BEEFCAKE!??
I like rough, ready and rebellious. Rock'n'roll. A hard man. A warrior. A tiger. Typically an alpha male who you just know can handle themselves in a fight and looks like they have had their share of them.
That isn't to say I like men who are violent for the sake of it. The opposite is true. I like my warriors honourable, not thuggish. It isn't so much the potential for aggression that attracts me, but more of the comfortably lived-in look that fighters have. I am drawn to 'physical wisdom', if that makes sense. Someone big, tall, strong, proud, someone who not only takes care of their body but who also uses it, with ease. Someone who exudes physical prowess. There is almost always a genuine, unthinking confidence that comes with it. And that's magnetic to me. No awkwardness. No need for arrogance. No need to show off. Natural composure and coolness. Comfortable in their skin.
If I had to pick one person (and wasn't allowed to cop-out and say my boyfriend), I'd pick Tom Hardy.




Or you, obviously.