Do you have a 'type'?

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Reply #90 - December 07, 2011, 01:44 PM

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Reply #91 - December 07, 2011, 11:34 PM

Physically-wise: pale face, dark hair, and of course, a shapely figure. I'm not really fastidious though.

Personality-wise; funny, eccentric, childish and preferably a little talkative.
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Reply #92 - December 08, 2011, 12:09 AM

I don't really have a type in terms of physique. I would've argued for "tall" but I'm not really that picky. What I love when it comes to personality is a general worry-free attitude. Not that he's never concerned about anything but that he doesn't let too much affect him emotionally. Generosity, honesty, sincerity, patience, compassion, warmness, knowing when to be emotionally/humorously apropos, being goal-driving and having an insatiable curiousity about the world and about the general acquisition of knowledge (even if it's little tidbits no one else would care to know) are also qualities I dig.

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Reply #93 - December 08, 2011, 01:45 AM

Quote from: The Wyre on December 08, 2011, 12:09 AM
What I love when it comes to personality is a general worry-free attitude. Not that he's never concerned about anything but that he doesn't let too much affect him emotionally. Generosity, honesty, sincerity, patience, compassion, warmness, knowing when to be emotionally/humorously apropos

In short The Wyre would never date me.

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Reply #94 - December 08, 2011, 11:01 AM

^they are many men like that over here and think they are doing the right thing backed with ayats of qur'an.

Bad temper is my bad side but lately i think its only my family that can make me lose my temper probably because they know how to push my buttons and its only them that can do so.

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Reply #95 - December 08, 2011, 05:46 PM

Dont get me wrong, i understand what you mean i wasnt merely saying that its muslims only

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Reply #96 - December 08, 2011, 05:54 PM

Silly goose

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Reply #97 - December 08, 2011, 06:34 PM

I get what you mean, Lara, and I think I'm fairly certain that I can say the same. It's so difficult to be around men like that (overly controlling, manipulative, emotionally/physically/verbally abusive, etc.) that I think certain people end up being naturally drawn to people who hold the opposite characteristics. It's not accurate to say that it's just found in Muslim men like you said earlier but, incidentally enough, I think it's more frequent in Muslim households where the men think their behavior is justified simply because they are men.

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Reply #98 - December 08, 2011, 06:35 PM

Q: Do you have a 'type'?

A: Female. Breathing.

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Reply #99 - December 08, 2011, 06:38 PM

Quote from: Colonel Q-Daffi on December 08, 2011, 01:45 AM
In short The Wyre would never date me.

We could still be friends doe.

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Reply #100 - December 08, 2011, 06:44 PM

Quote from: The Wyre on December 08, 2011, 06:38 PM
We could still be friends doe.

Ooh, Friend zoned!
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Reply #101 - December 08, 2011, 07:19 PM

Quote from: osmanthus on December 08, 2011, 06:35 PM
Q: Do you have a 'type'?

A: Female. Breathing.

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Reply #102 - December 08, 2011, 07:22 PM

Bamboo is optional.

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Reply #103 - December 08, 2011, 09:18 PM

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Reply #104 - December 08, 2011, 09:50 PM

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Reply #105 - December 08, 2011, 10:44 PM

Interesting…
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Reply #106 - December 10, 2011, 01:24 AM

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Most guys with tiny penises think the same thing. But usually it's just the thigh they are hitting.

I go for the self-deprecating joke, and then you just got to rub it in.

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Reply #107 - December 10, 2011, 01:37 AM

She just bustin balls. Sometimes I swear she's from the Northeast US she's so good at it.

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Reply #108 - December 10, 2011, 01:40 AM

Quote from: The Wyre on December 08, 2011, 12:09 AM
I don't really have a type in terms of physique. I would've argued for "tall" but I'm not really that picky. What I love when it comes to personality is a general worry-free attitude. Not that he's never concerned about anything but that he doesn't let too much affect him emotionally. Generosity, honesty, sincerity, patience, compassion, warmness, knowing when to be emotionally/humorously apropos, being goal-driving and having an insatiable curiousity about the world and about the general acquisition of knowledge (even if it's little tidbits no one else would care to know) are also qualities I dig.

Ht me up with me dem digits girl. I can be sooo apropos.

*Goes to look up definition of apropos*

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Reply #109 - December 10, 2011, 02:48 AM

A woman who knows what she wants in life. Not a Valerie Solanas-type of feminist, but a feminist with bones in her nose as we say where i live.

All in all my type is the following: Yes to a woman, not a submissive doll

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Reply #110 - December 10, 2011, 03:42 AM

My type is

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Reply #111 - December 10, 2011, 04:05 AM

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Reply #112 - December 10, 2011, 06:53 AM

Arial sucks. Helvetica is where it's at. Garamond is good too.

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Reply #113 - December 11, 2011, 08:28 AM

She needs to have a pulse and a vagina
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Reply #114 - December 11, 2011, 09:25 AM

You know I think some people who think by saying they go for any type of girl/guy are on morally superior grounds...well I think if you know the 'type' of person you are most compatible with it's actually an advantage, meaning you're more likely to have successful relationships with certain types of people so it's not a bad thing to have a refined sense of personalities you find most attractive.

Of course looks play a bit of a role in the sexual physical attraction compatibility: Let me ask you this, do you ever see couples like this:

Google doesn't seem to give me any pictures of an ugly looking girl and a hot man...no surprise.

Hot girls who end up with not very attractive men usually because they're insecure, or they do really value personality only. <- very unlikely to get the other way around, from my experience of society.

What I'm saying it that as much as we'd like to deny it, there is a sense of compatibility in terms of physical appearance as well as personality. If you do get a hot/not couple I think it's very likely certain things like envy, paranoia, possessiveness, will surface on the not so attractive person...and leading to a break up.

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Reply #115 - December 11, 2011, 09:55 AM

^ that picture has a story and that guy actually won the lottery and just 'suddenly' found a woman

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Reply #116 - December 11, 2011, 11:44 AM

Quote from: stardust on December 11, 2011, 09:25 AM
Of course looks play a bit of a role in the sexual physical attraction compatibility: Let me ask you this, do you ever see couples like this:

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Google doesn't seem to give me any pictures of an ugly looking girl and a hot man...no surprise.

Hot girls who end up with not very attractive men usually because they're insecure, or they do really value personality only. <- very unlikely to get the other way around, from my experience of society.

What I'm saying it that as much as we'd like to deny it, there is a sense of compatibility in terms of physical appearance as well as personality. If you do get a hot/not couple I think it's very likely certain things like envy, paranoia, possessiveness, will surface on the not so attractive person...and leading to a break up.

Not really, it doesnt have to be about looks,those things such as envy,paranoia and possessiveness can surface on attractive ones too. its all about seduction and it starts from the mind, is how the other person can work on another person's mind,teasing each other's imagination,stimulating desires not just for sex but for something greater. The origin of the word "seduction" is the latin for " is to lead astray". They are many unattractive ones that can make the attractive ones fall into their palm of their hands,it depends on which types they can seduce but it doesnt have to be generally physical.

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Reply #117 - December 11, 2011, 12:07 PM

it's about how secure you are with the way you look, as well as how much you trust your partner.

just because we don't have a "type" doesn't mean we don't care about looks. beauty is subjective, and there are different types of beauty. that's what a lot of people don't get. they think to be beautiful they have to fit this ideal standard and look similar.
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Reply #118 - December 11, 2011, 12:35 PM

Quote from: Naija Infidel on December 11, 2011, 11:44 AM
Not really, it doesnt have to be about looks,those things such as envy,paranoia and possessiveness can surface on attractive ones too. its all about seduction and it starts from the mind, is how the other person can work on another person's mind,teasing each other's imagination,stimulating desires not just for sex but for something greater. The origin of the word "seduction" is the latin for " is to lead astray". They are many unattractive ones that can make the attractive ones fall into their palm of their hands,it depends on which types they can seduce but it doesnt have to be generally physical.

Yup. As I said, I have dated guys who were far from the average good looking guy.

One guy I dated when I was 18 was shorter than me (and you know height is a major thing for me) and he had terrible burns down one side of his face from childhood including a misshaped side skull where it had grown wrong, and I dated him for 8 months. He was funny, and kind, and great in bed. We used to laugh all night long. I broke up with him because I wasn't the type for commitment back then, but on the looks scale to the world he was very very low and I didn't let that stop me dating him cos he was so god damn cool.

I won't pretend to high morals though, sometimes I found it hard to be in public with him and that made me feel like shit, that on some days society's judgements made it hard for me, which caused me a lot of guilt, but other days I was more fuck you to the world.

I think beauty ideas are a big battle inside for some people, sometimes we try, sometimes we let society enforce them, and sometimes we succeed in stripping them away.

Also, stardust, I have seen many good looking guy and not so good looking girl relationships in the real world. I see them and think maybe there is hope for me.

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Reply #119 - December 11, 2011, 01:01 PM

Which reminds me of this quote
What I need is a woman who is something,anything; either very beautiful or very kind or in the last resort wicked;very witty or very stupid,but something

Alfred De Musset.

Although it applies to both sexes.

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