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  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #60 - May 08, 2014, 07:31 PM
    Its interesting how little muslims understand ex muslims and their reasons for leaving religion, the number one reason is don't look at the muslims look at the religion.... and then u don't know you religion ...

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #61 - May 10, 2014, 12:59 PM
    Quote from: rainy.dark1 on May 08, 2014, 05:17 PM
    @happy murthad:)
    Brother you have knowdelge about islam but like others you have misconceptions you heared stories and belived on it what you have just said about prophets thats a complete bulshit stories written by different muslim stupid groups like qadyaniz etc...as concern hazrat Aisha she was 11 when she got married she wasnt a baby girl and just think how many girls do you know who look like 18 year old but when you ask their age is will be 12 or 13 years , but she is like a complete adult girl she is ready to have a boyfriend or husband....so Hazrat Aisha wasnt forced to get marry she willed herself and she always lived happy with him she said that my hasband is the best of the world...so my dear if she was happy and never complained then whats your problem why itz an issue for you guys....as concern to other things you said they are all stories made by people like you and nothing else....while you said about Quran that is actually you just know the translation you dont know the explination of you should know about the full context...beating a wife doesnt mean you start beating her with stick or slap her noo it means you can only beat her with thoot brush but there should be a reason if she is cheating on you....well you siad about devil yes he asked Allah and he is given permission Allah could put us on a straight path but there is a test and he knows about everything but we dont know how you behave are you able to pass test? on the day of judejment when you pass you will be screaming heyyy im passed and this world is nothing it doesnt have any value to Allah and the hardships on here are nothing to the rewards of hearafter which is a life forever...Allah can give you everything on here as well but this life is very short this life doesnt have any value...on the day of judgement Allah will show paradise and rewards to a person who had the most troubles in this world he never had happines allways touchered and then after seeing his rewards Allah will ask him tell me now you ever had any trouble in your life and he will say oh Allah after seeing this what you showed me i feel like i never ever had a minor trouble or toucher in my life....so brother dont give your examples after touchering your daughter you cant give her anything better....and this sister was touchered by her husband not by Allah and that basted will be difinitly punished but what if Allah asked this sister that i gave you eyes to see, heart to live and ears to listen and two sons then why you could not bear a few months toucher and trouble in my love hope you all understand what im trying to say:)


    Epic. Grin
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #62 - May 10, 2014, 01:17 PM
    OMG WE HAVE OUR OWN MUSLIM APOLOGIST ON CEMB NOW?!?

    we have just won at life.
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #63 - May 10, 2014, 01:26 PM
    They pop in every now and again. DahirT was my personal favorite. Grin
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #64 - May 10, 2014, 01:31 PM
    They remind me of my former self :(
    I was quite deluded, I tried to contextualise everything- even contexts within contexts.
    Not realising that the infallible word of a supreme overlord should have certain aspects which are independent of "context".
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #65 - May 10, 2014, 01:32 PM
    i think most of us were former muslim apologists
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #66 - May 10, 2014, 01:37 PM
    Quite possibly, these are the apologists that I would like to have seen in action:

    -HM (apologist version)
    - CF (apologist version
    - Lua (apologist version)

    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #67 - May 10, 2014, 01:37 PM
    Quote from: confusedagno on May 10, 2014, 01:32 PM
    i think most of us were former muslim apologists

    well that is because people only knew HUMAN SIDE OF ISLAM/religion.. inhuman side of Islam is hidden .,  once we remove that inhuman side and supernatural/superstitious side of Islam there is nothing in it and it will be a good or as bad as other so-called religions..
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #68 - May 10, 2014, 01:39 PM
    The last two years as a Muslim I was anything but a Muslim apologist. Muslims in general were not very happy about me talking about problems like sexism, honour culture, misogyny, minorities (lack of) rights etc in Muslim societies and Islam. "Don't be too much of a feminist, dear sister" was a precious advice a iERA representative gave me, and then sent me a "debate" a stupid Muslim woman had with some feminist. I laughed so hard and cried at the same time because the woman was so stupid and delusional.
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #69 - May 10, 2014, 01:43 PM
    Guys, sorry for being slightly off topic...
    My next YouTube series will be with regards to blasphemy in the Muslim world.


    What kinds of video would you guys like to watch?

    - Text/picture heavy (or something simple like a silent video running in the background)?
    - Duration wise: Long, medium or short videos?

    Any advice be beneficial, thanks.
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #70 - May 10, 2014, 01:51 PM
    dont make it too long keep it to the point
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #71 - May 10, 2014, 01:52 PM
    I know that of course lol, but what sort of presentation would capture your attention?
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #72 - May 10, 2014, 01:55 PM
    pictures and texts are good,
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #73 - May 10, 2014, 01:58 PM
    I think we're veering just a bit off topic here. (I share a good part of the blame Grin ) Qtian, if you want to continue the youtube discussion in your youtube thread it’ll help keep the topics organized.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #74 - May 10, 2014, 01:59 PM
    Fair enough, I'll probably post about it in the near future.
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #75 - May 10, 2014, 03:52 PM
    Quote from: Qtian on May 10, 2014, 01:37 PM
    Quite possibly, these are the apologists that I would like to have seen in action:

    -HM (apologist version)
    - CF (apologist version
    - Lua (apologist version)




    Ha ha i agree..  they would have scared the sht out of me though lol, i always avoided salafi at the mosque like the plague, any encounter we'd wind up arguing, i had a "hippy" kind of laid back approach to islam at the time..  but i have also been a terrible apologist on the net too for years ive preached islam all over and im very embarrassed of it now.. Infact ive blanked islam so much from my mind that i cant even remember simple prayers  :/

    xoooo
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #76 - May 10, 2014, 04:11 PM
    Thankfully, I was never really an apologist, mostly because I was never really a good Muslim to begin with (I left at a young age).

    But I would imagine it would be hard; change is not that easy, especially when you're part of a religion like Islam, which is a rather complete guideline for many aspects of life. Leaving Islam means you have to follow your own path by your own standards and morals, and sometimes that can be hard.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #77 - May 10, 2014, 05:55 PM
    Quote from: Qtian on May 10, 2014, 01:37 PM
    Quite possibly, these are the apologists that I would like to have seen in action:

    -HM (apologist version)
    - CF (apologist version
    - Lua (apologist version)




    Grin Why would you want to see my embarrassing attempts to navigate through a sea of self-delusion?
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #78 - May 10, 2014, 05:59 PM
    In retrospect, it would be quite funny. However, if I was experiencing "apologist lua" in real-time then I would probably agree with what you were saying Tongue
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #79 - May 10, 2014, 06:00 PM
    BTW you do know that HM and I would really NOT like lua and her Quranist ideas? Tongue
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #80 - May 10, 2014, 06:01 PM
    Grin He didn't say we'd have to be working together.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #81 - May 10, 2014, 06:03 PM
    :O
    Quranist was one of my final steps before apostasy.

    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #82 - May 10, 2014, 06:04 PM
    I think a lot of people who became apostates briefly made a stop there.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #83 - May 10, 2014, 06:07 PM
    The road less traveled.
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #84 - May 10, 2014, 06:30 PM
    This story is truly amazing. I find it wonderfull how people choose paths that lead them into the scariest situations but they struggle their way out and come out stronger than they ever were.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #85 - May 10, 2014, 08:39 PM
    Quote from: rainy.dark1 on May 08, 2014, 05:17 PM
    @happy murthad:)
    Brother you have knowdelge about islam but like others you have misconceptions you heared stories and belived on it what you have just said about prophets thats a complete bulshit stories written by different muslim stupid groups like qadyaniz etc...as concern hazrat Aisha she was 11 when she got married she wasnt a baby girl and just think how many girls do you know who look like 18 year old but when you ask their age is will be 12 or 13 years , but she is like a complete adult girl she is ready to have a boyfriend or husband....so Hazrat Aisha wasnt forced to get marry she willed herself and she always lived happy with him she said that my hasband is the best of the world...so my dear if she was happy and never complained then whats your problem why itz an issue for you guys....as concern to other things you said they are all stories made by people like you and nothing else....while you said about Quran that is actually you just know the translation you dont know the explination of you should know about the full context...beating a wife doesnt mean you start beating her with stick or slap her noo it means you can only beat her with thoot brush but there should be a reason if she is cheating on you....well you siad about devil yes he asked Allah and he is given permission Allah could put us on a straight path but there is a test and he knows about everything but we dont know how you behave are you able to pass test? on the day of judejment when you pass you will be screaming heyyy im passed and this world is nothing it doesnt have any value to Allah and the hardships on here are nothing to the rewards of hearafter which is a life forever...Allah can give you everything on here as well but this life is very short this life doesnt have any value...on the day of judgement Allah will show paradise and rewards to a person who had the most troubles in this world he never had happines allways touchered and then after seeing his rewards Allah will ask him tell me now you ever had any trouble in your life and he will say oh Allah after seeing this what you showed me i feel like i never ever had a minor trouble or toucher in my life....so brother dont give your examples after touchering your daughter you cant give her anything better....and this sister was touchered by her husband not by Allah and that basted will be difinitly punished but what if Allah asked this sister that i gave you eyes to see, heart to live and ears to listen and two sons then why you could not bear a few months toucher and trouble in my love hope you all understand what im trying to say:)


    Yes if I cheat on my husband a good beating with a toothbrush will fix me! But what about my husband? Should I hit him with a toothpaste tube Huh??
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #86 - May 10, 2014, 08:47 PM
    ^ haha  Afro
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • Re: My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #87 - May 10, 2014, 08:54 PM
    Quote from: rainy.dark1 on May 08, 2014, 05:40 PM
    .


    And the rest of the guys im not free to argue with you i only joined this page for that sister story and really wished to talk to her so babye and take care coz i dont have time for arguing i got exams:)




    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #88 - May 11, 2014, 12:43 AM
    Shoot. My computer got fried by lightning and it cost me this.
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • My story of marrying a Muslim man abroad at 18 years old.
     Reply #89 - May 11, 2014, 10:24 PM
    Quote from: yeezevee on May 08, 2014, 01:19 PM

    Murtads.......... finmad   bad bad people

    How can you CEMB guys learn about allah? You guys are brain washed..

    rainy.dark1 brother?sister? friend .....  DO NOT WORRY ABOUT THESE GUYS ., but please continue to read and write


    Genuine lol at this.

    Well if the point hasn't already been made, I sincerely hope R.D1's first language isn't English, otherwise I'm thinking wind up and some troll f**king with CEMBers(it's not necessary, we already know how mental Islam is).
    Quote from: rainy.dark1 on May 08, 2014, 05:40 PM
    @yeezeveeQuote

    Bytheway This is your own lives and Allah says you have complete freedom to live as you wish either belive in me and follow right path if you want paradise or either follow devils path so you will be entered into hell fire

    .

    But giving'em the benefit of the doubt, above is the clincher, when all else fails, play your trump card and use the old, 'Carrot vs Stick' persuasion tactic. 
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