Seeker -
Who is this?
I reckon if there was a vote - the public had a question - is it wrong to objectify the opposite sex - I would say a clear majority would say yes it is wrong, even though they might still do it.
This would be an appeal to popularity. Nothing objective here.
I know when I went to Saudi Arabia for Umrah, them two weeks did not feel a tingle, no objectifying, no women to be appreciated thought that was a fantastic holiday, obviously it does not work in Saudi Arabia because that is the norm over there, so they will objectify, eyes, hair, hands, toes, goats but it worked for someone living in the West.
OK
It is natural to our biology. It was a good thing back then. You might have had a mating chance once in a long while. Now it is open season, similar to perhaps how sweet tooth was helpful back in the caveman days, not so much now because food companies take your evolutionary base instincts and get you fat.
Too much sugar can make you fat and unhealthy. But too much sex... I don't think it will cause harm.
As long as objectifying leads to the objectifier doing no harm to any other individual/relationship, there is nothing majorly wrong. Should have said don't touch, if not requested.
Objectifying is not rape or sexual abuse. If it just comparing a person to an object, in your mind.
I am saying that if what you write is true i.e women biologically programmed to like you blah yada etc, then it is a good thing for you, wish I was lol, just thinking if those same women read what/how you write about them here, i.e calling them handkerchiefs was it? they might not appreciate you so much, not all women of course. They are a funny bunch, you don't males visiting/writing to/marrying mass murderers on life sentences.
What I said about biological attractiveness is just that I am tall 1.84cm, 87kg, 8-9% bodyfat. Women want healthy genetics for their offspring, and I have just what they need.
After that you undeestood and agreed, with the three remaining comments of mine you quoted. Just saying won't be long before you do say Islam is the answer.
Will never say that. How did you reach this conclusion?
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