But perhaps it is an opportunity for discussion with someone who sees herself as a relatively open minded Arab.
http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2009/08/25/why-are-muslims-turning-atheists/I don't know if you are familiar with this girl's blog. It's quite popular with the English speaking youth who are into blogging in the Middle East.
But to me, the reasoning about why she thinks "some Muslims turn atheist" wasn't reasoning at all. It was a classic example of the lack of critical thought in the Arab educational systems, and the tendency of both Arabs and Muslims to blame outside influence for what they perceive as shortcomings (I don't see Muslims becoming atheist as a shortcoming, but she does). Sometimes I am disheartened when I see the young generation exhibiting this same lack of reasoning and thought skills as the generation before.
Anyway, her post on her cousins converting to Christianity was more offensive to me, LOL, and I think about as highly of that religion as I do of Islam.
http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2009/07/13/not-something-i-wanted-to-know/Islam for honour, Islam for tribe, Islam for identity - but not for thinking and pondering upon it.