humanism is not a proto-religion!

yep, humanism is more of a philosiophical outlook on life, rather than a religion with adherents..
I would say that the first video interview is the main reason behind it. The National Secular Society President gives some good pointers.
Watch from 3:00 to around 4:45
Maybe I get easily convinced?

It may have to stay for now, or at least up until you find a better way of defining yourself other than "I am me" or the negative "I am an exmuslim" camps.
Anyway, I still think secular humanists are the coolest dudes in the block.