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- Dreamygirl
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OP - October 31, 2014, 11:52 PM

Hi guys
I am an ex muslim female living in the UK.
This is all really new to me and its an emotional struggle.
Im looking to connect with like minded people who can empathise with my situation
- INcePtion
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Reply #1 - October 31, 2014, 11:55 PM

Hey Dreamygirl, it's nice to have you there
Tell us a bit more about yourself!
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Reply #2 - October 31, 2014, 11:57 PM

Quote from: Dreamygirl on October 31, 2014, 11:52 PM
Hi guys
I am an ex muslim female living in the UK.
This is all really new to me and its an emotional struggle.
Im looking to connect with like minded people who can empathise with my situation

Hi sweetheart, welcome in! *passes you a virtual tea*

and yeah would be helpful to have more info on you.

from all this way to you
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Reply #3 - November 01, 2014, 12:13 AM

Hi

Many of us here have been through similar, or are doing so now. It will take time, but you'll get to a better place dreamygirl.

Hang around and we'll try to listen to you through the difficult times, and we'll try and lift you when you need a lift most, and try to guide you when you become lost, and try to carry you when you become weary. People here have done that and more for me many times over the years, and I'm a proper troubled drama queen.

Welcome btw

Hi
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Reply #4 - November 01, 2014, 12:17 AM

Well if you wanted like minded people - as in Ex-Muslims struggling with truckloads of shit - then you found the right place.

Welcome
- Dreamygirl
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Reply #5 - November 01, 2014, 12:47 AM

Awww thanks.
I am an agnostic. I have never felt at home with islam and just followed the crowd like sheep.
Now that i have accepted this the isolation and depression has kicked in.
I come from an indian background.
I could never tell my parents its beyond their comprehention lol
It feels as though i dont fit in anywhere like im the only one.
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Reply #6 - November 01, 2014, 01:29 AM

Welcome Dreamygirl,

Sympathetic Atheist Never-Moose here I ended up here when I finally tried to figure out what all the fuss about Islam and Muslims were about. I found out that by far most Muslims are lovely people and that both those and Ex-Muslims struggle with the dogmas of Islam.

Also the position of being an agnostic Muslim - or a agnostic of Muslim heritage - is way more common than you would probably think, alhamdulillah

And you are not the only one Check this place. There are thousands of you! There are Ex-Muslims everywhere! I live in Denmark and I know two girls who aren't believers but they have to keep their hijab on as to not get in trouble with their families, who they love above everything.

Have a parrot

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Reply #7 - November 01, 2014, 02:04 AM

I don't even class myself as an agnostic muslim
Just an agnostic lol!
Islam is just what i was born in to.
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Reply #8 - November 01, 2014, 02:44 AM

Welcome dear, and yes you are in the right place. Personally I don't think there Is a cure for emotional struggle there is only ways to understand and process those feelings. It might feel like the world is ending but trust me it gets better. best of luck
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Reply #9 - November 01, 2014, 10:39 AM

Thanks
- NoToPrejudice
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Reply #10 - November 01, 2014, 11:14 AM

Welcome Dreamygirl,

You have found the right place. I, like many others here, have found so much love, kindness, support and guidance from each other on this forum that it is truly amazing!

Best wishes

Every true faith is infallible. It performs what the believing person hopes to find in it. But it does not offer the least support for the establishing of an objective truth. If you want to achieve peace of mind and happiness, have faith. If you want to be a disciple of truth, then search - Neitchze
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Reply #11 - November 01, 2014, 01:31 PM

Welcome dreamygirl. I also come from an Indian background, and my parents and family would never be able to comprehend my leaving Islam if I ever told them. This site has been a great place for me, and I'm sure it will be for you too.
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Reply #12 - November 01, 2014, 03:38 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejBk_0s_nuI

No free mixing of the sexes is permitted on these forums or via PM or the various chat groups that are operating.

Women must write modestly and all men must lower their case.

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?425649-Have-some-Hayaa-%28modesty-shame%29-people!
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Reply #13 - November 02, 2014, 11:47 AM

Welcome Dreamygirl. Hope joining helps. I know it helped me

He's no friend to the friendless
And he's the mother of grief
There's only sorrow for tomorrow
Surely life is too brief
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Reply #14 - November 04, 2014, 12:42 AM

Welcome Dreamygirl.

"Befriend them not, Oh murtads, and give them neither parrot nor bunny." - happymurtad's advice on trolls.
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Reply #15 - November 04, 2014, 02:17 AM

Welcome.
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Reply #16 - November 04, 2014, 06:39 PM

Hello and welcome miss agnostic. ...hope you find this place a happy place to share. ...well whatever you want to share.....just remember one rule. ..when you post a message here, you must have a smile on your face
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Reply #17 - November 08, 2014, 01:21 PM

Welcome Dreamygirl, you are definitely not the only one. There are loads of us spread all over the world. Wouldn't it be great if we had our own country!

At least you can let some steam off here.

And mr_stonlea, yes, I do have a smile on my face, lol. Welcome to you too!
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Reply #18 - November 08, 2014, 02:12 PM

Welcome!

Don't let Hitler have the street.
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Reply #19 - November 08, 2014, 04:58 PM

welcome ヽ༼ຈل͜ຈ༽ﾉ
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Reply #20 - November 08, 2014, 06:43 PM

Welcome I am new here too (about 3 weeks) but this is a really friendly place

Have a comforting welcome parrot

إطلب العلم ولو في الصين

Es sitzt keine Krone so fest und so hoch,
Der mutige Springer erreicht sie doch.

I don't give a fuck about your war, or your President.
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Reply #21 - November 08, 2014, 09:34 PM

Welcome, Dreamygirl!
I recently joined here too, everyone here is really lovely and welcoming!
I'm also a female from the UK and I know it can be a really difficult experience filled with a roller-coaster of emotions. :(
But you'll make it!

✿ Bad news is: ✿
You cannot make people like, love, understand, validate,
accept, or be nice to you. You can't control them either.
✿ Good news is: ✿
It doesn't matter.
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Reply #22 - November 10, 2014, 09:50 AM

welcome!
- Capricasix
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Reply #23 - November 10, 2014, 02:49 PM

Welcome Dreamygirl - I like your name
I hope you find what you're looking for.
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Reply #24 - November 10, 2014, 04:15 PM

And please may I have a new brain to replace the one destroyed by watching the video above!

Was it for a jacket shop? Not sure how many he wore!

When you are a Bear of Very Little Brain, and you Think of Things, you find sometimes that a Thing which seemed very Thingish inside you is quite different when it gets out into the open and has other people looking at it.

A.A. Milne,

"We cannot slaughter each other out of the human impasse"
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Reply #25 - November 10, 2014, 04:18 PM

Hoe dare you!

Hema Malini is a legend!

No free mixing of the sexes is permitted on these forums or via PM or the various chat groups that are operating.

Women must write modestly and all men must lower their case.

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?425649-Have-some-Hayaa-%28modesty-shame%29-people!
- Dreamygirl
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Reply #26 - November 10, 2014, 05:02 PM

Awww thaks everyone for your kind words
I wish we had our own country to or a physical comunity lol!
I am feeling particularly rubbish today have decided to go for counselling
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Reply #27 - November 11, 2014, 04:05 AM

aw, so sorry you are not ok atm :(

goodluck on your counselling! wishing you all the best!
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Reply #28 - November 11, 2014, 02:43 PM

Yes, hope counselling helps
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Reply #29 - November 19, 2014, 11:36 AM

Quote from: Dreamygirl on November 10, 2014, 05:02 PM
I am feeling particularly rubbish today have decided to go for counselling

Good for you!

I tried to go for counselling once, unfortunately the guy the NHS referred me to was a Muslim so I didn't feel I could talk to him. I did manage to change though.

Welcome!
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