I am finding telling muslims that I am an ex-muslim but now an atheist, actually is getting me respect as well as intrigue. So much so, that people have a higher expectation of my values, and are surprised if I display any of my usual less than liberated values.
This happened yesterday evening when I met a muslim women in her late 30s and she asked me if I ate pork to which i said yes. She looked like she was about to choke.
I later mentioned something slightly misogynistic (something to do with waking up and hoping to get breakfast
) and she said she expected more from me and she was disappointed in me (when I had only known her for an hour!).
I get the feeling that some muslims these days ignorantly see Islam as a necessary shackle, and are surprised (and pleased) to see that it is just an option.
It takes a lot of guts to leave Islam, and takes even more guts to be open about it.
So to all those thinking about being more open with your apostacy, of course be careful, but my advice is to share it with pride.