HPV STD freaks me out.

    http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv.htm/
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #185 - July 04, 2012, 06:46 PM

    That is why we have contraceptives such as condom and other paraphernalia but if that is enough to discourage you then cool.

    Anyway im still curious to know why Pureinertia made that statement.

    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #186 - July 05, 2012, 01:28 AM

    That is why we have contraceptives such as condom and other paraphernalia but if that is enough to discourage you then cool.

    Anyway im still curious to know why Pureinertia made that statement.


    Contraceptives are not 100% effective against STD or pregnancy.


    If at first you succeed...try something harder.

    Failing isn't falling down. Failing is not getting back up again.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #187 - July 05, 2012, 04:09 AM

    I was waiting for this exact answer to pop up and this is what the religionists uses to encourage abstinence on people until they find someone they can settle with and marry rather than focus on why it is ethically wrong. Of course nothing is wrong with settling down and marrying someone that is worth being with but i dont think its right to thrust this reason on people just to encourage abstinence mostly because(not that im assuming this is the direction you are heading towards to,probably you may have another reason);

    -Its not everyone that is cut out for monogamous relationship and be a parent
    -Its not only through sex that one can catch HIV and AIDS, one can get it even through barbing.

    However, regarding STD i can acknowledge that being promiscous is like playing a russian roulette in this century but with contraceptives,chances of getting STDs and getting some pregnant are less same reason for one who doesnt smoke has a less risk of getting cancer but we have seen people who dont smoke getting cancer.


    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #188 - July 05, 2012, 05:25 AM

    Actually when I was first going to reply I thought someone had said as long as "no one gets hurt" but then. I couldn't find that some one had said that..

    I only use the contraceptives are not 100% effective on people who throw out well there is protection like that is an reason to go for it.

    There are a lot more STDs out there then most people would like to think about. Most treatable a.d or not deadly so maybe not a major factor. Till you're called in to the health department for testing. Being a nurse however gives me a very slanted view so maybe I'm wrong. I sure you have some enlightening information on the subject. Not like I'd care a whole lot I am still more interested for me in the emotional effect of relationships,

    If at first you succeed...try something harder.

    Failing isn't falling down. Failing is not getting back up again.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #189 - July 05, 2012, 05:49 AM

    Actually when I was first going to reply I thought someone had said as long as "no one gets hurt" but then. I couldn't find that some one had said that..


    That was mentioned quite a few times in the previous pages. E.g.

    No, it seems to be a drift towards wanting everyone to conform to ones view of how things should be. Which is in the same league as the religions nutters wanting gays killed and women covered up from head to toe, albeit less extreme.

    I still fail to see how consenting acts affect your notion of 'social order'. When violence or harm is inflicted on unconsenting beings - human or animal, that should be a cause for concern.


    +1000000

    As long as you are an adult practicing safe sex, using condoms, not taking advantage of people who are drunk or otherwise intoxicated, protecting yourself from STDs and unwanted pregnancies, and you are not physically harming or emotionally scarring yourself or someone else, there is no reason not to go and enjoy casual sex with other informed consenting adults who also want to have sex for the sake of sex.

    Of course emotions get entangled, and that is something to watch out for, both in yourself and in your sexual partners.

    Go and shag and have fun (safely) or stick to one (or two or three) people. Just don't try and impose your way on everyone else.

    As for cheating/adultery, that is more of a result of forced monogamy and a culture that treats people like property. Nobody can legislate adultery away.


    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #190 - July 05, 2012, 08:23 AM

    Why is that? Huh?


    It was a silly joke based on a few of the arguments I read, people were saying that it affects children, so I thought it's only okay if you're gay.

    I used to be powerful, then I started blogging.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #191 - July 05, 2012, 10:53 AM

    Grin

    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #192 - July 05, 2012, 12:44 PM

    That is why we have contraceptives such as condom and other paraphernalia but if that is enough to discourage you then cool.


    This was touched upon in the link I provided, but here's an article about HPV and condoms.

    http://cervicalcancer.about.com/od/riskfactorsandprevention/a/condoms_HPV.htm

    Quote
    Why Condoms Only Provide Limited Protection Against HPV
    HPV is transmitted through sexual, skin-to-skin contact with an infected person; no penetration is needed to contract the virus. When a condom is worn, only the penis is protected. Other areas of the genitalia are left exposed and may come in contact with the vagina during intercourse.

  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #193 - July 05, 2012, 01:48 PM

    Sorry, i find this article arguable and i wouldnt be surprised if one of these people are pro abstinence.

    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #194 - July 05, 2012, 02:20 PM

    Anyway granted, that one is at the risk of exposing themselves to HPV,there are ways to prevent it by vaccination and a female condom can provide a greater protection than the male ones as it allows less skin contact plus we have microbicides if applied to the genitals prior to sexual contact.

    Also unless your partner doesnt really like you and wants to kill you, i dont see why that victim would have sex with you or not even warn you about it.

    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #195 - July 05, 2012, 02:45 PM

    I've already admitted my view is slanted because I've been a nurse along time and get to see all the bad results. But yes there are a lot of people out there that do things for all kinds of unexplained reasons. Not necessarily that they hate you and want to kill you. However denial ranks way up there.

    If however you are comfortable in what you are doing keep doing it. That is your informationed choice and you have a right to it.

    If at first you succeed...try something harder.

    Failing isn't falling down. Failing is not getting back up again.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #196 - July 05, 2012, 03:02 PM

    I regard sex as part of a healthy loving relationship with a long-term loving partner only.  I am not and have never been promiscuous.

    "The greatest general is not the one who can take the most cities or spill the most blood. The greatest general is the one who can take Heaven and Earth without waging the battle." ~ Sun Tzu

  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #197 - July 05, 2012, 03:04 PM

    I've already admitted my view is slanted because I've been a nurse along time and get to see all the bad results. But yes there are a lot of people out there that do things for all kinds of unexplained reasons. Not necessarily that they hate you and want to kill you. However denial ranks way up there.

    If however you are comfortable in what you are doing keep doing it. That is your informationed choice and you have a right to it.


    Dont get me wrong, i have accepted the fact that STDs is the biggest risk of all and true,a lot of people can be in denial if they contracted one. Its good to know about all this just for one to be careful about the choice they make. Also like i said initially if one finds the risk discouraging enough not to indulge in promiscuity then they shouldnt.

    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #198 - July 05, 2012, 03:42 PM

    I regard sex as part of a healthy loving relationship with a long-term loving partner only.  I am not and have never been promiscuous.


    ROFLMAO! that's the whole package, the trend is to filter out what you don't like. When you can get milk and meat very easily from the super market the cow doesn't enter into the picture at all !
    Refined sugar and salt are positively harmful but people can't resist them. You can minimize their damage by moderating their use,perhaps, but people love going overboard.
    You just can't fuck with nature,there's always a price to pay,whatever your choice !



    The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion.
                                   Thomas Paine

    Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored !- Aldous Huxley
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #199 - July 05, 2012, 04:22 PM

    Well it's the whole package or nothing for me and if you don't want the cow then you don't want me because I certainly don't want you.   no

    "The greatest general is not the one who can take the most cities or spill the most blood. The greatest general is the one who can take Heaven and Earth without waging the battle." ~ Sun Tzu

  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #200 - July 05, 2012, 04:48 PM

     Cheesy Cheesy Weird segueing of a telescopic view with a microscopic one,with the microscope seemingly focused on the wrong sample! Huh?
     



    The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion.
                                   Thomas Paine

    Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored !- Aldous Huxley
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #201 - July 05, 2012, 04:58 PM



    Sometimes debating can be emotionally 'damaging' rofl rofl



    The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion.
                                   Thomas Paine

    Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored !- Aldous Huxley
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #202 - July 05, 2012, 05:00 PM

    Sorry I don't understand what you're saying there hypo, my above comment wasn't aimed at you - I meant for any man I was considering having a relationship with.  Grin

    "The greatest general is not the one who can take the most cities or spill the most blood. The greatest general is the one who can take Heaven and Earth without waging the battle." ~ Sun Tzu

  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #203 - July 05, 2012, 05:35 PM

     Cheesy realized it ASA I had pressed the post button, hence that pic which is supposed to show relief!



    The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion.
                                   Thomas Paine

    Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored !- Aldous Huxley
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #204 - July 05, 2012, 06:28 PM

     Cheesy  Cheesy

    "The greatest general is not the one who can take the most cities or spill the most blood. The greatest general is the one who can take Heaven and Earth without waging the battle." ~ Sun Tzu

  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #205 - July 05, 2012, 08:50 PM

    Well it's the whole package or nothing for me and if you don't want the cow then you don't want me because I certainly don't want you.   no


    Too many men are superficial and only interested in the udders

    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #206 - July 05, 2012, 08:59 PM

    Too many men are superficial and only interested in the udders


    Speak for yourself, I'm more of a flanks man.

    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #207 - July 05, 2012, 09:21 PM

    I likes dems big frontal lobes and a slender parietal cortex.

    I used to be powerful, then I started blogging.
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #208 - July 05, 2012, 09:31 PM

    I likes dems big frontal lobes and a slender parietal cortex.


    You dog.  Cheesy

    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • Re: Whats your view on Promiscuity?
     Reply #209 - July 06, 2012, 04:42 AM

    I likes dems big frontal lobes and a slender parietal cortex.


    You are one funny lad Grin

    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
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