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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #30 - February 16, 2010, 03:26 PM

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #31 - February 16, 2010, 03:28 PM

    So yeah, are the two criminals in this story mentally abnormal or just following their heart/mind/society like a normal member of their society would?

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #32 - February 16, 2010, 03:28 PM

    I was under the impression that they made it up as they went along.

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #33 - February 16, 2010, 03:43 PM

    So yeah, are the two criminals in this story mentally abnormal or just following their heart/mind/society like a normal member of their society would?


    I vote for number one. I can't imagine that burying alive is a standard method of execution for honor killings in Kurdish Turkey.

    If there were any justice, they would be tortured for three days before being buried alive themselves. I've been avoiding the main topic in the OP because it's just so fuckin infuriating.

    fuck you
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #34 - February 16, 2010, 04:07 PM

    There, fixed it for ya. Of course, we Yanks gotta fix a lot of things for you limeys from 1776 onwards.

    See, we figured that since "honour" and "colour" and other words originally from Norman French are no longer pronounced in the French fashion, we would drop the "u", as it doesn't make much sense given standard pronunciation rules in English. You guys are just holdin onto the past. Like an old lady still usin Jean Nate and watching Lawrence Welk reruns on PBS.


    If I recall Bill Bryson correctly, the original English spelling was "honor" and "color" - the "English" English spelling changed whereas the "American" English spelling retained the old spelling.
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #35 - February 16, 2010, 04:09 PM

    I vote for number one. I can't imagine that burying alive is a standard method of execution for honor killings in Kurdish Turkey.

    If there were any justice, they would be tortured for three days before being buried alive themselves. I've been avoiding the main topic in the OP because it's just so fuckin infuriating.


    But honour killing is a popular trend in these kind of cultures (call them Muslim cultures if you like) but they are not in Western nations. And it is not unprecedented murder, it's actually somewhat understandable by the rest of the community, right? So if it is that he is simply mental, then how come members of Western nations seem better at controlling themselves?

    And if you really believe that the men were mentally abnormal, then why do you think they ought to be given a brutal punishment? Shouldn't they be helped, you know, sent to a mental hospital instead?

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #36 - February 16, 2010, 04:37 PM

    But honour killing is a popular trend in these kind of cultures (call them Muslim cultures if you like) but they are not in Western nations.


    I don't know if it's a "popular trend" or not, but, yeah, it's a much more frequent occurrence in those cultures than in the West.

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    And it is not unprecedented murder, it's actually somewhat understandable by the rest of the community, right?


    How the fuck would I know? I don't know shit about the social mores or attitudes of people in the Kurdish part of Turkey. For all I know their neighbors could be horrified at their actions and screaming for their blood right now. Or maybe not. Beats the fuck outta me.

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    So if it is that he is simply mental, then how come members of Western nations seem better at controlling themselves?


    Um, people in Western nations do sometimes murder their children in horrifying fashion. There may not be as many "honor killings", strictly speaking, but I don't think murder of children by parents is that much more infrequent in the West than it is in Muslim nations, especially when you control for things like economic factors or the lack of efficient child welfare agencies.

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    And if you really believe that the men were mentally abnormal, then why do you think they ought to be given a brutal punishment? Shouldn't they be helped, you know, sent to a mental hospital instead?


    Mental abnormality, in and of itself, is not exculpatory in my opinion-- only severe cognitive malfunction. For example, schizophrenics, psychotics, the brain damaged, and the mentally retarded who commit crimes as a result of their mental state should have an opportunity to receive help over punishment, while those with personality disorders like psychopathy should not.

    Unless these guys had exceptionally low IQs or had auditory hallucinations of Allah telling them to kill this girl, then those fucks deserve an equally (or more) horrific punishment as the one they meted out to that poor girl.

    fuck you
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #37 - February 16, 2010, 05:33 PM

    Why would having a low IQ excuse them from blame but having a personality disorder would not? Both seem equally in/out of their control, don't they?

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #38 - February 16, 2010, 05:52 PM

    I said "exceptionally low IQ" not just "low IQ"-- in other words, mentally retarded. I also added the qualifier-- "who commit crimes as a result of their mental state".

    I acknowledge that it's possible for someone with an IQ of 65 to commit a crime with full culpability. For example, a mild to moderately retarded person kills someone with premeditation simply because they dislike them, knowing full well that doing so is considered immoral and is illegal-- they could still be held accountable for their actions, depending on all the other factors involved. But there are some retarded or brain damaged people who may be so cognitively disabled that they either don't understand what they are doing, the legal or moral consequences of the action, and/or are unable to event form the mental intent necessary for a crime to occur (mens rea).

    Someone who is mentally abnormal, in the sense that they have a personality disorder, can be fully aware of what they are doing, the legal and moral consequences for doing it, and have formed mental intent. And, in most cases, unless they are also retarded, very young or psychotic/schizophrenic, they do meet all those criteria.

    fuck you
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #39 - February 16, 2010, 05:57 PM

    Everybody. If they have fully developed mental faculties do you think they deserve eternal punishment?

    Does anybody deserve eternal punishment? In hell?
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #40 - February 16, 2010, 06:19 PM

    Actually, practically all the honor killings & honor suicides amongst the Turkish diaspora & in Turkey happen amongst a particular group-the Kurds. Please correct me if I'm wrong about this.

    I feel sorry for the rest of the Turks, they get a bad rep for something practically no non Kurdish Turk does.


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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #41 - February 16, 2010, 06:28 PM

    Everybody. If they have fully developed mental faculties do you think they deserve eternal punishment?

    Does anybody deserve eternal punishment? In hell?


    Eternal punishment? Probably not. But it would be nice to know there was a place after death where the truly evil who were not sufficiently punished in this life would receive just punishment. I wouldn't mind knowing that Hitler was tortured for millions of years-- I figure one year for every person he was responsible for killing is fair.

    fuck you
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #42 - February 16, 2010, 06:34 PM

    I wouldn't mind knowing that Hitler was tortured for millions of years-- I figure one year for every person he was responsible for killing is fair.

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #43 - February 16, 2010, 08:02 PM

    Actually, practically all the honor killings & honor suicides amongst the Turkish diaspora & in Turkey happen amongst a particular group-the Kurds. Please correct me if I'm wrong about this.

    I feel sorry for the rest of the Turks, they get a bad rep for something practically no non Kurdish Turk does.

    Yes, it seems like the vast majority of honour killings are committed by Kurdish Turks, and also mostly in uneducated areas. It would definitely be wrong to say this is the result of Turkish culture. There are even many devoutly religious Turks who vehemently condemn these horrible killings. Therefore blaming Islam is false too.

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #44 - February 16, 2010, 08:27 PM

    Yes, it seems like the vast majority of honour killings are committed by Kurdish Turks, and also mostly in uneducated areas. It would definitely be wrong to say this is the result of Turkish culture. There are even many devoutly religious Turks who vehemently condemn these horrible killings. Therefore blaming Islam is false too.


    Please answer only if you want to Aziz.

    Why doesn't Turkey let the Kurds go?It seems that definitely not thrilled to live with the Turks, & behavior like uneducation & honor crimes reflect pretty poorly on a Turkey which wants to join the EU. Letting them go seems good for both Turks & Kurds.

    I'm sorry if I don't know many things about the Kurdish issue & I'm not praticularly interested either,however  I'm asking this with a genuine desire to know.

    Turkish culture, or Kemalist culture certainy doesn't condone such behavior, & Islam for all its faults doesn't condone such behavior either or teach it in any scriptures.

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #45 - February 16, 2010, 08:51 PM

    Please answer only if you want to Aziz.

    Sorry for the short answer, (and keep in mind I'm not too educated on this topic,) but I guess that giving up parts of Turkey to the Kurds is completely out of the question. Many Turks are very proud of their country (especially those Bozkurt Nazis) and a lot of beloved sons have died in the war against the PKK. Yeah, that's the way it is...

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #46 - February 16, 2010, 08:56 PM

    Sorry for the short answer, (and keep in mind I'm not too educated on this topic,) but I guess that giving up parts of Turkey to the Kurds is completely out of the question. Many Turks are very proud of their country (especially those Bozkurt Nazis) and a lot of beloved sons have died in the war against the PKK. Yeah, that's the way it is...


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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #47 - February 16, 2010, 10:17 PM

    Eternal punishment? Probably not. But it would be nice to know there was a place after death where the truly evil who were not sufficiently punished in this life would receive just punishment. I wouldn't mind knowing that Hitler was tortured for millions of years-- I figure one year for every person he was responsible for killing is fair.


    I for one can't stand back any longer. All forms of corporal or capital punishment is morally abhorrent. The purpose of punishment is to reform, and if reformation does not occur, then punishment continues. The purpose of punishment being revenge is indicative only of a mind stuck in the stone age.

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #48 - February 16, 2010, 10:41 PM

    I for one can't stand back any longer.


    Glad you will not stand idly by while people post things you disagree with on internet forums. Where would the world be without heroes like you?

    All forms of corporal or capital punishment is morally abhorrent. The purpose of punishment is to reform, and if reformation does not occur, then punishment continues. The purpose of punishment being revenge is indicative only of a mind stuck in the stone age.


    Uh-huh, you mind dismounting your high horse so we can talk face to face for a minute? So if someone's mother were raped and murdered with rational, premeditated mental intent by a serial killer/rapist you'd consider their desire to put a bullet in the killer's skull "morally abhorrent" and "indicative only of a mind stuck in the stone age"? Vengeance indeed can be righteous, and killing justified.

    Fuck that shit. I'm all for abolition of the death penalty in the US, but only because innocent people sometimes are convicted and that Blacks and Hispanics convicted of first-degree murder at a much higher rate than plain ole White folks. But morally? You take someone's life with no moral or legal justification then you give up your right to continue breathing. And if, as retribution, someone murdered these two assholes in the same way they murdered that poor girl, assuming the two men weren't severely mentally defective (as I explained upthread), if I were on their jury, they'd fuckin walk, and I'd buy them a beer after the trial was over. And I'd have not a shred of shame or guilt in doing so.

    fuck you
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #49 - February 16, 2010, 11:00 PM

    Glad you will not stand idly by while people post things you disagree with on internet forums. Where would the world be without heroes like you?


    Thanks.

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    Uh-huh, you mind dismounting your high horse so we can talk face to face for a minute? So if someone's mother were raped and murdered with rational, premeditated mental intent by a serial killer/rapist you'd consider their desire to put a bullet in the killer's skull "morally abhorrent" and "indicative only of a mind stuck in the stone age"? Vengeance indeed can be righteous, and killing justified.


    They can desire what they want as long as they do not act upon that particular desire. Putting a bullet through the killer's brain isn't going to bring this someone's mother back. It's not going to solve anything. If blood must be spilt just to put this someone's mind at peace, then what does this tell us about the character of such a person?

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    Fuck that shit. I'm all for abolition of the death penalty in the US, but only because innocent people sometimes are convicted and that Blacks and Hispanics convicted of first-degree murder at a much higher rate than plain ole White folks. But morally? You take someone's life with no moral or legal justification then you give up your right to continue breathing. And if, as retribution, someone murdered these two assholes in the same way they murdered that poor girl, assuming the two men weren't severely mentally defective (as I explained upthread), if I were on their jury, they'd fuckin walk, and I'd buy them a beer after the trial was over. And I'd have not a shred of shame or guilt in doing so.


    I sympathize with what you are saying. There would be an element within me that would feel fulfilled at the thought that such evil men had felt what their victims felt. But I can't sympathize with you on the second count. I would feel quite angry at the killers of the killers. For them to put themselves into a position (you might say high horse?) of authority over another persons life; they ought to be brought to judgement.

    The unlived life is not worth examining.
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #50 - February 16, 2010, 11:13 PM

    They can desire what they want as long as they do not act upon that particular desire.


    But is their "mind stuck in the stone age" for wanting what a lot of people would consider to be an entirely natural desire?

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    Putting a bullet through the killer's brain isn't going to bring this someone's mother back.


    No, but the guy will get what's coming to him.

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    It's not going to solve anything.


    Sure it will. It will eliminate the threat this man poses permanently and will possibly give closure to the loved ones of the victim.

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    If blood must be spilt just to put this someone's mind at peace, then what does this tell us about the character of such a person?


    Independent of any other information about such a person? Nothing.

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    But I can't sympathize with you on the second count. I would feel quite angry at the killers of the killers. For them to put themselves into a position (you might say high horse?) of authority over another persons life; they ought to be brought to judgement.


    The only reason one does not have authority over the life of another is that the other person possesses rights, and one is obligated to respect those rights. If that other person commits such a heinous act, they have abjured those rights, and other people are not entitled to respect their right to life or anything else.

    To put it in simpler terms-- someone willfully buries their own daughter alive for befriending boys, then fuck 'em. He has no rights at that point that anyone else is obligated to respect.

    The accused have procedural rights to fairly and surely establish guilt, but if that guilt (of such a horrible crime) is firmly established, and there are no mitigating factors, then there are few punishments I could think of that they don't deserve. So the worst that the killers' killers would have done in this case is violated the men's right to trial and due process-- but if the men really are guilty of murdering that girl, then their right to life has not been violated by their killers, as the father and grandfather abjured such rights the moment they brutally tortured and murdered that girl. Fuck 'em. Fuck 'em with a rusty shovel sideways. I really do hope they are buried alive or worse.

    fuck you
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #51 - February 16, 2010, 11:16 PM

    19
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #52 - February 16, 2010, 11:22 PM

    Is that how old she was?

    Oh and nice posting fail, Q-Man.   grin12

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #53 - February 16, 2010, 11:23 PM

    No dude.

    That's how old you are.

    Right?
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #54 - February 16, 2010, 11:24 PM

    Yup, thanks for the reminder.  13

    Why post just... "19"?

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  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #55 - February 16, 2010, 11:27 PM

    haha dude I love you. Not so easy jedi mind tricking you is it. But then again I never claimed you were unintelligent.

    Unfortunately I think Q-Man will see the point I'm making with "19". But maybe he won't. Maybe I'm wrong. Whututhink Q?
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #56 - February 16, 2010, 11:27 PM

    Yup, thanks for the reminder.  13

    Why post just... "19"?


    Because 19 = Nuff said


     grin12
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #57 - February 16, 2010, 11:30 PM

    Is that how old she was?

    Oh and nice posting fail, Q-Man.   grin12


    Blame Aziz. I just fixed it.

    fuck you
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #58 - February 16, 2010, 11:56 PM

    But is their "mind stuck in the stone age" for wanting what a lot of people would consider to be an entirely natural desire?


    Even I consider it to be an entirely natural desire. Perhaps I was being a little harsh for saying their minds are stuck in the stone age. But I would condemn them if they were to act upon such a desire, yes.

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    No, but the guy will get what's coming to him.


    Well, yes...

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    Sure it will. It will eliminate the threat this man poses permanently and will possibly give closure to the loved ones of the victim.


    We're talking about killing a man just in consideration of the very small possibility he manages to escape and kill another innocent. The good doesn't seem to outweigh the bad by killing him, even if I were to allow some leeway and put less value on the murderer's life.

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    Independent of any other information about such a person? Nothing.


    Blood-thirsty, perhaps? Not inherently wrong by itself, but not an ideal mode of character to possess.

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    The only reason one does not have authority over the life of another is that the other person possesses rights, and one is obligated to respect those rights. If that other person commits such a heinous act, they have abjured those rights, and other people are not entitled to respect their right to life or anything else.

    To put it in simpler terms-- someone willfully buries their own daughter alive for befriending boys, then fuck 'em. He has no rights at that point that anyone else is obligated to respect.

    The accused have procedural rights to fairly and surely establish guilt, but if that guilt (of such a horrible crime) is firmly established, and there are no mitigating factors, then there are few punishments I could think of that they don't deserve. So the worst that the killers' killers would have done in this case is violated the men's right to trial and due process-- but if the men really are guilty of murdering that girl, then their right to life has not been violated by their killers, as the father and grandfather abjured such rights the moment they brutally tortured and murdered that girl. Fuck 'em. Fuck 'em with a rusty shovel sideways. I really do hope they are buried alive or worse.


    Well if the vigilantes have killed the murderers before they have even gone to trial then that is even worse. We certainly can't accept a general principle like "If some member of society decides a person is guilty of murder then they are allowed to kill that person". Society would turn upside down.

    Clearly your view of "rights" is similar to (what I assume is) your view of good and bad actions. Rights are supposed to be absolute, regardless of the situation. Good and bad actions in general are situation dependent. If you believe that there are certain circumstances where somebody's rights can be forfeited, then it seems you never thought they had that right in the first place. That is why the concept of a person's right to life is so attractive. So you must only attach relative value to life. That isn't inherently wrong but I think that if we were to (echoing Kant) universalize this principle, so that the principle that life is only relative would be integrated into society, then in my opinion we end up with a rather unattractive kind of society...

    The unlived life is not worth examining.
  • Re: Turkish teenager buried alive because friendship with boys shamed family
     Reply #59 - February 17, 2010, 12:34 AM

    We're talking about killing a man just in consideration of the very small possibility he manages to escape and kill another innocent. The good doesn't seem to outweigh the bad by killing him, even if I were to allow some leeway and put less value on the murderer's life.


    Yeah, cause no one ever kills in prison.  Roll Eyes And I'm not weighing good against bad. You said "it's not going to solve anything", and I simply refuted that by saying it does permanently solve the threat that person poses to others.

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    Blood-thirsty, perhaps? Not inherently wrong by itself, but not an ideal mode of character to possess.


    If we are talking about their character (your words) and not simply the emotions and thoughts they are having regarding a given situation, then your assessment of their character, lacking any further information about the person, is unfounded. Just because someone thirsts for the blood of a man who raped and murdered their mother, doesn't mean they are a generally bloodthirsty person.

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    Well if the vigilantes have killed the murderers before they have even gone to trial then that is even worse. We certainly can't accept a general principle like "If some member of society decides a person is guilty of murder then they are allowed to kill that person". Society would turn upside down.


    Correct, but, still, if I were sufficiently convinced the father and grandfather were guilty of the crime they were killed over, and I was on the killer's jury, I let them walk. The social consequences of having everyone adopt that as a general principle would not be of any concern to me in that moment-- my only concern would be that I could not morally condemn the killer for that individual act.

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    Clearly your view of "rights" is similar to (what I assume is) your view of good and bad actions. Rights are supposed to be absolute, regardless of the situation. Good and bad actions in general are situation dependent. If you believe that there are certain circumstances where somebody's rights can be forfeited, then it seems you never thought they had that right in the first place. That is why the concept of a person's right to life is so attractive. So you must only attach relative value to life.


    Clearly my ass. An individual's rights are absolute and inviolable until and only until that individual violates the rights of another, and which rights they lose and which they retain roughly correspond to the rights of others they have violated. Otherwise a murderer could not even be imprisoned against their will.

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    That isn't inherently wrong but I think that if we were to (echoing Kant) universalize this principle, so that the principle that life is only relative would be integrated into society, then in my opinion we end up with a rather unattractive kind of society...


    I like Kant, but I don't buy the categorical imperative. Kant thought that lying was always wrong, for example, and that's bullshit.

    fuck you
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