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Topic: Infidelity.

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Infidelity.
OP - February 06, 2012, 10:09 AM

I notice the common definition of infidelity(which is colloqually known as cheating) is when either of the partner breach the expectation of sexual exclusivity.

Does the term transcends beyond this common definition? If so, would you care to elaborate on that?

Does is it make the offender an immoral person if he breach the expectation of sexual exclusivity?

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Re: Infidelity.
Reply #1 - February 06, 2012, 10:21 AM

It would be unethical to open up a relationship without a partner's consent.

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is only one defense: the creative act.

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Reply #2 - February 06, 2012, 10:37 AM

But with a partner's consent,that wouldnt count as infidelity then since it doesnt have to be romantic , there are various kinds of relationship between the opposite sexes.

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Reply #3 - February 06, 2012, 10:46 AM

Yes, if the partner consents to an open relationship then I don't see how it can be regarded as 'infidelity' or 'cheating'.

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since it doesnt have to be romantic

What do you mean here? There are polyamorous relationships that include being 'romantically' (not just sexually) linked to multiple partners. (Again, with consent, of course.)

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Reply #4 - February 06, 2012, 10:52 AM

Romantic...sex combined with deep affection for a partner.

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Reply #5 - February 06, 2012, 11:07 AM

infidelity to me is not being open and honest with your partner, and going beyond the comfort zones of what you and your partner have discussed and are ok with, whether emotionally or physically.
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Reply #6 - February 06, 2012, 02:24 PM

Do infidels commit infidelity?

When you are a Bear of Very Little Brain, and you Think of Things, you find sometimes that a Thing which seemed very Thingish inside you is quite different when it gets out into the open and has other people looking at it.

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Reply #7 - February 06, 2012, 03:40 PM

Yes, Thats why they are infidels because they are supposed to be faithful to an almighty jealous one, Duh!

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Reply #8 - February 06, 2012, 04:08 PM

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faithful to an almighty jealous one

Ha! It's a fascinating thing, jealousy.

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Reply #9 - February 06, 2012, 04:38 PM

Hang on, r u meant to have sex with Allah? Is that what the submission is about?

When you are a Bear of Very Little Brain, and you Think of Things, you find sometimes that a Thing which seemed very Thingish inside you is quite different when it gets out into the open and has other people looking at it.

A.A. Milne,

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Reply #10 - February 06, 2012, 05:59 PM

In the Islamic world infidelity can lead to your dick being cut off.
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Reply #11 - February 06, 2012, 06:12 PM

^

قل للمليحة في الخمار الأسود
مـاذا فـعــلت بــناسـك مـتـعـبد

قـد كـان شـمّر لــلـصلاة ثـيابه
حتى خـطرت له بباب المسجد

ردي عليـه صـلاتـه وصيـامــه
لا تـقــتـلــيه بـحـق ديــن محمد
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Reply #12 - February 06, 2012, 08:42 PM

Does hifidelity lead to infidelity? Devil's music? Elvis?

Actually, xianity has in Revelation the concept that the church is the bride of Christ, so leaving one's religion being the same as infidelity makes a horrific sense. It really is a menage a trois in a marriage with Allah or Christ. Catholics have pictures of Christ or crosses above their bed, is Uncle Mo ever there?

When you are a Bear of Very Little Brain, and you Think of Things, you find sometimes that a Thing which seemed very Thingish inside you is quite different when it gets out into the open and has other people looking at it.

A.A. Milne,

"We cannot slaughter each other out of the human impasse"
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