.....Really there are much better ways to handle problems in a marriage....
yes I agree with you Lynna, Indeed there are better ways of handling marriage problems, for that matter problems in any relationship. It is called open discussion and may be take some help with a decent Psychiatrist .. Solving such problems using silly words from alleged religious books will lead to this .

Well that is 21 year old Naila Mumtaz, read her life story
here Lynna..
It is not good to believe in silly religious rituals Lynna, unless they are Secret Santa Gift for 3 to 8 year old kids.. beyond that age group religions/religious books are for improving language skills ..specially how to talk without thinking..