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 Topic: The wedding Thread

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  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #30 - August 13, 2014, 05:28 PM

     Cheesy

    To be fair to game of thrones weddings Tyrion and Sansa's wedding turned out lovely. I mean I don't recall a single person dying in that wedding.

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #31 - August 13, 2014, 07:13 PM

    Back in the days, I used to go to. Weddings for two things; Food and girls. In my hometown, weddings are the only social events where opposite sex get to meet seeing how strict and conservative folks are, no clubs no parties Cheesy

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  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #32 - August 13, 2014, 07:46 PM

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    Back in the days, I used to go to. Weddings for two things; Food and girls. In my hometown, weddings are the only social events where opposite sex get to meet

     


    The weddings I get dragged to are segregated. Besides even if they were not I wouldn't risk talking to girls when my parents are in the same building.

    Especially given how my family and relatives think I'm anti social me talking to any person at a wedding let alone a girl would seem strange.

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #33 - August 14, 2014, 02:19 AM

    It's a waste of money.


    Not if you spend forty dollars on drinks and cake, and let everyone bring their own instruments. Then it becomes cost effective.

    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #34 - August 14, 2014, 02:23 AM

    Can you die of a broken heart?

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-28756374

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  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #35 - August 14, 2014, 03:20 AM

    I still dont see the purpose of marriage lol, I mean it has its benefits when u just tell the authorities you re married, but what else. Tell each other you ll love each other forever and put a ring on it? As if a couple never said that to each other... I tell my bf I want to be with him forever. Defo no big party for me. Maybe bring my mother in law and father in law and the siblings in law and 3 friends at my house and celebrate with some cake or somewhere in town with cake and tea or at a good restaurant or so...

    Dogs never bite me - just humans. ~ M. Monroe

    Religions seem to cause more grief than good.

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  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #36 - August 14, 2014, 03:31 AM

    Here if you are not married and your boyfriend has a serious accident, they will not let you see him, or allow you to assist the doctors in making medical decisions, even if you know what your boyfriend would want them to do.
    That is the best pro marriage argument that I can think of.

    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #37 - August 14, 2014, 03:50 AM

    Is a "civil union" as messy as marriage?

    how fuck works without shit??


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  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #38 - August 14, 2014, 05:28 AM

    Can you die of a broken heart?

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-28756374



    no but stress will do it

     
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #39 - August 14, 2014, 10:03 AM

    @three yh thats what i mean, u have soms advantages. So why a whole party?

    Dogs never bite me - just humans. ~ M. Monroe

    Religions seem to cause more grief than good.

    Exmuslim Chat
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #40 - August 14, 2014, 10:33 AM

    Both my marriage ceremony and my "wedding" was a joke. I never even received a proper mahr. I will most probably never "marry" again, because I don't see the point in. I will however consider registering for a partnership or whatever it's called in case I find a person I want to live my life with. That way your rights are still protected, but you don't have to go through the whole farce that is the marriage institution. Or maybe it is just my cynicism talking Smiley

    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #41 - August 14, 2014, 12:28 PM

    ^ that.

    Dogs never bite me - just humans. ~ M. Monroe

    Religions seem to cause more grief than good.

    Exmuslim Chat
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #42 - August 14, 2014, 01:07 PM

    Both my marriage ceremony and my "wedding" was a joke. I never even received a proper mahr. I will most probably never "marry" again, because I don't see the point in. I will however consider registering for a partnership or whatever it's called in case I find a person I want to live my life with. That way your rights are still protected, but you don't have to go through the whole farce that is the marriage institution. Or maybe it is just my cynicism talking Smiley

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    A Cynicical attitude is rarely wrong, but when it is, you are pleasantly surprised.

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  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #43 - August 14, 2014, 01:25 PM

    Both my marriage ceremony and my "wedding" was a joke. I never even received a proper mahr. I will most probably never "marry" again, because I don't see the point in. I will however consider registering for a partnership or whatever it's called in case I find a person I want to live my life with. That way your rights are still protected, but you don't have to go through the whole farce that is the marriage institution. Or maybe it is just my cynicism talking Smiley


    You know I used to be very much like that in my head, but I realised when asked once, that having had such a shit experience the first time round, if I ever find someone who loves me and I love them, be some words between us that have no legal basis, or an actual marriage for the sake of legal benefits, then I do want it to be special enough that it overwrites the bad memory I have.

    I wasn't even allowed to smile at my wedding because a smiling bride is inappropriate cos it means she is up for it.   Roll Eyes

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #44 - August 14, 2014, 01:29 PM

    Lol my ex got upset because I wasn't smiling. Had I been smarter and more mature, I would've listened to the ringing bells in my head and immediately asked for divorce. Even better, not to have married the asshole in the first place Smiley

    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #45 - August 14, 2014, 01:34 PM

    Lol you know if you had been smiling he would have made an issue about that.  These pricks always have something that pisses the off, whatever you do isn't right.

    I honestly felt miserable on my wedding day.  I knew I was making the biggest mistake of my life, but for Islam I went through with it anyway. 

    I would love to experience something different from that.

    Maybe one day ey. 

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #46 - August 14, 2014, 01:38 PM

    Yes, please, I want to experience real love. Not the forced, arranged, dysfunctional and destructive kind.

    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #47 - August 14, 2014, 03:25 PM

    Jesus you people aren't subtle in dropping hints for me. Sigh. Fine, I'll make all your dreams come true. Who's first?

    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #48 - August 14, 2014, 04:41 PM

    Me! dance

    Build a man a fire, and he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life. - Terry Pratchett
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #49 - August 14, 2014, 05:19 PM

    Jesus you people aren't subtle in dropping hints for me. Sigh. Fine, I'll make all your dreams come true. Who's first?


    This already fails to be my dream proposal.   Cheesy

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #50 - August 14, 2014, 07:27 PM

    My wedding invited 4000 people over 3 days it was cheap in comparison to my divorce. I was taken to the cleaners for that. Cheesy

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  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #51 - August 14, 2014, 08:00 PM

    4,000 ?  did you invite the whole town..  I'd just  have my (ficticious) fiance as my wedding guest, keep it simple, my last wedding the whole town turned up, i was stripped and dressed in some dress i never chose and smeared in some yellow cream to make my skin glow,  by some strangers playing drums wacko lol, thought i was being prepared for some sacrifice..
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #52 - August 14, 2014, 08:35 PM

     Cheesy
  • The wedding Thread
     Reply #53 - August 15, 2014, 12:15 AM

    @three yh thats what i mean, u have soms advantages. So why a whole party?


    Honey, any excuse for a party.

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