I guess thats where ijtihad comes in. The bad things are actually good things. You just have to reinterpret it properly or something
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. If bad things can`t simply be forgotten or people are unwilling to discard anything from the quran, then 4.34 pretty much has to mean leave.
I think the biggest problem is absolutism. Jews and Xtians are willing to admit that theres immorality and whatnot in their books. As long as the quran is perfect, nothing can be changed. Changing one letter is destroying an entire argument for Islam being the right religion. I cant see any significant number of mainstream Muslims willing to do this in my lifetime.
Since Arabic is skewable to whatever one`s desires might be, people would rather go the intellectually dishonest route, so the problem is never with the quran.
And then youve got people like Manji who will question the qurans perfection, that it is the word of god, its clarity, and even go so far as to admit that its ''message is all over the damn place'', and call some of its verses misogynistic and after all that, still claim to be a faithful Muslim. If most reformers were like this, there`d be no hope at all.