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  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     OP - December 11, 2015, 06:28 AM
    Anybody interested in this? Do you think many exmuslims would need it?

    I'm a web programmer, so I can definitely help make it (though I would need moderators/admins to manage it).

    So what do you guys think?

    Some features that many exmuslims seem to need:
    • Filter by ethnicity and current residence. I've heard so many times that muslim parents want same ethnicity spouse...
    • Filter by sect (sunni/shia/ahmadi? LOL) Also for muslim parents who only allow their children to marry same sect.

    Maybe make it available for liberal muslims as well?

    EDIT!
    The whole purpose is to keep identity anonymous. That means, you can choose to not post your photo, or even real name. Just use nickname.
    Members are free to register, but to attend large meetings they must be approved, similar to reddit exmuslim meetups. Approved members can be tagged as "approved".

    Members (approved or not) are free to message each other and maybe share real name / photos if they want. Arrange your own date, etc. However they are not advised to do this to random strangers. No you can't share dick pics, no sexual harassment allowed.

    They can also specify if they want marriage as the end-goal (muslim parents, as usual) so that they can pretend together.

    Well I'm just gathering ideas from common exmuslim problems.
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #1 - December 11, 2015, 06:59 AM
    I would really be interested in this..

    I'm not sure if we're at that level of freedom yet though.. I'm a little paranoid of Jihadists signing up for that website and meeting up with ex-muslim women to behead them..

    But all jokes aside, it's a great idea, but women on this forum are even afraid to show themselves, so not sure how effective it might be even if you did create the website.

    "If you don't like your religion's fundamentalists, then maybe there's something wrong with your religion's fundamentals."
    "Demanding blind respect but not offering any respect in reciprocation is laughable."
    "Let all the people in all the worlds be in peace."
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #2 - December 11, 2015, 08:08 AM
    I haven't really thought of using dating websites but if there are enough people who can be open about their apostasy, it's a nice, new and creative idea for many.

    I agree with ExMVG, perhaps it's a little risky right now. Depends on the feedback you get though Smiley
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #3 - December 11, 2015, 08:18 AM
    Alternatively, just bang every member of CEMB.
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #4 - December 11, 2015, 09:29 AM
    Updated the original post.

    My idea for creating this is to help exmuslims maintain their cover from muslim parents. Ex-muslim couple can have nikah together and then live abroad so their parents won't cut them off / wont' break their parents heart. It's easier than marrying other religions / muslims, less drama.
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #5 - December 11, 2015, 09:35 AM
    Quote from: Quod Sum Eris on December 11, 2015, 08:18 AM
    Alternatively, just bang every member of CEMB.


     Cheesy
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #6 - December 11, 2015, 09:50 AM
    Quote from: Quod Sum Eris on December 11, 2015, 08:18 AM
    Alternatively, just bang every member of CEMB.


    Oh man, now that I think about it, it's probably a good thing that women don't show their faces on here.. We might have some thirsty guys from Ummah forum trying to get on here and "re-convert" some ladies..  Cheesy
    "If you don't like your religion's fundamentalists, then maybe there's something wrong with your religion's fundamentals."
    "Demanding blind respect but not offering any respect in reciprocation is laughable."
    "Let all the people in all the worlds be in peace."
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #7 - December 11, 2015, 12:35 PM
    Well, they are the type who claim that men fall into a sex-crazed frenzy at the sight of an uncovered ankle after all Tongue
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #8 - December 11, 2015, 01:02 PM
    Women do show their faces here. Why wouldn't they? Huh?
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #9 - December 11, 2015, 01:35 PM
    Pics or it never happened.  Tongue
    "If you don't like your religion's fundamentalists, then maybe there's something wrong with your religion's fundamentals."
    "Demanding blind respect but not offering any respect in reciprocation is laughable."
    "Let all the people in all the worlds be in peace."
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #10 - December 11, 2015, 02:27 PM
    Yess this would be awesome! Cheesy
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #11 - December 11, 2015, 07:41 PM
    Quote from: ExMuslimVlogGuy on December 11, 2015, 01:35 PM
    Pics or it never happened.  Tongue

    http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=9160.0
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #12 - December 11, 2015, 08:24 PM
    I scrolled through it and saw a lot of the pics were no longer available. Plus I wantz to see the new members.. Now I feel like a stalking perv.  cool2
    "If you don't like your religion's fundamentalists, then maybe there's something wrong with your religion's fundamentals."
    "Demanding blind respect but not offering any respect in reciprocation is laughable."
    "Let all the people in all the worlds be in peace."
  • Ex-muslim dating/meet-up sites?
     Reply #13 - December 11, 2015, 08:31 PM
    Try the latest pages.
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
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