There exists a personality type of people who value self-sacrifice. Unless they are sacrificing and crushing themselves in the pursuit of something, they do not feel they are leading a satisfying life. Shame on religions for catering crap to such wonderful and self-effacing people.
I know these women, trust me, they're more talkative than I am, and if something was pissing them off even the slightist they would say something. These girls are not the type to suffer silently or whatever...
Many people expect them to be shy and modest, but their the opposite, they stick up for themselves, even got into fights in high school! They don't see if as self sacrifice though. I remeber one of my friends told me that a woman is like a pearl and she should be covered so she is protected, and she said it with a lot of pride. I don't believe in that, but she does and that's all that mattered.
Me too - I dont understand why some Muslims just dont say 'No'. It really is that easy - its the aftershock that is the problem, but that needs to be weighed up against the alternative of marrying someone they dont want.
Same here! I have talked to many of these types of girls, one in particular, but she seems to delude herself that if she keeps them happy, she'll be happy....Right now neither is happy..still!