Because that says something about a Man. There are already too many Dads out there who simply walked out on their kid because they didn't want them. I don't respect them much.
But there are those who had to walk out because they were incapable. That much, I'm willing to accept.
Even when I was about to have my kid, I wasn't fully financially capable, but I did have a job. And even with that, I was willing to step up to the plate.
It's how you say.....growing balls.
What if a man simply can't stand babies? Can't stand the crying, the diaper changes, the interruptions. Personally I would pay for child-support if I was forced to be a dad without my consent, but i know i would not even look at the child or ever meet him. However, I should not be legally obliged to pay for a child that I do not want. Its got nothing to do with balls. And becoming a woman's boy-toy paying for a child you did not want does make you a better man although that's the way society puts it, choosing your own path and sticking to it makes you the alpha-male who puts his happiness over everything else.
Think of the psychological effect a Man could have if he was pulled into gun fight and had to kill for the first time. PTSD is no joke. But that doesn't stop a Man from becoming an Honorable Soldier.
A Man shouldn't worry about Psychological stress. A Man's job is to take on responsibilities. Not run away from them. There are gonna be a lot of things in life which a Man will have to put up with despite their lack of consent--that doesn't mean he should bitch and whine about it. A real man sucks it up, and moves on through.
I disagree, the instinct to kill is present in every man unless he is a very big wimp. I won't hesitate to kill anyone who threatens me or my family although I haven't killed anyone so far in my life. Secondly, just the fact that we are physically tough does not mean that we should have to change our lifestyle to accomodate a woman's decision, or to give up what we want to do in our lives for a baby.
And seriously, if you look at some men 10-15 years after they have a baby, its like they don't even live for themselves anymore. They look like living corpses. You should not underestimate the damage that the stress of becoming a father can do to a man, esp. if the man did not want the child & was not ready for it.
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