Women should accept that men shouldn't be forced to become fathers without their consent, and willingly go through the abortion, just like most men also willingly allow the women to get an abortion if they don't want to keep the child.
You're for real? So the woman goes through the abortion cause the man wants her too. She deals with the loss of a baby she might have wanted and goes through invasive surgery. If the woman wants to abort then the man feels the loss of a baby which was NOT inside him, whom he didn't nourish but wanted in an abstract way.
I don't know what stage of abortion you're talking about, but these days, at least in early stages, you can use pills or use laser technology which makes it almost painless and the woman doesn't feel anything. My friend had an abortion and afterwards walked to the car without any support. Compare that to a 9 month pregnancy and childbirth where the woman has to be taken to the labor room on a wheelchair.
Of course it's less painful than childbirth that's not my point. If you stabbed yourself in your glans with a breadknife that would be less painful than childbirth. I think you should do it. You know you want to. Go on. I bet you could walk to your car without support afterwards.
Pills mean the foetus is expelled so if it's VERY early then it wouldn't be as painful of course. In later stage they use a pill to induce labour which is basically the same as childbirth because it involves uterine contractions. Laser abortions? Don't know where you live but it aint readily available here and know nothing about it.