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Reply #60 - August 05, 2012, 07:01 PM

Quote from: asbie on August 05, 2012, 06:54 PM
Called him out for being being a misogynistic, rape and domestic violence apologist seeking to cloak his shitty ideas under the veneer of intellectual skepticism.

I guess he didn't like it stated all plain-faced like that. Poor him.

No you didn't. You grabbed the wrong end of the stick, got all super sensitive and cried like a mangina to the mods.

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Reply #61 - August 05, 2012, 07:13 PM

Umadbro?

Next time don't break the fucking rules when you're busy being a giant tosspot. Or is the expectation of reading comprehension too harsh on all of you masculine victims of oppression?

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Reply #62 - August 05, 2012, 07:33 PM

Devilsadvokat is the patriarchy personified. If I didn't know people like him in real life, I'd think he's a troll. A perfect example of Poe's law.
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Reply #63 - August 05, 2012, 07:43 PM

Oh look, mangina number 2.

I am my own worst enemy and best friend, itsa bit of a squeeze in a three-quarter bed, tho. Unhinged!? If I was a dog I would be having kittens, that is unhinged. Footloose n fancy free, forced to fit, fated to fly. One or 2 words, 3 and 3/thirds, looking comely but lonely, till I made them homely.D
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Reply #64 - August 05, 2012, 07:46 PM

DA, here it is, the smite you've been baiting for so long.

SMITE 1.

You are completely transparent, by the way. Your phony pseudo-intellectualism fools exactly zero people around here. Stay on this path and your next ban won't be temporary.

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Reply #65 - August 05, 2012, 08:22 PM

I know it is your prerogative, but I have to ask why - the smite? Is their a specific rule I have broken? Has asbie worked his magic again?

I don't know about phony pseudo intellectualism (is that a double negative) I give my logic and reasoning, well I think I do.

But I take on board what you say. More insight, less incite.

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Reply #66 - August 05, 2012, 08:33 PM

Reflect on it DA.

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Reply #67 - August 05, 2012, 08:34 PM

I will billy.

I am my own worst enemy and best friend, itsa bit of a squeeze in a three-quarter bed, tho. Unhinged!? If I was a dog I would be having kittens, that is unhinged. Footloose n fancy free, forced to fit, fated to fly. One or 2 words, 3 and 3/thirds, looking comely but lonely, till I made them homely.D
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Reply #68 - August 05, 2012, 10:54 PM

Quote from: devilsadvokat on August 05, 2012, 08:22 PM
I know it is your prerogative, but I have to ask why - the smite? Is their a specific rule I have broken? Has asbie worked his magic again?

I don't know about phony pseudo intellectualism (is that a double negative) I give my logic and reasoning, well I think I do.

But I take on board what you say. More insight, less incite.

probably because of personal insults -> asbie and aboody.

Quote from: King Tut on December 09, 2012, 06:28 PM
Yeah an I am super ugly, I can't even beat my chest am too skinny and when I roaaar to attract women, they laugh at me, because it sounds like a girl screaming. I can't even attract any bitches!
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Reply #69 - August 05, 2012, 11:20 PM

Personal insults? Quite a few get thrown by some posters, I have been subjected also - to me it is part and parcel/comes with the territory when on internet forums. My insult was on political terms, I absolutely do not see either asbie or abood as any less of a man than I am, or cissy, weak etc. Neither do I use in the sense of calling them traitors to the cause of 'men's. Lol

Just that they male intellectual defenders of a certain type of feminism. Bringing mothers into it though, is hardly original and frankly beyond the pale.

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Reply #70 - August 06, 2012, 03:02 AM

This thread has gone somewhere strange.

The legal part of it isn't minor. Gay people haven't been yelling for gay marriage day and night entirely for the symbolic meaning of it. It changes depending on where you live, but in the US for instance there's the power of attorney, hospital visitation rights, inheritance, joint filing, federal benefits...

Aside from that, my answer would be "question not necessarily meaningful." Marriage IS a long term relationship. The wedding itself, once removed from the religious context is just a symbolic show of devotion or commitment, as well as a way of making it official to friends and family that you've settled down with a person so that they can be treated as part of the family rather than a(n extended) visitor. You don't need to get married for any of that obviously. I don't much care for ceremony myself but if I were to settle down with a person who did care about the symbolic show of devotion I would not consider irrational nor would I object to it.

There's no need to follow the usual cultural script either. D/S couples have collaring ceremonies, for example; you can craft it to emphasize whatever values you hold or to reflect how you conceive of your relationship.
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Reply #71 - August 06, 2012, 04:14 AM

Good post, Almulhida.

Marriage is an odd mix of dreaming and pragmatism.
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Reply #72 - August 06, 2012, 06:57 AM

Quote from: almulhida on August 06, 2012, 03:02 AM
D/S couples have collaring ceremonies, for example;

Now that's something I can get behind

Quote from: King Tut on December 09, 2012, 06:28 PM
Yeah an I am super ugly, I can't even beat my chest am too skinny and when I roaaar to attract women, they laugh at me, because it sounds like a girl screaming. I can't even attract any bitches!
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Reply #73 - August 06, 2012, 07:10 AM

Quote from: devilsadvokat on August 05, 2012, 11:20 PM
Personal insults? Quite a few get thrown by some posters, I have been subjected also - to me it is part and parcel/comes with the territory when on internet forums. My insult was on political terms, I absolutely do not see either asbie or abood as any less of a man than I am, or cissy, weak etc. Neither do I use in the sense of calling them traitors to the cause of 'men's. Lol

Just that they male intellectual defenders of a certain type of feminism. Bringing mothers into it though, is hardly original and frankly beyond the pale.

I'll give you a hint (and this is just my observation of it, so take it for what its worth). If your post includes some reasonable arguments and within that you call the other person a name or two, that seems to be OK, but if you make a couple posts which consist of nothing but something like:

Quote
you're a cunt

E.g

Quote from: devilsadvokat on August 05, 2012, 05:13 PM
Not wanting.g to get involved at a late stage in this thread but people mistaking asbie for a women, well they are half right, biggest mangina on the board.

And

Quote from: devilsadvokat on August 05, 2012, 07:43 PM
Oh look, mangina number 2.

that's when its more blatantly name calling and when you'd get a smite.

Quote from: King Tut on December 09, 2012, 06:28 PM
Yeah an I am super ugly, I can't even beat my chest am too skinny and when I roaaar to attract women, they laugh at me, because it sounds like a girl screaming. I can't even attract any bitches!
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Reply #74 - August 06, 2012, 10:07 AM

Which proves my point that he's a personification of patriarchy. And add on to it the fact that he's a misogynist and a rape apologist. And of course the icing is that he plays the victim.
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Reply #75 - August 06, 2012, 10:10 AM

Pathetic response Ishina & I'm getting bored of this now but let me say this. If you're going to expect me to apply the scientific method to every statement I ever make on here & every opinion I express then you're living in cloud cuckoo land as nothing is ever going to get said. I stick by my base point & have defended it & supported it well whether you like it or not.
The stats for this sort of this thing are patchy & limited research has been done ,given the nature of infidelity, but what there is still offers reasonably reasonably good support to my point.

As for your selective/dishonest quoting of stats that's predictable too:

Homo Sapien - "I'm saying that most people are like this deep down"

Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 74 %
Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught- 68 %
Percent of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had- 57 %
Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had- 54 %

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Reply #76 - August 06, 2012, 10:19 AM

Quote from: asbie on August 05, 2012, 06:13 PM
This "clarification" only confounds your point further, as you're now not only defending party's willful and knowing breach of contract, you're also defending the act of sexual infidelity as some sort of naturalistic certainty. Your own statistics don't bear this out, let alone the sniff test of common human experience, in which married sexual life clearly isn't the sort of wild swinger's fantasy that you're trying to concoct.

You are no longer credible in my eyes & are just acting like a pack hyena trying to attack a point which you now think is weaker as other hyenas better than you have tried to take a piece out of it. The reason you are no longer credible is because you have already conceded my point in a previous post when you said "Prevalence of such a condition aside..........." So get lost asshole.

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Reply #77 - August 06, 2012, 10:23 AM

Quote from: Homo Sapien on August 05, 2012, 04:10 PM
Now you're just being a childish, annoying little girl crying because she can't get the better of a man.

So for you any debate with a woman in which she won't let up is "her crying because she can't get the better of a man"?

How fucking sexist.

Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
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Reply #78 - August 06, 2012, 10:29 AM

Nope- but any debate where a woman throws petty (anti male) insults should expect something similar back. I'm not gona apologize for being a testostorone filled, confident male.

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Reply #79 - August 06, 2012, 10:42 AM

Ugh.

Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
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Reply #80 - August 06, 2012, 11:41 AM

And so the gender wars are fought on, skirmish after pointless skirmish, with nothing but clouds of gonadal steroids to show for it.

To counter its worst effects, I'd like to suggest Man-love Mondays as a new CEMB tradition. All we'd need is a private-ish space, a plasterboard wall and a saw, after which it may be celebrated in the traditional manner*. Who's with me?

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Reply #81 - August 06, 2012, 11:49 AM

Men, you crack me up

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Reply #82 - August 06, 2012, 02:15 PM
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Reply #83 - August 06, 2012, 02:24 PM

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Reply #84 - August 06, 2012, 02:26 PM

^

Anyway,The best thing about this thread is this:

Quote from: Ishina on July 31, 2012, 06:11 AM
It's romantic. It's fun. We like it. A simple ritual, symbolic of two people affirming the value of their relationship in a way that they know is respected and recognised. It's one of those weird idiosyncrasies the human has picked up along its evolution as a social animal. We see it in movies, in music, poetry, fairytales, myths and legends. It's written into language, literature, tradition, heritage. It evokes sentimental feelings and a sense of occasion. The very word conjures up imagery, of lovers eloping, of surprise proposals, a diamond ring, going down on one knee, the wedding dress, proud parents, the first dance, a free bar, a proper knees-up, honeymoon suites, carried over the threshold. Husband and wife. Happily ever after. For better or worse. Till death do us part. And all that jazz.

This young lady knows what she's talking about.

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Reply #85 - August 06, 2012, 02:42 PM

Quote from: toor on August 06, 2012, 11:41 AM
And so the gender wars are fought on, skirmish after pointless skirmish, with nothing but clouds of gonadal steroids to show for it.

To counter its worst effects, I'd like to suggest Man-love Mondays as a new CEMB tradition. All we'd need is a private-ish space, a plasterboard wall and a saw, after which it may be celebrated in the traditional manner*. Who's with me?

* _{I call dibs on the third gloryhole on the right.}

We will be forced to retaliate with a girly Tuesday where we all braid each other's hair and have topless pillow fights. You'll be sorry then....

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Reply #86 - August 06, 2012, 03:50 PM

Quote from: Homo Sapien on August 06, 2012, 10:10 AM
Pathetic response Ishina & I'm getting bored of this now but let me say this. If you're going to expect me to apply the scientific method to every statement I ever make on here & every opinion I express then you're living in cloud cuckoo land as nothing is ever going to get said. I stick by my base point & have defended it & supported it well whether you like it or not.
The stats for this sort of this thing are patchy & limited research has been done ,given the nature of infidelity, but what there is still offers reasonably reasonably good support to my point.

As for your selective/dishonest quoting of stats that's predictable too:

Homo Sapien - "I'm saying that most people are like this deep down"

Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught 74 %
Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught- 68 %
Percent of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had- 57 %
Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they’ve had- 54 %

You're hilarious. Never before have I seen someone panic and squirm so much when their own statistics and sources are quoted. It's almost like quoting the Bible to a Christian. "You're taking it out of context!"

I literally said nothing to you in the last post. Nothing at all. Merely quoted 2 lines from your source. And you lost your shit.

Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
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Reply #87 - August 06, 2012, 03:52 PM

Quote from: Homo Sapien on August 06, 2012, 10:29 AM
Nope- but any debate where a woman throws petty (anti male) insults should expect something similar back. I'm not gona apologize for being a testostorone filled, confident male.

Hanging around with your little toadies in your little bro circle-jerk has given you a skewed sense of what a 'confident male' looks like to most people, and an overinflated sense of your ability to appear awesome in the wider world.

Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
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Reply #88 - August 06, 2012, 04:20 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rbMHLDY1pA

that is good tube to show to the parents who wants/force their 17/20 year olds in to marriage

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Reply #89 - August 06, 2012, 04:29 PM

Quote from: Ishina on August 06, 2012, 03:52 PM
Hanging around with your little toadies in your little bro circle-jerk has given you a skewed sense of what a 'confident male' looks like to most people, and an overinflated sense of your ability to appear awesome in the wider world.

Jumping to conclusions again aren't you on that first comment but I've come to expect it now from you.

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