I find the whole concept and folklore behind this Eid immensely absurd and inhumane. We are actually celebrating a deluded fathers madness who was willing to sacrifice his son just because he heard some imaginary voices in his head . If some Pir, saint, baba or even Allah asks me directly to kill my child to prove my love for Him...i will show my middle finger to Allah and tell him to go and screw himself.
How much more insecure and under confident this Allah can get who is asking his creation to sacrifice their children for his love.... I am totally against this ritual and detest the whole concept behind it.
To all relatives and friends who ask that why I don't do Qurbani , my answer is always (every year) that I will rather give the same money to some poor instead of killing an animal for the sake of some imaginary being....