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  • Well, fuck.
     OP - November 08, 2012, 10:24 AM
    "GET MARRIED!! WALAHI YOU'RE NOT GOING TO BE LIVING IN AN APARTMENT ALONE UNLESS YOU'RE WITH A HUSBAND OR WITH ME. IT'S HARAM TO LIVE ALONE, YOU NEED A HUSBAND TO RESPECT AND GUARD YOU!"

    ...........


    "I'M GOING TO LIVE WITH YOU AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR BABIES! EVEN IF YOU'RE 35, ILL BE WATCHING YOU"

    ..........

    "IT'S SUNNAH"
    "Just sunnah mom, not fard"
    "FARD IS SUNNAH!"

    .........

    "YOU STILL SMOKING CIGARETTES? A WOMAN WHO SMOKES IS A WOMAN WHO CAN'T CONTROL HER DESIRES! SOON YOU'LL BE COMING HOME PREGNANT!!"

    ........

    "HOMOSEXUALITY IS CURED BY BRINGING YOURSELF CLOSER TO GOD, AND NOT CLOSER TO MEN!"

    .........

    "YOU'RE NOT DEPRESSED, YOU'RE STUPID. YOUR GRANDFATHER WAS A MODEST HAFEZ!, HE'S A SHARIEF! HIS KHALWATIYA SCHOOL BEARS YOUR FAMILY NAME! YOUR FAMILY LOVES YOU! YOU HAVE NO REASON TO BE DEPRESSED!"

    .........

    STOP TALKING TO _____ HES GETTING TO CLOSE TO YOU!

    ........
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #1 - November 08, 2012, 10:44 AM

    all the burden and shame of the world is stacked on the back of muslim women

    sending you a virtual message of solidarity - plan wisely and this can be escaped from
    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    Quote from: arX on May 01, 2011, 03:33 AM
    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #2 - November 08, 2012, 10:47 AM
    sometimes, all I see are dead ends.
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #3 - November 08, 2012, 10:50 AM
    Dead ends are just places for tunnels to built from that you haven't worked out yet  Smiley
    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    Quote from: arX on May 01, 2011, 03:33 AM
    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #4 - November 08, 2012, 12:49 PM
    That ever so present arrogance among muslims begins in the home with parents and we've all had first class tickets... Would like to here more stories about marriage and independent life according to muslim parents... can't be alone.
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #5 - November 08, 2012, 12:50 PM
    Quote from: billy on November 08, 2012, 10:50 AM
    Dead ends are just places for tunnels to built from that you haven't worked out yet  Smiley


    I have me shovels and picks ready Cheesy
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #6 - November 08, 2012, 02:10 PM
    Sorry you're going through this, know just how frustrating it can be. Hang on in there, hon and keep your wits about you and eyes peeled for a way out.

    "The more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline toward the religion of solitude."


    "i used to steal my sisters barbies so i could take their clothes off and perv on them" - prince spinoza
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #7 - November 08, 2012, 06:33 PM
    Xian  far away hug
    Started from the bottom, now I'm here
    Started from the bottom, now my whole extended family's here

    JOIN THE CHAT
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #8 - November 10, 2012, 11:39 AM
    :')
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #9 - November 10, 2012, 12:30 PM
     parrot piggy far away hug
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #10 - November 11, 2012, 11:42 AM
    Quote from: XianAmersu on November 08, 2012, 12:49 PM
    That ever so present arrogance among muslims begins in the home with parents and we've all had first class tickets... Would like to here more stories about marriage and independent life according to muslim parents... can't be alone.


    I've said I'm never getting married, which my father says is HARAM and both parents say is a "curse" and setting myself up for a childless existence which will end in an old folks home (like those old kuffar whose kids abandon them) after years of being abused by the staff. I'm not too into tradition and I'm attracted to the idea of a bohemian-esque existence (to an extent -- I still want a top notch education + a job) but I still think I'll probably get married if I meet the right person and might even have a child (maximum two) somewhere down the line but seeing as my parents are traditional Muslims our ideas on relationships/marriage are completely different; tbh mine are a bit of a paradox and I'm not even really sure of what I want but I do know what I don't want! The whole meeting someone, getting your parents' approval, marrying ASAP then popping out babies ASAP sounds old hat to me and is what my parents have in mind. NA-AH to that!

    I've hinted at possibly moving away once I graduate and get a full-time job, which made my mother feel like I was abandoning her. The only way a Muslim girl can leave her parents' home is if she gets married (and leaving without doing so would amount to running away and ditching one's family or becoming a "loose woman") or as my father once eloquently put it a good Muslim woman has three homes throughout her life: her father's, her husband's and finally her grave. Neither of my parents are accepting of the idea of a Muslim woman living alone so I feel ya.
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #11 - November 11, 2012, 11:46 AM
    Oh, and I always get the "your family loves you, there's nothing to be depressed about" too. Oh the sad and misunderstood life of an ex-Muslim :(
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #12 - November 12, 2012, 05:31 PM
    Quote from: Al-Alethia on November 11, 2012, 11:42 AM
    ...Neither of my parents are accepting of the idea of a Muslim woman living alone so I feel ya.



     Cry

    Fuck islam. Seriously.
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #13 - November 23, 2012, 12:18 PM
    Quote from: XianAmersu on November 12, 2012, 05:31 PM
    Cry

    Fuck islam. .....Seriously.

     
    Hi Xian.. I  wish ..  you could have used this  finmad  emoticon instead of that ..

      take it easy.. for some,   life is like that.,   got to fight,  that is how we evolve and show way to others.    Girl you are bright .. you will come out of that  you will shine...  and I hope one day you will replace this guy..

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUFY8Zw0Bag
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #14 - November 23, 2012, 04:33 PM
    Aww, yeezevee you're such a sweetie  001_wub
  • Re: Well, fuck.
     Reply #15 - November 23, 2012, 08:46 PM
    Quote from: XianAmersu on November 08, 2012, 10:24 AM

    "YOU'RE NOT DEPRESSED, YOU'RE STUPID. YOUR GRANDFATHER WAS A MODEST HAFEZ!, HE'S A SHARIEF! HIS KHALWATIYA SCHOOL BEARS YOUR FAMILY NAME! YOUR FAMILY LOVES YOU! YOU HAVE NO REASON TO BE DEPRESSED.


    WTF?!  What kind of parent tells their childe they are stupid?!  I guess this is what organised religion does to people.  So much for the 'religion of peace'.  Islam just turns family members against each other, families against other families, tribes against other tribes, etc.  Not very peaceful, innit?!

    I've been battling with depression most of my life and after I converted I was told by fellow Muslimahs that depression doesn't exist.  LIKE HELL IT  DOESN'T EXIST!!!  It's just that we acknowledge and accept that it is a part of life for many people rather than hiding it in shame for fear of besmirching the family name and honor.
    Atheism is a non-prophet organization.

    The sleeper has awakened -  Dune

    Give a man a fish, and you'll feed him for a day Give him a religion, and he'll starve to death while praying for a fish!
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