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 Topic: the things family and friends mention about their religious lives

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  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     OP - May 04, 2014, 05:53 PM

    I know a lot of u shear things on a daily basis with regards to religion, as it is a lot of peoples 'way of life' maybe youl post things that got you'l thinking or things that pissed youl off here


    Today I heard my grandmother and my mum talking about how this life is not easy and this life is just one big test, Currently I am going thru alot of challenges in my life, but their are a handful of good things as well, I just got to thinking about this whole life is a test mentality. Isn't it the saddest way to live.

    My gran is ill, and she says she makes lot shukr to allah for every step she can take, this makes her feel better so I'm fine with it, but it does make me think about how religion takes away your own greatness as a human being

    And then blames shaytaan for anything thats bad, like my mum says shaytaan makes us fight and shaytaan made me move out quickly

    I seriously feel like she thinks Im six when she says these things, can she not hear herself?

    Some people will never stop believing in fairytales I suppose

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #1 - May 04, 2014, 06:28 PM

    Today I heard my grandmother and my mum talking about how this life is not easy and this life is just one big test, Currently I am going thru alot of challenges in my life, but their are a handful of good things as well, I just got to thinking about this whole life is a test mentality. Isn't it the saddest way to live.

    Yes it is OP. But what to do? There are only 1% of people who don't find life hard and I think many of them include kids well taken care of Smiley. I remember how happy and carefree I was as a child. I didn't need anything except food, toys, TV and love of the people around me. I felt bad only when I was chided but I forgot about after some times. Now life is a hell for me. I have no friends, mentally ill and have become a misanthrope. I am sorry to give such a pessimistic view of life, but I am sure yours will get better. We all here wish so Afro.
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #2 - May 04, 2014, 06:51 PM

    My mum was just telling me today that shaytan is always strong and can play easilly with people's mind.

    ... yeah right, so there is no free will I thought. I think they think there is almost no free will. Why do we have minds then?

    And another thing I dont understand: how is life a test and Allah gives you two ways to choose from during a test, if He knows which one you will choose already...?

    There are so many contradictions in religion and so many things not logical at all!

    When my mum mentions things and I think by myself *wtf...* I just dont say anything and listen to her. Smiley

    Dogs never bite me - just humans. ~ M. Monroe

    Religions seem to cause more grief than good.

    Exmuslim Chat
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #3 - May 04, 2014, 06:57 PM

    Now life is a hell for me. I have no friends, mentally ill and have become a misanthrope. I am sorry to give such a pessimistic view of life, 


    This is sad to here

    How do you think you can turn things around for yourself?

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #4 - May 04, 2014, 07:05 PM

    I don't have the answer Confusedagno. I am just as confused about you in this matter Smiley.
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #5 - May 04, 2014, 07:09 PM

    lol Im not so confused on how to change my life around, I'm just trying not to tramp on too many toes when I do so.
    I am actually on track with my plan (even if living alone fell short for now)
    I have a job and job experience piling up, and can now save up and start planning my greatest escape that has to be done again without stepping on too many toes
    I just need a lot of patience and support right now.
    WOrking 8-5 in a non muslim enviro is a BIG help right now

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #6 - May 04, 2014, 09:03 PM

     Afro

    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #7 - May 04, 2014, 09:41 PM

    lol Im not so confused on how to change my life around, I'm just trying not to tramp on too many toes when I do so.
    I am actually on track with my plan (even if living alone fell short for now)
    I have a job and job experience piling up, and can now save up and start planning my greatest escape that has to be done again without stepping on too many toes
    I just need a lot of patience and support right now.
    WOrking 8-5 in a non muslim enviro is a BIG help right now


    Losing the battle to win the war worked big for me. Keep on.

    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #8 - May 05, 2014, 05:48 AM

    Losing is a process of learning. Don't give up hope Confusedagno.
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #9 - May 05, 2014, 04:28 PM

    Im not loosing hope Smiley but started smoking again to deal with the stress ;/

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #10 - May 05, 2014, 04:33 PM

    ^ That - I too started again after 2 years of non-smoking :/
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #11 - May 05, 2014, 04:36 PM

    i was 7 years clean

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #12 - May 05, 2014, 04:58 PM

     mysmilie_977 stress makes us do the silliest things, hope I stop soon
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #13 - May 05, 2014, 05:04 PM

    good luck Smiley
    I hope i dont get addicted again, but mmm so damn good

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #14 - May 05, 2014, 05:34 PM

    As your well-wisher I would like to request you to stop smoking. It's not good for your health, as you already know. Try channeling your thoughts and times to improving yourself. Like taking dance lessons. When you are in bad mood practise your things. Also exercise releases chemicals that reduces stress. Whenever I feel depressed I come here, shop, dance, sing etc. Previously I used to be tempted by the sleeping pills, but not anymore. You have got a job so I hope things will get better Smiley.
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #15 - May 05, 2014, 05:44 PM

     Afro thanks rubaya
    will try that out

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • the things family and friends mention about their religious lives
     Reply #16 - July 04, 2014, 10:05 AM

    My brother has been sending a juz a day message as his Ramadaan good deed :

    Quote
        Theme of Juz Six – The Perfect Shariah

    At this point, I need to clarify that the division of the Qur’an into Juzs was not divinely revealed but the work of scholars. However, the division of the Qur’an into Surahs was revealed by Allah and therefore the themes of the Qur’an are not from Juz to Juz but from Surah to Surah. As the Surahs get shorter, we will discuss the theme of each Surah separately if needed.

    The Sixth Juz begins with the last few passages of Surah An-Nisaa and the theme of this Surah was covered in the previous post. The rest of the Juz is made up of Surah Al-Maa’ida – The Chapter of the Table.

    This was one of the latter Surahs to be revealed in Madinah and contains some of the last few verses and commandments to be revealed. The theme of the Surah is that of the importance of the Shariah and its implementation in our daily lives, and the Surah covers this theme from two angles, a detailed list of Shariah Laws and Prohibitions, and a firm warning about the importance of following the Shariah and that rejecting it is a form of disbelief.

    The word Shariah needs to be explained because many people have limited its meaning to criminal law. The criminal laws found in this Surah and other chapters of the Qur’an are actually called the Hudood and make up a part of the Shariah but the Shariah is a far broader term. The word ‘Shariah’ means a way and it refers comprehensively to the principles, laws and foundations on which Islam in built. It is distinct from Fiqh in that the Shariah refers to that which was revealed and agreed upon, while Fiqh refers to that which is understood and generally differed over.

    Among the Shariah laws covered in this Surah are the following:
    1. Halal and Haraam Food (5:1-5)
    2. Laws related to dealings with the Jews and Christians (5:5, 51, 57)
    3. Laws related to being in the state of Ihraam (5:94-97)
    4. Permission to eat seafood (5:96)
    5. Laws related to Salah and Wudhu (5:6)
    6. Criminal Law for thieves (5:38-39)
    7. Prohibition of Alcohol and Gambling 5:90-91)

    The Surah begins with a firm commandment “Oh you who believe, fulfil your covenants!” (5:1) and this refers primarily to our covenant as Muslims to obey the laws of Allah. The relationship to the theme is clear, these are laws of Allah and you are duty-bound as believers to uphold them to the best of your ability.

    The Surah also declares the perfect nature of the Shariah: “Today I have perfected for you your way of life, and completed my favour upon you and am pleased to make Islam your way of life,” (5:3) This verse is the clearest evidence that the religion as revealed is perfect and therefore any innovations added to the religion are to be rejected. We should also ponder over the fact that if the Shariah is perfect, it would only benefit us to follow it.

    The Surah contains a brief mention of the story of the time when the Children of Israel refused to go for Jihad with Prophet Musa (peace be upon him) and as a result they were humiliated. The lesson here is that when the believers refuse to follow the Shariah, Allah will humiliate them. So the way out for Muslims from the current situation is to revive the Shariah in our daily lives.

    There are many verses in this Surah that indicate that rejecting the Shariah is an act of Kufr, but the most clear of these is the verse “So whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed, then they are disbelievers” (5:44) This verse was been misinterpreted by contemporary extremists as an excuse to declare the majority of Muslims as disbelievers. This misinterpretation has had dangerous repercussions and must be avoided. Nonetheless, the message of the verse remains clear: if you truly believe, you will not reject the laws of Allah.

    Allah also confirms in verse 54 that He is not in need of us and that should we reject the Shariah, He will replace us with true believers who will uphold it and describes them as people who are gentle in dealing with the believers, firm in dealing with disbelief, who strive to revive and uphold Allah’s religion and who do not fear criticism.

    The last point is crucial, as any effort at revival of Islam will be met with criticism by those who fear change and enjoy the status quo, so if we wish to revive Islam, we must rise above criticism and focus on pleasing our Creator.


    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
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