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OP - November 15, 2015, 02:39 AM

OMG guys I just came out to my mum!
She's been having doubts and she had a full discussion with me about some things she thinks she believes in and things she disagrees with like hell/heaven so I thought it was the perfect opportunity to tell her and omg i did!

I told her I never thought I would tell you but through months and years of research I dont think I believe in the quran anymore, she already knew I didn't believe in hadiths but she had no idea about my disbelief in the quran. I explained to her that through lots of research I found scientific errors, contradictions and just things i personally don't agree with. I explained to her some examples and she had such a great response she's like i understand and she's like I have never actually read the quran fully, i was shocked when she said that as she was a convert! She accepted Islam when she was going through a hard time and found ease in it as she believed life is a test so that made her feel a lot better about hard things going on in her life.
I told her to please read the quran fully and now I want to send her some great websites and videos, back when I did my research I found great useful sites and videos but haven't saved their links, please help out guys and any useful info I can send her, please send to me.
I really want her to see the facts.

I'm super excited but also anxious!
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Reply #1 - November 15, 2015, 03:11 AM

That is something to be excited about saranicole!

Just off the top of my head, I think that some resources associated with this very website can be very informative, including the wiki, and youtube channel associated with CEMB and also that of the Rationalizer. I think any source can completely shatter the intellectual framework of Islam, and I think it comes down to a matter of preference to which the viewer is more amenable to.

I wish you the best of luck!

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Reply #2 - November 15, 2015, 04:44 AM

Congratulations

Hope all is well with you
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Reply #3 - November 21, 2015, 03:29 AM

If she didn't accept hadiths in the first place, you're off to a great start! The hard part is over.

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Reply #4 - November 21, 2015, 03:34 AM

`But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
`Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad. You're mad.'
`How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
`You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
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Reply #5 - November 21, 2015, 04:00 AM

Sounds good!
I think that Surah an Nisaa is self explanatory. Most women cannot stomach a beating being condoned in their canonical text.

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