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 Topic: Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam

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  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #60 - September 29, 2013, 11:18 PM
    Rock out to Queen. Don't stop me now, I'm having such a good time, I'm having a ball! Punk
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #61 - September 29, 2013, 11:19 PM
    Rock out to Bon Jovi. It's my life and it's now or never, and I ain't gonna live forever. I just wanna live while I'm alive, cos it's MY life! Punk
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #62 - September 29, 2013, 11:58 PM
    ^ I actually like that song by them.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #63 - October 01, 2013, 06:41 AM
    Rock out to Marilyn Manson. I'm not a slave to a god that doesn't exist!!!!!!!  Punk
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #64 - October 01, 2013, 07:05 PM
    Quote from: yeezevee on October 01, 2013, 12:40 PM
    heading of the thread says "( Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam )"  and  
    Kodanshi Posts this..
     
    Hmm That is what men and women do after leaving Islam??  well going back to Islam is better..

    anyway  this thread appears to be playing games.. and this appears to  be   a good game for folks who has  lots of free time.

    So..that game  is advertized in this newspaper when I was reading an article by dr. Atta-ur-Rahman  .. good stuff Hope in next 20 years, some one will quench the oil thrust of the folks on this planet...


    You never fail to put a smile on my face.

    You forgot to mention Allah doll.  dance
    No free mixing of the sexes is permitted on these forums or via PM or the various chat groups that are operating.

    Women must write modestly and all men must lower their case.

    http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?425649-Have-some-Hayaa-%28modesty-shame%29-people!
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #65 - October 16, 2013, 02:34 AM
    My daughter has all her nails painted, now. She doesn't even know what wudhu is, never mind that the polish negates it. Living large, getting through the list!
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #66 - October 16, 2013, 02:36 AM
     Afro Afro Afro Beautiful
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #67 - October 16, 2013, 02:40 AM
    Quote from: three on October 16, 2013, 02:34 AM
    My daughter has all her nails painted, now. She doesn't even know what wudhu is, never mind that the polish negates it. Living large, getting through the list!

      clap dance
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #68 - October 16, 2013, 02:48 AM
    All this encouragement is inspiring. Hold the phone.
    I am going to go CUT THE TASSEL OFF OF MY TASBI.
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #69 - October 16, 2013, 02:50 AM
    Tasbi are prayer beads right?
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #70 - October 16, 2013, 03:00 AM
    Some people call them dhikr, because you do dhikr (remembrance) with them. Yes.
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #71 - October 16, 2013, 07:12 AM
    Quote from: three on October 16, 2013, 02:48 AM
    All this encouragement is inspiring. Hold the phone.
    I am going to go CUT THE TASSEL OFF OF MY TASBI.

    Phwoar! Pole-dancing, coke-snorting, bitch queen from Hell in 3, 2, 1.....  dance
    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #72 - October 17, 2013, 12:37 AM
    Maybe I'll just put the combat boots back on and start yelling insults at my brother in public again.
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #73 - December 20, 2013, 05:14 PM
    The swimming thing is the one I want to do the most. yes
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #74 - December 20, 2013, 05:37 PM
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    Dye your hair black or an unnatural color


    Narrated Abu Huraira :

    The Prophet said, "Jews and Christians do not dye their hair so you should do the opposite of what they do.
    Bukhari : Book 7 : Volume 72 : Hadith 786
    Too bad, you could of dyed your hair as a muslim.
    Tell people that there's an invisible man in the sky who created the universe, and the vast majority will believe you.

    Tell them the paint is wet, and they have to touch it to be sure.
    - George Carlin
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #75 - December 20, 2013, 05:45 PM
    I think Mo thought The End was like, around the corner... and probably didn't know/understand/take into account how big our planet was... so the fact that customs change and spread over time was not taken into consideration. I dyed my hairblack as Muslim, right before I apostated. Is allah going to burn me in hell because of little black hair color? Roll Eyes
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #76 - December 20, 2013, 05:49 PM
    Quote from: Cornflower on December 20, 2013, 05:45 PM
    Is allah going to burn me in hell because of little black hair color? Roll Eyes

    well because god apparently cares what color your hair is, yes. Though the prophet thought it was fine and dandy though  Cheesy
    Tell people that there's an invisible man in the sky who created the universe, and the vast majority will believe you.

    Tell them the paint is wet, and they have to touch it to be sure.
    - George Carlin
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #77 - December 20, 2013, 06:02 PM

    Not in any particular order

    1. Take piano lessons and encourage my kid to do the same. Actually LEARN how to play the piano.

    2. I am fairly clumsy, cannot sing or dance. But I WILL try to learn, and therefore find a choir/singing group to join and sign me up for dancing classes. Perhaps salsa or tango.

    3. Cook a nice dinner and share a bottle of good wine with the women in my family, on a regular basis. Perhaps try to mend the bonds that have been torned (not because of me, our family has always been disfunctional).

    4. Fall madly in love with a beautiful woman, preferrably someone who feels the same for me.

    5. Express myself more freely with my clothing. No more restricted to niqab outside and maxiskirts and dresses in front of others. Buy a good pair of pants for the first time in 10 years.

    6. Find a really good guy and be best friends with him. I miss my old guy friends :(

    7. Find good new friends who love me for who I am, and not what I am.
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #78 - December 20, 2013, 06:03 PM
    Quote from: Sam Brent on December 20, 2013, 05:49 PM
    well because god apparently cares what color your hair is, yes. Though the prophet thought it was fine and dandy though  Cheesy


    Colouring your hair with hennah is just fine. It's the black that is haram  Cheesy
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #79 - December 20, 2013, 06:56 PM
    1. Go to the movie theater
    2. Listen to music in my home
    3. Learn to play an instrument
    4. Swim or simply enter a swimming pool
    5. Cut my hair short
    6. Have any physical contact with a male
    7. Have a one-night stand
    8. Pet a dog
    9. Own a dog
    10. Drink alcohol
    11. Try any haram foods (eg. Bacon, ham)
    12. Go to a rave
    13. Go to a bar
    14. Burn my hijabs and abayas
    15. Get a tattoo
    16. Buy and wear a pair of short-shorts
    17. Travel by myself

    The list is truly endless!
    turnipovich
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #80 - December 21, 2013, 01:20 AM
    I stopped walking Muslimah style last week.
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #81 - December 21, 2013, 02:07 AM
    mia, you're really going to enjoy going to the movie theatre! I swear I spend every weekend there. And congrats, three! I think the muslimah walk is ingrained in my bones.

    I would like to add traveling and traveling solo (no mahram required!). Really can't wait to leave so I can travel. I've only been to a few states and only ventured out of the country to visit east Africa and the middle east. I'm ready to go to Europe and New York and Florida and Japan and China and so on. I just want to go on a plane ride and not have it last over six hours.

    I want to go to the beach without wearing a big black abaya and hijab - nothing more awkward than swimming with that.

    I want to go on a date.

    I want to own my own place.

    I want to be independent (also not allowed in Islam!).  dance

    Writing all this gets me excited for the future. Hurry up already and get here, please!
    "so now, if you leave (Allahu A?lam is you already have) what will u do??? go out and show ur body to all the men??? sleep with countless men?? maashaAllah if you think think this is freedom or womens right then may Allah guide you to that which is correct."
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #82 - December 21, 2013, 03:46 AM
    Quote from: three on December 21, 2013, 01:20 AM
    I stopped walking Muslimah style last week.


    Explain for the never been muslim members?
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #83 - December 29, 2013, 05:13 PM
    ^^
    It's this awkward motion where your legs move straight forward, trying to hide the fact that you might actually have hips. Or else you'd get raped.

    The next time you see a hijab-mummified lady passing by, notice how her movement is different than others, and try not to rape her while you're at too. Wink
    Just like Johnny Flynn said, the breath I've taken and the one I must to go on.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #84 - December 29, 2013, 05:25 PM
    In fact I found some bullshit on the net just for you ---> http://web.youngmuslims.ca/online_library/books/the_lawful_and_prohibition_in_islam/ch3s1p10.htm
    Just like Johnny Flynn said, the breath I've taken and the one I must to go on.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #85 - December 29, 2013, 05:58 PM
    Oh that is a nice link. I remember doing all that. Yes, when you walk, you should not roll your hips.
    But I have seen a lot of Arabi ladies stomping around, not rolling their hips, but sort of attacking the ground with their feet while they move forward. This link mentions it as being intentional during Jahiliyah. I don't think it is entirely abandoned.
     
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #86 - December 29, 2013, 09:11 PM
    Meh... maybe I thought about the way I walked, talked and acted in the beginning of my conversion but the last couple of years I couldn't have cared less. I think that my straighforward, outgoing and sometimes flirtatious personality does not fit well with the way I dress. Maybe that's why I get surprised stares both from Muslims as well as non-Muslims...hmmmm  whistling2
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #87 - December 29, 2013, 09:43 PM
    Interesting link, Wiselyskeptical.  I remember being taught all that stuff.  It still comes as automatic to me really.  Especially the lowering of the gaze as I'm shy anyway.
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #88 - December 29, 2013, 10:55 PM
    Finally, a reply. Smiley
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ladies List of things to do after leaving Islam
     Reply #89 - December 29, 2013, 11:14 PM
    You know, I do apologize. Normally I try to reply immediately, and I remember this night my computer crashed, and actually during my reply. Then it must have shown already read and I could not find it again. I am forgetful, if it does not show up for me, I do forget.
    My apologies.
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
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