My kid is confused
Reply #30 - March 05, 2014, 05:32 AM
Just be there for her as best you can, try to explain that her father and you differ on what you think is acceptible. But the most important thing is to let her be a kid and enjoy herself while she is with you. She will see how harsh and closeminded Islam is on her own, it might take a while since she is a child but children have memories and she will remember your kindness and freedom and she will remember the harshness, betrayal, and hyprocracy she feels in the muslim household and that will set a template a foundation for her being openminded. So let her be who she is and be free at yours, explain what you can and make it fun. Tell her to forget her worries when she is with you bc you are her mother and comfort. She will see the truth for herself when the time comes. Hugs and stay strong
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