I'm a Muslim, and this is just my two cents' worth.
AG

for your imput AG. Its great

that there're Muslims like you, but thats' hardly what Islamic doctrine & Prophet Muhammad's example teaches.
Islam has a strict gradation of faiths-with Muslims on top, Christians & Jews next & polytheists, however good at the bottom.
Polytheists have to convert to Islam or be killed.
Sura IX.5: "Then, when the sacred months have passed away, kill the idolaters wherever you find them ","and seize them, besiege them and lie in ambush everywhere for them." Ah, you might say, you have deliberately left out the words that come after those. Let us quote them then,
"If they repent and take to prayer and render the alms levy, allow them to go their way. God is forgiving and merciful."This means, that polytheists would be spared only if the convert to Islam, Prophet Muhammad himself marched into Mecca, smashed the polytheistic idols, said that only those people who remained indoors would be safe, finally after smashing allowed people to come out & converted them to Islam. After his death, apostasy(ridda) wars broke out amongst the Muslims whom he'd converted, who were eager to throw off the yoke of Islam, & they were ruthlessly put down.
Christians & Jews are grudgingly tolerated, as long as they pay the jizya-
Quran 009.029
YUSUFALI: Fight those who believe not in Allah nor the Last Day, nor hold that forbidden which hath been forbidden by Allah and His Messenger, nor acknowledge the religion of Truth, (even if they are) of the People of the Book, until they pay the Jizya with willing submission, and feel themselves subdued.
PICKTHAL: Fight against such of those who have been given the Scripture as believe not in Allah nor the Last Day, and forbid not that which Allah hath forbidden by His messenger, and follow not the Religion of Truth, until they pay the tribute readily, being brought low.
SHAKIR: Fight those who do not believe in Allah, nor in the latter day, nor do they prohibit what Allah and His Messenger have prohibited, nor follow the religion of truth, out of those who have been given the Book, until they pay the tax in acknowledgment of superiority and they are in a state of subjection.
Also Muslim men can marry Christian or Jewish women, Quran(5:5), but non Muslim men have to convert to Islam to marry Muslim women Quran 2:221.