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 Topic: My G/F & I (Update)

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  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #30 - January 22, 2009, 07:17 PM

    Heh, I am INFJ, rarest, even more rare in males. grin12 I think it fits.


    Yep, rarest male type, you are the same type as Hassan.  You should read up all the different descriptions on the web about your type, and how to develop it and stuff, you'll love it.

    I'm an INFP.  Wink

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #31 - January 22, 2009, 07:26 PM

    looks interesting.. will do it later

    My Book     news002       
    My Blog  pccoffee
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #32 - January 22, 2009, 07:27 PM

    Yokay.  Smiley

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #33 - January 23, 2009, 05:47 AM


    The ideal of how a woman would like to be treated and how a man would like to be treated. I can not speak for when he talked about the needs of the women. But for men, he nailed our needs pretty damn accurate.



    No, maybe from your perspective he hit the nail on the head in regards to how men view an ideal woman,

    I meant he hit the nail on how men like to be treated and what men do not like.

    but I know men who found themselves identifying with the womens description.

    The things men hate, women will also not like. The things men love the most, women will still like. And vice versa.

    The book is geared towards explaining the typical ESTJ man and ISFJ woman, man in cave, woman all needy of emotions, only men want fixer upper advice, women just want to rant.

    Those are wrong generalisations, some women have caves, some women want the advice ONLY if it comes with an action plan, which would typically be a J orientated woman.

    It is true that psychologists always like to break down people into personality types and scales so that they can measure them. And I have read about some of the German and Russian scales as well. Very interesting stuff. And generally speaking much more in detail and offers many more options then the polarized points offered by Gray. But what do you expect?

    I read Gray in 2004 and the E/I S T/F J/P scale in 2006. I actually read the book and I can not even remember the name of that scale. I can barely remember what was my score and what type of personality I am or what the different traits stand for. But I still remember most of the points of Gray. And I understand that different people will have those points applied on them in different ways.

    Gray followed the KISS Rule. Keep It Simple Stupid. And now 5yrs later i still remember him.

    i.e. When Gray made a point that above all, men despise being held in contempt. It made me also think that women also do not like to be held in contempt. It made me realize that holding anyone in contempt is probably a good way to make enemies. Regardless of what or who they are.

    As for this other scale you speak of. It is much more accurate. It is still not complete and does not cover all scenarios. But it's astronomical failure, is that it is too complex and now I forgot about it. Like I forgot about the Chemistry classes that I took in University.

    Ultimately both systems are useful to me. Both systems got me to think and consider things like: Is this person chatting to vent, or chatting to ask for advice? Or whether this person is chatting because he/she is an extrovert who likes to think loud. Or is this person just plain friggin crazy?

    "Ask the slave girl; she will tell you the truth.' So the Apostle called Burayra to ask her. Ali got up and gave her a violent beating first, saying, 'Tell the Apostle the truth.'"
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #34 - January 23, 2009, 08:49 AM

    I'm an INFP.  Wink

    Hey, I'm close to yours. INTP.

    "Poor human nature, what horrible crimes have been committed in thy name!"
    - Emma Goldman
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #35 - January 23, 2009, 08:55 AM

    hehe, tp.

    I chose to get circumcised at 17, don't tell me I never believed.
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #36 - January 23, 2009, 03:22 PM

    I am curious, what holds her to islam. What are the benefits she perceives to herself.

    ===========

    Also what she calls, "good Quranic verses" like the verses about parents..

    "I'm Agnostic about God."

    Richard Dawkins
    ==
    "If there is a God, it has to be a man; no woman could or would ever fuck things up like this."
     George Carlin == "...The so-called moderates are actually the public relations arm of Al-Qaeda and the Islamic Republic of Iran."  Maryam Namazie
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #37 - January 23, 2009, 03:26 PM

    Quote
    It's definately the avenue I take when talking to my siblings.

    Works well?

    ==================


    You read the Q, BerberElla?

    "I'm Agnostic about God."

    Richard Dawkins
    ==
    "If there is a God, it has to be a man; no woman could or would ever fuck things up like this."
     George Carlin == "...The so-called moderates are actually the public relations arm of Al-Qaeda and the Islamic Republic of Iran."  Maryam Namazie
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #38 - January 23, 2009, 04:10 PM

    Quote
    It's definately the avenue I take when talking to my siblings.

    Works well?

    ==================


    You read the Q, BerberElla?


    Hmm, so far I'm not sure, I'm sure my sister has some major doubts now about islam and that my brother is less inclined to believe the crap he gets fed from others about islam, but so far they are still muslim.

    I doubt either of them are muslim through belief anymore, they are just muslim because they are not yet ready to take the stand against my father.

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #39 - January 23, 2009, 04:15 PM

    Berbs,
    Your brother joined the board? Does he read sometines?
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #40 - January 23, 2009, 04:25 PM

    Berbs,
    Your brother joined the board? Does he read sometines?


    Not since he came and introduced himself last time, plus he is away right now, won't be back til 20th of feb, then I will work on him some more lol.

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #41 - January 24, 2009, 06:57 AM

    Berbs,
    Your brother joined the board? Does he read sometines?

    ==============

    What's his user? if I may ask.

    "I'm Agnostic about God."

    Richard Dawkins
    ==
    "If there is a God, it has to be a man; no woman could or would ever fuck things up like this."
     George Carlin == "...The so-called moderates are actually the public relations arm of Al-Qaeda and the Islamic Republic of Iran."  Maryam Namazie
  • Re: My G/F & I (Update)
     Reply #42 - January 24, 2009, 07:17 AM

    Berbs,
    Your brother joined the board? Does he read sometines?

    ==============

    What's his user? if I may ask.


    hello people i am berberellas brother and i have come to see why my sis spends all her time on this site.   Smiley


    I chose to get circumcised at 17, don't tell me I never believed.
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