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  • Masturbation (post religion)
     OP - April 03, 2014, 07:26 AM
    So I have a few questions, mostly for the ladies but the gents are welcome to join in. Regarding masturbation for those who have left religion and have been brainwashed into thinking its something 'wrong'

    1. Do you mastubate?
    2. How often?
    3. Do you feel guilt afterwards?
    4. How do you deal with this guilt?
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

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  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #1 - April 03, 2014, 07:28 AM
    so Il go first
    1. Yes i do
    2. about twice a week
    3. I feel extremely guilty
    4. I keep talking myself out of the guilt, reminding myself that i'm not hurting anybody and this isn't going to give me cancer or kill me, but I really hate that I have to feel bad about it afterwards.
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #2 - April 03, 2014, 07:49 AM
    Just think of it as a health supplement. Masturbation in men reduces the risk of prostate cancers, and also generally produces endorphins; great painkilling effects for periods and the like. Isn't alcohol in Islam allowed if for medical reasons such as amputations etc.? Think of it along those lines and then I should think you could free yourself from the guilt; not that it is wrong in the first place.
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #3 - April 03, 2014, 07:54 AM
    (not that we care about islamic rulings) but it is encouraged within islam to prevent commiting unlawful sex... It is only discouraged when in a relationship or when in excess so much that it prevents one from seeking a partner.
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #4 - April 03, 2014, 10:15 AM
    ^ It's actually haram but some scholars allow a concession for young men who are unable to marry. Even then, it's only as a preventive measure if they're on the brink of committing zina. And it only applies to men because good Muslimahs don't have sex drives, apparently.

    @OP
    I'll avoid discussing my masturbation habits as a female on the Internet because I'm not a fan of creepy PMs Tongue but even when I was Muslim I can't say the guilt was too much. It was there but it was very dull and not strong enough to stop me. I figured it's not mentioned in the Quran and I don't think there are any hadiths that mention masturbation explicitly so I was like "whatevs". Now, my attitude is that it's not hurting anyone and it's perfectly safe and healthy. Nothing wrong with it at all. Try to think about it like that. Pretty much everyone does it, probably even especially the sheikhs who rant against it.  
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #5 - April 03, 2014, 10:51 AM
    I missed the "post religion" part sorry..
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #6 - April 03, 2014, 12:30 PM
    Before leaving Islam I felt a ton of guilt when masturbating.  I used to get horny and then masturbate.  Then I'd cry in prayer to allah to help me stop this evil habit and then I'd end up doing it again and had to repent again.  The vicious cycle repeated itself too many times.


    My post islam habits:


    1) Of course I masturbate

    2)  Once a day ( sometimes more during the summer for obvious reasons)

    3) Now I feel no guilt at all.  It's my body and I'm going to do what I want with it.

    4)  No guilt.  Just jack off and then get on with my day. 
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #7 - April 03, 2014, 12:51 PM
    Thoba....thoba....

    What the hell..  what is going on in the forum?  I open the forum ..  one thread says Best Places To Have Sex and another  thread reads Masturbation

    and both threads are top of the forum...  and Australian  Al-Alethia  says
    "Knowledge is Power,   I'll avoid discussing my masturbation habits  because  it's not mentioned in the Quran .."

    well let me  add my two cents here before I read about that guy  "John of Damascus (c. 676–749 AD),   The second chapter of his book, The Fount of Wisdom"

    So question to all of you here in this thread is

    "What is best place for Masturbation"?  NOT SEX... Cheesy

    I will tell you guys my  answer after some  of you guys spell your answers  Cheesy

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  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #8 - April 03, 2014, 01:31 PM
    Quote from: yeezevee on April 03, 2014, 12:51 PM
    Thoba....thoba....

    What the hell..  what is going on in the forum?  I open the forum ..  one thread says Best Places To Have Sex and another  thread reads Masturbation



    Nah come on Yeezevee, we need your replies to these threads. 
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #9 - April 03, 2014, 02:52 PM
    Most people masturbate if they don't have a partner/someone with whom they can have sex with, and those who don't do it often misses out on something besides fulfilling their sexual urgrs. If you don't know your own body, how can you expect someone else to know what you like or not. Sure, you can spend considerable time doing it together, but there's no reason for you not to do it yourself as well.

    Before I had sex the first time, and a long time after marriage, I was very rigid because of my conservative upbringing and the shame I as a woman felt for having sexual desires. I was still horny, but never dared to touch anything down there. I started masturbating when I stopped connecting female sexuality with shame and the idea that it can only exist in connection with a man. When my ex didn't have time to give me an orgasm due to various reasons such as being interrupted by a crying baby at night, or when he was away on trips etc, I masturbated and he knew it. He thought I was a weirdo, but I just lost interest in sex all together if I didn't enjoy it.

    Having sex without the orgasm at the end is pointless IMO but that's because I know I can have it without having to "mystify" it. No bs about it being "normal" never to climax. Of course people never reach climax if all the focus is on being a sex symbol. This reminds me of the TED talk that was uploaded here some time ago about sexual objectification. Instead of being IN the sex act, women tend to "observe" themself from the outside. Being a sexual object instead of subject.

    Went off topic, but seriously. Female(or male) sexuality isn't shamefull and self pleasure can never be wrong. It's a "victimless crime" just like shirk and kufr, if we're looking at it from a Muslim background.
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #10 - April 03, 2014, 04:24 PM
    Yeez I was wondrn whethr u had Multple Personalty Disorder? Smetmes u act lke a tru Muslim (al dat Thoba thoba thing):p.
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #11 - April 03, 2014, 04:27 PM
    Quote from: Rubaya on April 03, 2014, 04:24 PM
    Yeez I was wondrn whethr u had Multple Personalty Disorder? Smetmes u act lke a tru Muslim (al dat Thoba thoba thing).

    Rubaya ...Rubaya...Rubaya  you are not alone there...

    You have the point there ., very few people understand me when I write against Islam or sometimes in support of some Muslim folks.  I have nothing against cultures and languages.  
      
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #12 - April 03, 2014, 04:34 PM
    I knw u wre jst actn lke dat 2 giv us a gud lauf, n I realy enjoy it. Dere is a bit of Islam stil ingraind in me. Lke I dnt feel lke touchn pork or alcohol. I gues I REALY hav d disordr:D.
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #13 - April 03, 2014, 04:39 PM
    Quote from: Rubaya on April 03, 2014, 04:34 PM
    I knw u wre jst actn lke dat 2 giv us a gud lauf, n I realy enjoy it. Dere is a bit of Islam stil ingraind in me. Lke I dnt feel lke touchn pork or alcohol. I gues I REALY hav d disordr:D.

    Rubaya  you are not typing well I guess you are on those iphones.. whatever.. Huh?

    Now on this ,,  Dere is a bit of Islam stil ingraind in me

     Now tell me what bit you have and what is wrong with it??

     If there is something good in Islam and you like it.. you keep it as long as it doesn't hurt others..
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #14 - April 03, 2014, 04:45 PM
    RUbaya u havnt had pork or alcohol? do you think u will?
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #15 - April 03, 2014, 04:46 PM
    Quote from: yeezevee on April 03, 2014, 04:39 PM




     If there is something good in Islam and you like it.. you keep it as long as it doesn't hurt others..


     Afro
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    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #16 - April 03, 2014, 05:13 PM
    Yeez I alrdy mentnd dat d Islamic part ingraind in me is dat I avoid pork n alcohol. Confusdagno, I dnt lke d smel of alcohol. In adtn, I m weak minded. Wat if I get adctd 2 it? Den it wil b hard 4 me 2 leav it. I only eat d flesh of cows, goats n chicken. I evn avoid othr halal meats. I dnt find dem appealn. Aldou I m a bit temptd 2 try bacon, I hav no access 2 it.
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #17 - April 03, 2014, 05:17 PM
    Interesting, I don't think I will ever try pork, but I won't say never  Wink
    Ye certain things are ingrained
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #18 - April 03, 2014, 05:19 PM
    Quote from: Rubaya on April 03, 2014, 05:13 PM
    Yeez I alrdy mentnd dat d Islamic part ingraind in me is dat I avoid pork n alcohol. ...........

    I would NOT consider that as  a problem to any one or to you Rubaya., That is very little to do with the problems in Islam and problems of Islam.  People just copy pasted that from Jewish food habits of pre-medieval  times.
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #19 - April 03, 2014, 05:29 PM
    My bro livs in UK n he says dat it dsnt luk polite if he refuses alcohol, esp frm his boss. Wenevr I say dat it is 4bdn he replies, "Jst bcs d Arabs dnt do it, dsnt mean we cnt." I think he thinks it is alowd in Islam.
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #20 - April 03, 2014, 05:46 PM
    ^everything in islam looks open to interpretation.
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #21 - April 03, 2014, 06:00 PM
    yeah, if you try hard enough
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #22 - April 03, 2014, 08:11 PM
    Quote
    Quote from: confusedagno on April 03, 2014, 05:46 PM
    ^everything in islam looks open to interpretation.

    Quote from: Cornflower on April 03, 2014, 06:00 PM
    yeah, if you try hard enough


    Noo.. you don't need to try et al.,   you just have to STOP THINKING become a zombie and follow the rules written by some cave dwelling fools some 1000 year ago......
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #23 - April 03, 2014, 08:15 PM
    ye once you start THINKING everything falls apart
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #24 - April 03, 2014, 08:20 PM
    Quote from: Al-Alethia on April 03, 2014, 10:15 AM
    I'll avoid discussing my masturbation habits as a female on the Internet because I'm not a fan of creepy PMs Tongue

    osmanthus sends obligatory creepy PM
    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #25 - April 03, 2014, 08:20 PM
    I masturbate。In fact、even after leaving Islam I still sometimes fast during Ramadan just so that I can have a wank on those days while fasting…
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #26 - April 03, 2014, 08:54 PM
    Well I was looking for places to do that   but I get this message  and it is quite often..  Cry

    Quote
    Internal Server Error

    The server encountered an internal error or misconfiguration and was unable to complete your request.

    Please contact the server administrator, webmaster@councilofexmuslims.com and inform them of the time the error occurred, and anything you might have done that may have caused the error.

    More information about this error may be available in the server error log.

    Additionally, a 404 Not Found error was encountered while trying to use an ErrorDocument to handle the request.

    Apache/2.2.26 (Unix) mod_ssl/2.2.26 OpenSSL/0.9.7a mod_bwlimited/1.4 PHP/5.4.26 Server at www.councilofexmuslims.com Port 80


    So I am going to postpone that  Huh?
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #27 - April 03, 2014, 10:09 PM
    Oh and after leaving Islam I masturbate "normally".   When I was in my early teens and muslim I used to masturbate this really weird way and it was just so messy.

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #28 - April 04, 2014, 05:05 AM
    Lol, I think you'll have to explain the difference between "weird" and "normal" in this case Cheesy
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • Masturbation (post religion)
     Reply #29 - April 04, 2014, 07:23 AM
    Are you sure you want him to?
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